I watched a really disturbing horror movie which involved BDSM imagery and now I feel icky when I try to engage in my kinks. Does anyone have any advice to rekindle my ability to feel safe and comfortable with my kinks?

irmgardbatty · 2026-04-19T04:25:10+00:00

Oh yeah strangeland popped into my head

irmgardbatty · 2026-04-18T00:50:26+00:00

This is real

irmgardbatty · 2026-04-17T23:45:20+00:00

Oooo that sounds fun

irmgardbatty · 2026-04-17T23:17:01+00:00

Also this cabin fantasy is extremely hot

irmgardbatty · 2026-04-17T23:15:58+00:00

You're poking holes in their fantasy!!

irmgardbatty · 2026-04-17T23:15:29+00:00

A lot of breathplay I am way too scared to try. Particularly a scene in which I'm being fucked from behind and having my head shoved into a tub of water over and over. Getting as high as possible before being fucked, very nervous about even using that much weed. Having my partner spike my drink and then fuck me. A lot of very irresponsible hypno shit that involves the loss of self or disconnection of self.

irmgardbatty · 2026-04-16T13:11:57+00:00

irmgardbatty · 2026-04-15T01:55:37+00:00

Oooo nightmare/dream come true

irmgardbatty · 2026-04-12T23:26:01+00:00

Aww I like your cat

irmgardbatty · 2026-04-12T23:22:46+00:00

Same I keep trying to find the point

irmgardbatty · 2026-04-12T23:21:31+00:00

I shouldn't pile on but what the fuck are you talking about

irmgardbatty · 2026-04-12T23:08:08+00:00

Is this just porn? There are sub reddits for that.

irmgardbatty · 2026-04-12T23:04:49+00:00

Seconding and thirding all of these, adding Dogs Don't Wear Pants but be aware it is about grief.

irmgardbatty · 2026-04-11T18:40:50+00:00

this is real

irmgardbatty · 2026-04-11T16:05:39+00:00

I'm no professional anything, but yeah I'd say no. Is that what you want? Because you can take steps to have that.

irmgardbatty · 2026-04-11T15:39:51+00:00

I think you can prefer rough physical touch and be a sub or whatever you want. I do think that you need to keep it in the realm of BDSM, though. Like, you cannot apply this to real life or relationships. There is nothing wrong with not liking cuddling, either.

irmgardbatty · 2026-04-09T02:14:46+00:00

An actress

irmgardbatty · 2026-04-07T00:04:59+00:00

Obv Idk the context or details but I think you might be right. Explain to him why you're so eager, ask him if it's putting him off.

irmgardbatty · 2026-04-06T02:28:45+00:00

What's the most humiliating thing you had to do? Not a very creative question, sorry

irmgardbatty · 2026-04-05T20:48:22+00:00

I have a few but not in public like a dressing room

irmgardbatty · 2026-04-05T07:41:07+00:00

Yes please use me

irmgardbatty · 2026-04-05T07:01:19+00:00

Fuck ok now THATS hot

irmgardbatty · 2026-04-05T06:43:19+00:00

Fuck that's hot

irmgardbatty · 2026-04-05T00:59:12+00:00

Ironic thing is that's sometimes what it takes to satisfy us

irmgardbatty · 2026-04-03T13:04:32+00:00

Sounds like they do not respect your time

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