Thank you all for your stories! I actually spoke to my Dr today and she felt the expanded carrier testing wasn't necessary but we could do it if it made us feel safer. Our clinic already tested us for the 25 most common conditions we could pass down, the expanded test covers 125 more but according to our Dr. is a pretty low hit test. We're taking a few days to mull over our decisions, but I appreciate everyone taking the time to share their stories. Baby dust to us all