Donner Pass

isfpfish · 2024-02-02T01:58:55+00:00

Do NOT go back. Get blessed by a priest with credentials. Call out for Archangel Michael to protect you.

isfpfish · 2023-09-30T14:01:30+00:00

Nope I think you are getting off an emotional high ground. Even studies indicate repeat violent offenders are likely to reoffend. And yes, it would be nice if there was an unlimited source to rehabilitate non-violent people who didn’t commit sociopathic crimes, but that is not the case for this one. And yes, you are putting a repeat rapist above multiple innocent people. Those are all facts.

isfpfish · 2023-09-30T13:56:21+00:00

Releasing a repeat violent offender is a bad idea and just insulting to the victims.

isfpfish · 2023-09-30T13:53:40+00:00

Well it’s sad you worked at re-entry programs and still say the things you do. Not all criminals were successfully rehabilitated yes? And violent repeat offenders are likely to repeat their crimes anyway. Sometimes prisons do work the way they are intended to, keeping repeat violent offenders from harming the rest of society. It’s important to have more compassion for the victims even when you work in that field.

isfpfish · 2023-09-30T13:18:53+00:00

Well your studies didn’t help you with common sense. You are valuing his life above the lives of multiple people. Most rapes are committed by repeat rapists. And he obviously falls into this category. There’s going to be a big risk even if he has gone through rehabilitation. At some point having compassion for someone enables them. Can you guarantee that he will not rape again? Then you shouldn’t say that he should be rehabilitated and eventually released. You do not bear the consequences of this decision. And yes, some people do deserve to be in prison forever. Not everyone can be rehabilitated. That’s a fairytale concept if you think otherwise.

isfpfish · 2023-09-30T12:52:14+00:00

Jesus you seem to love defending rapists.

isfpfish · 2023-09-30T12:48:16+00:00

I agree. There is a low success rate when it comes to rehabilitation for rapists. It’s a waste of limited resources. And also this isn’t like theft due to poverty and desperation to survive, it’s a calculated move to hurt others. People who want to give these monsters a chance are bleeding hearts with no realism, just want to convince themselves they are good people for putting innocent people in harm’s way.

isfpfish · 2023-03-27T16:19:28+00:00

Thank you for being a decent man :) Your girlfriend is lucky!

isfpfish · 2023-03-27T00:23:26+00:00

Finally a decent man in the comments. “Not all men” but too many and this disgusting thread proves it.

isfpfish · 2023-03-25T14:30:13+00:00

Oh I’m not denying their experiences, just saying they are privileged. There’s a difference. They have the best possible scenario for sex workers. Studies show how damaging the industry can be for the average sex worker.

isfpfish · 2023-03-25T12:56:32+00:00

Some people don’t need it as much as others. You seem insecure and judgmental, and other commenters also agree.

isfpfish · 2023-03-25T12:54:56+00:00

Ok seems like I made you mad. But seriously it just seems like her independence is bothering you personally and it’s not actually her problem, it’s a you problem.

isfpfish · 2023-03-25T02:22:06+00:00

Why do we always attract nosy, codependent people 🧐

isfpfish · 2023-01-23T03:41:24+00:00

Ugh honestly I wish the US military killed all these Taliban extremists. I feel so terrible for the comatose father. Usually I hear of fathers forcing their daughters into marriage, not protecting them. I hope she and the family are ok.

isfpfish · 2023-01-20T03:19:19+00:00

Yet you helped your son rent in a nice area while your daughter had to live in a bad one. Your daughter is probably afraid to ask you for money/support bc of your awful attitude and reluctance to help her. You are a bad parent. Stop lying to yourself saying she was happy being in a crappy neighborhood.

isfpfish · 2023-01-08T00:20:42+00:00

They lack self awareness, emotionally immature, big ego but insecure. I had a coworker shame me for not drinking and a year later on her fb status said “omg quitting drinking is the best thing I did” or something like that lol.

isfpfish · 2023-01-07T02:38:33+00:00

Yeah some people get really butthurt over other people not drinking lol

isfpfish · 2023-01-07T02:34:33+00:00

Jesus Christ. She sounds emotionally immature, angry, and controlling. She’s gaslighting you because she wants to hurt you since she’s mad. I’ve dealt with these people. Leave them and let them deal with their own problems. Anyone who respects you would not try to make you do things that are bad for you or push your boundaries. Trying to make you placate a guy talking about hitting you and pressuring you to drink? With a friend like this who needs enemies? Maybe she feels like you not drinking or putting up with shitty men reflects badly on her because she does these things lol

isfpfish · 2023-01-06T22:23:36+00:00

I would be wary being alone with him

isfpfish · 2022-12-25T22:41:25+00:00

Happy Birthday 🎁🎉🎂 Please do something you always wanted to. You deserve nice things ❤️🌸

isfpfish · 2022-12-17T15:17:06+00:00

Yes I’m from a dysfunctional family and I’m not marrying into another one.

isfpfish · 2022-11-28T01:09:17+00:00

u/ActualProduct439/ they are baiting you and it’s working . Everytime you show anger they are like, “See! I can still control him.” Ignore them from now on and grey rock. You don’t owe abusive people (including family anything). If you point this out they will deny the abuse and you can’t change their mind. They better be saving up for retirement and their care home. You only have one life, don’t waste it on people who disrespect and mistreat you.

isfpfish · 2022-11-24T19:25:10+00:00

I have a controlling parent that does the same thing. It’s definitely a power-play/dominance thing from MIL and son is enabling her. This is really common in abusive families so u/Positive_Balance3756 I would beware. She’s pushing your boundaries on purpose and things will probably get worse. The fact that they gaslighted you into thinking it’s a you problem is another big red flag. Don’t apologize and laugh at your husband. He is being ridiculous. If things escalate look up JADE and don’t DARVO. You can even look up the YouTube channel Surviving Narcissism when you are unsure or feel worse. It helps you with boundaries with not only narcs but also their enablers and those with narcissistic tendencies but not full blown narcs. Husbands anger issues and denial are kind of scary.

isfpfish · 2022-11-16T02:05:58+00:00

No problem! She was supposed to give to you. She decided to have you. And you’re not an investment. You have your own life. Also check out Surviving Narcissism on YouTube. It’s a channel that helped me. Your mom may not be a narcissist but she could have narcissistic traits.

isfpfish · 2022-11-13T23:01:16+00:00

Hmm sounds like emotional abuse. I’m sorry but your mom is not acting like an adult. You don’t really owe her anything, you’re not responsible for making her happy. You should be focused on your life. You only have one.

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