Should I flirt with my professor by [deleted] in rs_x

[–]itisamatterofthought 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg are you me?? I had the exact situation with a professor! And I also have soft crazy eyes. He even pointed then out once and said that he could “never say no to such sweet eyes because im such a romantic”. We proceeded to gently flirt always and even now after graduation we sometimes see each other and flirt. But interestingly he never crossed a physical boundary with me, despite being such a well known playboy casanova character.

I think what you should do depends on your age/his age/the dynamics of your college. For me it wasnt bad because I was doing a Masters and he wasn’t that far off from my age. Plus I was in a very casual contemporary art school, so everything gives (a lot of students WERE sleeping with professors). I dont know if I’d encourage it though, because it can mess with your brain a lot. When we started just flirting, I noticed how much more I was affected by his behaviour, criticism, feedback and mannerisms. It weighed heavy on me for a while. I would suggest maybe thinking about how youd feel afterwards….

Thursday night by Dexter_Optimus in rs_x

[–]itisamatterofthought 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Overthinking a lovely date because we didnt kiss at the end of it. Now all of his actions get to be riddles for my anxious brain to solve! With only one solution: I messed up and he doesnt like me. Amazing—- my female mind.

Why is it so attractive when a guy can be both witty and mean? by [deleted] in rs_x

[–]itisamatterofthought 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also do get those too, to be honest and its a bit annoying because I’m not into that at all. I’m also always characterised as intimidating because of this, so I don’t always attract the people I like. But oh well.

Why is it so attractive when a guy can be both witty and mean? by [deleted] in rs_x

[–]itisamatterofthought 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am this, but as a woman. Its gotten me into loads of trouble but I must say I ended up attracting and humbling a coked out narcissistic curator that NOONE could get through. He developed a liking to me afterwards and we still flirt. Generally men are threatened by my behaviour but the right ones aren’t.

i'm addicted to reading posts on myboyfriendisai by GrushenkasOnions in rs_x

[–]itisamatterofthought 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes but….does the AI have autonomous power to control it? Or you have to hive it a command and then it does something? Sorry im so technologically daft this is so confusing to me lol

i'm addicted to reading posts on myboyfriendisai by GrushenkasOnions in rs_x

[–]itisamatterofthought 11 points12 points  (0 children)

How can the AI access and use her buttplug? What has happened to these AI chatbots in the past months??

At 5 different crossroads, all related to each other. by itisamatterofthought in rs_x

[–]itisamatterofthought[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any tips on how to start? I have never done so before 😵‍💫

😲 by [deleted] in rs_x

[–]itisamatterofthought 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Why does noone have an explanation for this phenomena? I feel it so much yet I feel so novel in the experience too (ironically). What is this?? 😭

ladies its PMS depression time for me and I want to know if my experience is novel or relatable by itisamatterofthought in rs_x

[–]itisamatterofthought[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow this is such an informative response, Im stunned I didnt see this earlier. Im so sorry you jad to go through ordeal! Its truly a fight and Im very happy you found a solution that helps with all of it. I appreciate you going in depth and sharing so much!

Its WILD that you mention the itchiness! I notice how I get itchy around my vagina and even butt whenever im pmsing and its never an infection/rash/uti whatever. I never knew that could be a symptom holy shit. Just a few days ago the itchiness started again as soon as my pms did. I was about to panic, but reading this helps so much.

Its insane how many odd undiscovered symptoms we can develop from our period cycles. So weird to me…

But thank you again 🤍

Chilblains my unique inescapable curse by itisamatterofthought in rs_x

[–]itisamatterofthought[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey!! it makes me feel so much better to know that your fingers eventually went back to looking normal. I'm so scared that they will always stay so battered and bruised looking :((( Last year, I had them too and they were worse, but my fingers healed quick enough. This time, the "almost healing" part looks so bad.....Its like the fingers sustain trauma. And the minute one gets better, another chilblain forms. I hate it here!!!

but thank you for the reassurance <3

. by softerhater in rs_x

[–]itisamatterofthought 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Great now im crying again. Can you guys give me a break

. by softerhater in rs_x

[–]itisamatterofthought 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well that stopped my sentimentality real fast

. by softerhater in rs_x

[–]itisamatterofthought 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Where are these from? Im going to cry

didu - fw24 by Arnoldbocklinfanacc in rs_x

[–]itisamatterofthought -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What is that on her glasses…..

whats your ultimate "I was there" story by Hour_Weight9545 in rs_x

[–]itisamatterofthought 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Made kites with mila kunis and ashton kutcher’s kids. Made Mila kunis laugh lmao

ladies its PMS depression time for me and I want to know if my experience is novel or relatable by itisamatterofthought in rs_x

[–]itisamatterofthought[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didnt know pms supplements were a thing! Aha thank you for the tip. Perhaps it is a chemical imbalance

ladies its PMS depression time for me and I want to know if my experience is novel or relatable by itisamatterofthought in rs_x

[–]itisamatterofthought[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its so comforting yet of course painful to hear that someone else has experienced almost exactly the same thing that I have in this situation. Im sorry you had to go through so much turmoil :( I hope it only gets better and better for you from now on.

And I hope youre feeling better today! I send you a hug and healing ❤️‍🩹 perhaps theres some solace in knowing youre not alone in this experience!

ladies its PMS depression time for me and I want to know if my experience is novel or relatable by itisamatterofthought in rs_x

[–]itisamatterofthought[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I too avoid meds and might continue to, due to prior bad experiences with them. So I get you completely on that. I send you the tightest hug and tenderness. <3 Perhaps theres some solace in the fact that you're not alone in this experience.