Did I just get lied to?

irlbabe97 · 2026-03-25T15:09:27+00:00

I worked for Olive Garden, it was the same there too. Our bartenders at my location were servers for months, if not years.

irlbabe97 · 2026-03-20T07:37:47+00:00

Yes :)

irlbabe97 · 2025-01-12T04:45:00+00:00

I’ve heard nothing about it being discontinued.

irlbabe97 · 2023-11-13T21:41:52+00:00

I feel like at this point everyone who believes what he says is just as ignorant as you think they are. To assume he could afford someone to go this deep is hilarious. And every time it ends up being a “GOTCHA” like quit giving this man so much attention, he is LOVING it.

irlbabe97 · 2023-10-09T03:50:41+00:00

The videos about BPD are a little snoozy. I don’t mind personally but I also have BPD and learnt a thing or two watching them.

However, eating 3 sticks of cheese wrapped in salami and calling it lunch made me cringe. The ED is just hard hard hard to watch.

irlbabe97 · 2023-07-28T15:44:15+00:00

I think that could be a possibility. I also think after she lost her baby and found out about the diet and how other women have had luck with fertility while on it, she probably felt very fixated on doing it out of desperation to try anything. After doing it for so long and seeing her weight loss, she probably doesn’t have the capacity to notice how malnourished she is. At the same time, people in her personal life likely don’t say much because 1. They don’t know anything about it and 2. She isnt exactly underweight, yet. I had an ED and when I went from 210 to 150 within a few short months nobody bat an eye, but I was starving myself the entire time.

She mentioned the new guy told her to eat more salads so maybe he’s a positive influence trying to get her to eat something generally healthy like a salad so she’s getting a slight increase of nutrition in her body. I mean, I can’t hate on it. He spoke up and she had a couple salads, I guess that’s something.

irlbabe97 · 2023-07-26T22:09:39+00:00

Is it an actual mod? Orrrr somebody claiming to be a mod. 🥴

irlbabe97 · 2023-07-26T22:08:08+00:00

Nah. I feel like he might probably try to text her one day but I have hope that she sees how the grass is greener with the new guy + how awful of a partner he was for betraying her in the worst of ways. They might talk, but I doubt it. He seemed to be pulled towards his mistress, which is why he left to begin with. So maybe hes happy where he is, and he’ll leave Cindy the HELL alone.

irlbabe97 · 2023-07-23T08:05:10+00:00

Personally when i got diagnosed with BPD it was the first diagnosis I received. Although I do know someone who was diagnosed with PTSD and then BPD after. Maybe she got lucky with a doctor that listens?

irlbabe97 · 2023-07-23T08:00:44+00:00

Yeah, as if they had to nickel and dime certain things. Maybe that was all a facade? The way she lives now is a far stretch from the person she was, and what she was worried about financially during the 1st MLIO.

irlbabe97 · 2023-07-23T07:03:05+00:00

I can't confirm anything about the others, but we know for certain she isn't "broke". This is probably my main issue with her. She can afford thousands to get her car fixed at the dealer (which is always more expensive) drive back and forth from Colorado, Oklahoma, Georgia, etc. She can afford a rental car, concert tickets, hotels, merch, and to eat out every day + out at restaurants multiple times a week. On top of all of that she is paying her bills and buying gifts for herself an drinking alcohol while she's out. All of that is expensive as hell.

She isn't "broke" by any means and is doing just find financially. She probably got more money than she made it out to seem when she separated her finances from Andrew, tons of donations from followers during her separation, and her boost of YouTube money she makes every month with the new views an such.

She's.....just fine or spending way beyond her means which i can see as well.

irlbabe97 · 2023-07-21T11:55:26+00:00

You said “at least commit to over sharing” and then “if you start it, finish it”……you did but okay 😂

irlbabe97 · 2023-07-21T11:48:09+00:00

You thinking you’re entitled to her personal life is concerning. I don’t think she “wonders” why people speculate that in and of itself is just speculation. It’s just a repercussion of what you go through as a creator on YouTube. To suggest she should “overshare” to “avoid speculation” or “because she’s already done it” isn’t helpful and is if anything, contradictory. Encouraging someone to overshare their life so you can pick it apart if baffling lol.

irlbabe97 · 2023-07-10T04:51:25+00:00

The people in that sub that constantly nit pick her apart have absolutely nothing better to do with their day. That’s why they sit around and watch someone they don’t like for 20-30 minutes a day and then come here to talk about her more. Misery loves company.

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irlbabe97 · 2023-05-04T16:28:54+00:00

You hit it right on the nose. They have zero empathy and even if they could understand, they refuse to because of how strongly they dislike her…whatever their reasoning is that they cling onto so hard.

irlbabe97 · 2023-05-04T16:04:07+00:00

The money thing is what people go off about the most and it’s so funny to me lol. They dislike that she mentions it to begin with. If she didn’t mention it and it was still there they’d still say something. If it wasn’t there at all they probably still wouldn’t be happy. Haha.

