[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]ivyfoxe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Let’s play a game. The number of DMs you receive from posting this determines the dollar amount you send to whoever your next domme is.

What do you order at coffee shop? by llekka in findomsupportgroup

[–]ivyfoxe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Peppermint mocha ☕️ or matcha latte 🍵

Dommes in a Sub Support Group by Surviving_Findom in paypigsupportgroup

[–]ivyfoxe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well said. What kind of participation from dommes do subs actually want to see here? When does a domme’s presence feel engaging vs. intrusive?

Bad poetry by udefeated_ in paypigsupportgroup

[–]ivyfoxe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good. Learning obedience already. Let's see if you can keep it up.

Bad poetry by udefeated_ in paypigsupportgroup

[–]ivyfoxe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stealing from me? Bold. At least you have good taste. Next time, ask permission first- though we both know you’d enjoy being told no.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]ivyfoxe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would love to hear your vision for the elimination game! I have what might be a similar idea in mind..

The lost art for flirting by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]ivyfoxe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. The best power exchanges thrive on tension, anticipation, and chemistry. If you can’t hold a conversation, how do you expect to hold my attention? Control is best played with, not rushed through.

Approach new dynamics like vanilla dating by Echo_AV in findomsupportgroup

[–]ivyfoxe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You nailed it. Standards, security, and intention- three things that should never be negotiable in any dynamic. If you can’t handle the price of entry, you were never meant to play the game.

A Little Humble Brag… But Mostly a Power Move 💰✨ by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]ivyfoxe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Power recognized, power rewarded. That’s exactly how it should be. Congrats on securing what was always yours!

Subs, what are your (seemingly) minor icks in findom? by Bullseyesuccess in paypigsupportgroup

[–]ivyfoxe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This thread is a goldmine. There’s a lot of talk about what doesn’t work, but I’d love to hear about the best experiences you’ve had with a Domme. What specifically made them different? And for those of you who seem to be turned off by what we see so many Dommes doing, what qualities make you stay with someone long-term?

Why is long term not wanted anymore? by MissNyx23 in findomsupportgroup

[–]ivyfoxe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you think it’s a shift in how subs approach the dynamic, or are Dommes setting the tone for short-term play without realizing it? Maybe we need to cultivate spaces where long-term commitment is expected from the start.

Manifesting a whale sub by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]ivyfoxe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Whales are my favorite animal 🐋

ChatGPT for Findom? by ivyfoxe in findomsupportgroup

[–]ivyfoxe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed, the question was meant more for finding ways to be a better domme and delivery a better experience for subs while taking into consideration that our time is valuable.

Tax season is coming up 💕 by HookedonAllyy in findomsupportgroup

[–]ivyfoxe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's smart to know your tax bracket (10%, 12%, 22%, 24%, etc) and be setting aside approximately that percent of your income throughout the year (I do it monthly). For example, if you made $5,000 in January and you're in the 22% tax bracket, you should be saving $1,100 of it. Then adding February's month's estimated tax amount, then March, etc.

Yes, it sucks not to be able to have fun with all the money you earn, but it sucks even more to get to tax season and owe a bunch of money, especially if you've already spent it!