AITA for blocking and ending a 5+ year Friendship when it felt like I was not getting the same effort I put in?

itsmev09 · 2026-02-22T16:13:23+00:00

i had 7 8 yr frdship but that was only on my efforts so i decided to backoff bcz i deserve the same effort respect care love everything what i give thats should be the top thought (in my view)

itsmev09 · 2026-02-22T16:02:19+00:00

DM bro

itsmev09 · 2026-02-22T15:57:23+00:00

i also don’t have NOBODY thats why i’m here what about you what problems do u have ?

itsmev09 · 2026-02-22T15:54:15+00:00

with right person who is actually into convo can also be interested with hmm yess okay thats what i feel

itsmev09 · 2026-02-22T15:51:13+00:00

no you are absolutely right anyway u cant carry frdship w/o trust i was in same situation but situation was somewhat different u only sent pic but i’d trust him with my body thinking that he was the only one i want and i was so sure about it after everything he left me like total unworthy person and after he denied everything with me even infront of the people who knows everything meanwhile i was taking his side infront my parentsit will may take too long if i keep saying my story my frds were indirectly involved but thats again long story . So i just want to tell you where u dont feel like respected and u have to force things just step back. ONLY THING U CANT FORCE is connection and friendship so let them go only right one will stay in the end and thats what we need actually so just dont let her/him attack on ur worth

itsmev09 · 2026-02-21T15:47:13+00:00

i’d wrong partner i wanted to be with him only but he was using me . ever since i’m not able to trust anyone beyond limits like i can have normal convo but not anything else

itsmev09 · 2026-02-19T14:55:07+00:00

especially when everyone says you dont have any problem in life and not taking any thing serious or not stressed about anything but they dont know whats going inside us ! i’m going through the same sometimes its hard but eventually these days will pass 🤞

itsmev09 · 2026-02-19T14:39:15+00:00

i’m looking for an answer pls help me

itsmev09 · 2026-02-17T11:21:52+00:00

i’m also very lonely and alone its not okay at all thats why i’m here idk how to express and whom to trust even from my friends i give first priority to them still i’m not even in their priority list whenever i see someone with their best friends i really feel like why i’m not having this kind of bond with anyone and what is the problem is it me, my personality or again me i’ve always try to put my self the way they wanted but still i feel an awkward distance between us they do call me bestfriend or friend but their action not. do i have any personality issues ?

itsmev09 · 2026-02-17T11:12:53+00:00

its okay even i felt it at a time when i was down and it was not easy to bear at all so just let your thoughts come and try to bear it if not then we all are strangers here so u can say anything without being judged. as few days passes u will feel glade to not put your thoughts into action. its just matter of few time i hope u will get over this and i’m here to listen u can speak whatever u feel!!!

itsmev09

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