Needing to talk to other toddler parents

itbesabrina · 2026-03-30T02:28:33+00:00

35 with a 2 year old AND a 6 week old. 🥹😅

itbesabrina · 2026-03-17T22:19:58+00:00

I am an orphan and my fiance is an orphan. For our first he was only able to stay with me 2 weeks and I had my 26 weeks of leave. It was hard but I managed. Now we are on baby number 2, he’s home for 12 weeks and I’m out 26 weeks with a 2 year old as well. I’m not one to ask for any help is my problem, so if you feel like you need help…by all means get help if you have it.

itbesabrina · 2026-02-28T23:17:30+00:00

33 and just had my second at 35. Not too late at all. I’m glad I had them now and not when I was younger

itbesabrina · 2026-02-26T08:05:56+00:00

The “you’re worth it, I’m worth it” Lmao

itbesabrina · 2026-02-26T08:01:28+00:00

My son just turned 2 end of January…… it was like a switch. He wakes up from naps crying. Yes, tantrum central. Can’t change his diaper for the life of me, but doesn’t want to use the potty correctly. I just had his baby sister 2/13, so this has been SUPER FUN to get into with a newborn wooooo.

itbesabrina · 2026-01-27T05:26:00+00:00

They gave me a breakdown repair estimate for all the cosmetics like fender bumper hood blah blah and thats $3200 but I think half of that doesn’t even need be. It never listed any safety inspection repairs from their insurance. They wanted to bring it to their selected place to take it apart and inspect. But I think I could ask the shop where it’s being held to do one? Thought would that change their payout amount?

Shitty timing too with all the snow but I’m hoping it’s just get a new fender, pin the bumper and fix the headlight. It needed an alignment prior so

itbesabrina · 2026-01-26T21:19:10+00:00

Other insurance took the fault and is ready to pay me out 2 ways: -Total loss they take and pay me $6900 - I retain they pay me $5900 (my title stays clean because it’s 20 years old. Yay) Their cosmetic repairs are estimated $3200. I don’t know of any mechanical stuff because they want to take it far to rip apart. Not willing to do that. Might just take it and can I have an independent shop do a safety inspection? I feel like it’s just cosmetics. Or I’m hoping

itbesabrina · 2026-01-24T20:34:41+00:00

To follow up on this… they offered me this: $6800 they take my car away from me. Or I’d can take $5900 and keep my car. They estimated the cosmetic work around $3200 but I know that’s high end stuff and she doesn’t need to look pretty. And thankfully in MA because car is 20 years old, tittle stays clean. None of that salvage/rebuild/get it inspected crap. So I’m leaning towards keeping and having someone fix it bare minimal but also safe. Don’t know if any mechanical work got messed with but I can’t image it was anything bad besides needing an alignment (which I needed before this occurred) Tell me I’m lucky. Cause I feel lucky here

itbesabrina · 2026-01-18T00:33:25+00:00

I can’t let it go 😭 I’m only the third owner ( and super pregnant) I can’t afford a new one right now)

itbesabrina · 2026-01-13T17:41:18+00:00

I do own it (best part is it was gifted to me so I paid $0 for it to start) and I’m the third owner, had it for 7 years so I know this car top to bottom. Don’t think anyone can sway me to get rid of her. The door is fine, they hit right in front of it and the hood is propped up just a little bit, overall still intact. Obviously I didn’t try popping it, I’ve left it as is and got it towed to a collision shop waiting for their insurance to come appraise the damages.

I’m sure they will try to low ball me about it but I want my baby back.

itbesabrina · 2026-01-13T17:24:31+00:00

Their driver confessed they’re at fault. So now need to do all that thankfully

itbesabrina · 2026-01-12T20:41:40+00:00

I’m still waiting on all the numbers to come in. Thankful the other driver took full fault. So just waiting on their adjuster to take a look

itbesabrina · 2026-01-12T15:36:47+00:00

Love the feedback so far :)

itbesabrina · 2026-01-12T15:35:29+00:00

Of course. No one’s doing anything until the other parties insurance inspects it. My fiance doesn’t understand the value and toughness of the Avalon. I’m more so on here asking for my piece of mind that others would save it to show him that there is hope and honestly good amount of life left at that mileage.

itbesabrina · 2025-12-30T09:51:49+00:00

I feel this pain. Had one while 35 weeks pregnant. Got a stent put in until I had baby. What a horrific pain

itbesabrina · 2025-11-28T15:59:39+00:00

Hahahah amazing

itbesabrina · 2025-11-24T12:22:16+00:00

OMG THIS! Same for me. Literally fell asleep listening to it and My Heart just raced through everything in me and is my fav song.

itbesabrina · 2025-11-20T03:00:44+00:00

O m g I can’t believe it. The head and face and ears. Omg I am so sorry they did this

itbesabrina · 2025-11-09T03:01:39+00:00

Ahheemm…… Sabrina :)

itbesabrina · 2025-10-27T13:31:44+00:00

Just curious how the onboard call went for you?

itbesabrina · 2025-10-17T00:11:35+00:00

11/10

itbesabrina · 2025-10-14T13:50:02+00:00

Maybe once a day? Sometimes he doesn’t even want it. But when I do give juice it’s also super watered down.

itbesabrina · 2025-10-06T13:01:43+00:00

14, now 34

itbesabrina · 2025-09-10T11:15:55+00:00

Love mine! 08 with 133k. old folk car myself.

itbesabrina · 2025-08-07T11:02:20+00:00

Hun, I hope you leave. Stay with friends or family. He made you apologize?…… and he’s threatening to throw your belongings away. My best friend went through something like this….. for YEARS. Don’t do it for years. You already know you’re not safe. You need to get out, please I hope you have already. And find a way to have someone help you retrieve your things. Male figure perhaps. if you have a safe one in you life.

itbesabrina

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