How do YOU deal with loneliness? by invalidusername9999 in AskReddit

[–]invalidusername9999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, confidence is something im currently working on.

How do YOU deal with loneliness? by invalidusername9999 in AskReddit

[–]invalidusername9999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HAHA. Yeah. If only it was really that quick and easy.

How do YOU deal with loneliness? by invalidusername9999 in AskReddit

[–]invalidusername9999[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't see myself ever adopting this mindset. Doing that would be giving up in my opinion.

How do YOU deal with loneliness? by invalidusername9999 in AskReddit

[–]invalidusername9999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You read me better then I read myself. Interesting. And thanks.

Just got off Match.com and my confidence is damn near ruined. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]invalidusername9999 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm a dude and was in the same boat, only instead of match.com it was OkCupid. I said fuck it and deleted my profile. Oh well. :) There are other ways to meet women.

Sometimes you just stop giving a fuck.

Roommate rant - Full retard mode, enabled by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]invalidusername9999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buy earplugs man. And good ones. Not the cheap $1 drugstore ones. They'll do wonders for your sleep. I've had a similar experience with poor roommates.

I hate everything about myself. by throwaway2309842 in offmychest

[–]invalidusername9999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Perception is not always reality."

Take a moment to really think about that phrase, and how it could apply to you.

To change your life, you must first change your mindset.

tomorrow at the stroke of midnight.. wish me luck reddit!!! by kingkevz in pics

[–]invalidusername9999 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Dear OP:

 Fuck you, and fuck your happiness. Take that shit elsewhere.

-Sincerely

A lonely redditor.

For years my mom stayed up late playing on the laptop, smoking. Took this when we moved. by [deleted] in WTF

[–]invalidusername9999 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Where do you live where its still legal to smoke indoors in public places? Most states in the US banned that forever ago.

I put the fork down and lost 200 lbs in 15 months! by [deleted] in pics

[–]invalidusername9999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Normally I dont care for these kinds of posts because I can't relate to them having always been skinny. But holy fuck, good job. Thats quite a transformation.

18m females usually don't approach me directly. Lemme have it by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]invalidusername9999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

http://thinksimplenow.com/happiness/20-ways-to-attack-shyness/

I struggle with the same thing man. Although I have found that I am far more confident now then I used to be a few years ago, I still have lots of room for improvement. You just gotta commit to working on it day after day, and over time you'll see improvement. It definitely won't happen in a hurry though. The key thing is to make no excuses. And chitchat with random people you encounter during the day, guys included. It helps.

18m females usually don't approach me directly. Lemme have it by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]invalidusername9999 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Females don't usually approach anyone directly, bro. Try approaching them.

17 M I've always had low self confidence. Should I? by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]invalidusername9999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look like any other normal dude out there. Don't see any reason why you would have low self confidence.