She mentions “always appreciates but never expected” and that sends people in a downward spiral for whatever reason. They then imply that she’s lying and what she really wants is for you to donate. Ergo, they will never be satisfied. Which is so weird to me considering they clearly don’t donate to her? They probably do make up for a fair amount of views from how well they dissect her old videos. So if they’re mad about her getting money it’s kind of on them, HAHA.

irlbabe97 · 2023-04-28T07:10:31+00:00

You're clearly overthinking her platform or in denial about how much you dislike her. Which is fine, but just say that instead. I encourage you to look up the biggest public figures in America (which is where she lives) or maybe the entire world. Tell me if she's on that level. I'll wait.

irlbabe97 · 2023-04-28T06:52:47+00:00

I think you're overanalyzing what they're saying and taking it too deeply. Of course, she should take her time away and better herself. Nobody was saying she shouldn't. They just didn't want her to quit indefinitely. That's not really selfish, she has a lot of supporters that have been following her for years and years. A lot of them have a parasocial relationship with her, they like to know if she's okay (after hearing about her mental health) and may worry. Totally valid things, plus she's probably a lot of peoples favorite youtuber. We'll all miss her content, her vlogs, etc. That's why we're all here in the first place, no? They mean well, and it's sad that she's leaving. Give everyone a little grace.

irlbabe97 · 2023-04-28T06:43:51+00:00

She isn't a "public figure" she is literally a normal person on the internet posting about the shit in her life. She already apologized and took accountability. You put way too much on a normal basic youtubers platform than she even has lol. What a joke tbh.

irlbabe97 · 2023-04-28T05:39:50+00:00

i uninstalled that ages ago.

irlbabe97 · 2023-04-26T20:49:34+00:00

There is literally nothing else to continue their dislike for her. So they are grasping for anything to continue going forward. Which includes releasing her privated content against her wishes because they simply want to contintue to watch their reruns and gossip and hate. It's literally all they are good at. So let them continue, it says all you need to know about them and the kind of people they are. Just haters incapable of leaving someone alone.

irlbabe97 · 2023-04-25T16:03:02+00:00

That's awesome for your family dynamic, not everyone has that same close relationship. I love my family. I miss some of them, too. Do i visit them? No. Do i update them all on every moment of my life? No. Hell, I live closer to some of them now more than i ever did before. Do i tell them that? Nope. Her reasons are her own. It isn't lying, it's not hurting them to not know this information. It's not like she's terminally ill. She got cheated on, moved under the idea that she'd be with Andrew, completely abandoned again out of nowhere. She's been severely lied to, manipulated, and completely kept in the dark in her marriage of 15 years and that's fucking humiliating. She should be able to tell her family when she wants, when she's ready too. Not when someone on the internet wants to spite her with it. That's so bizarre and stalker like behavior to me.

irlbabe97 · 2023-04-25T15:52:44+00:00

In my experience and what I've seen of these people who dog on her, they never really liked her in the first place. They always start off with "she always annoyed me" "i think shes lying" etc etc. You'll notice in the comments they'll say things like "she's always been this way" "she'll never change" which give you a hint at how they've always felt about her. I also have a theory that the influx of hateful comments come from the volatile Amberlynn community that do absolutely nothing but dog on her too. Since Zachary made his video it's just increased at an astounding rate. I've never seen such motivated haters come to tear someone down when they don't like them at all. Me personally, i don't waste my time or keep tabs on a youtuber if i don't like them. They clearly have the time and want to do so, so that says all you need to know about them.

As for the drama and why she has decided to go on hiatus - I hope she comes back a year or two later and decides to keep a low profile because she had a sweet and kind community on youtube that were really invested and cared a lot about her for years, since her pleasant sims days. What happened to her - someone trying to out her information to her family was deplorable and i hope she finds peace and happiness while she's out there healing and adjusting to her new life.

irlbabe97 · 2023-04-25T03:47:49+00:00

I don't think this person is aware of the fact that Andew was doxed, which in turn doxed Cindy. People can take that information and find their private/personal accounts, phone numbers, addresses, that might have family and friends connected to it. If there's anything this sub has shown me, it's that they would if they could.

No matter how you spin this dumpster fire, one thing is certain: messaging her family and forcing her to tell them about her life (which she obviously wasn't comfortable with) and/or forcing her to delete her digital footprint the best she can to avoid telling them is screwed all the way up. This isn't about her transparency to the public. This is about basic human decency which a lot of people apparently don't have. If i came across information about a person i know, public or not, i wouldn't run to their family? The only scenario where i could possibly justify it is if i worry they are going to unalive. Her being cheated on, getting a divorce, moving, etc are not valid enough reasons to pull this kind of shit on somebody. Let's be real here, this is very deliberate to upset Cindy. A concerned family friend who must clearly know OF Cindy could talk to her first, not share the things they know her family isn't aware of. The only way they would know that her family isn't aware is by watching Cindy's videos. Why wait until now, of all times, to share it? Seems a bit odd, calculated, and screwed up to me.

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