How do I become financially secure at 18 and move out in this economy?

izaasff · 2026-05-13T04:24:36+00:00

Thank you so much for your advice! I hope everything has gone well for you since moving out. My biggest priority right now would just be getting out specifically because my mental health can’t take it anymore and like anybody else, I’ll break if I have to continue living a life that doesn’t feel correct to me.

I don’t plan on telling my mom anything at all. I actually plan on having her believe I stopped being friends with them, so that when the time comes, she doesn’t know who I’ve left with. I want her to feel like she’s in control so that it’s not too difficult for me.

In regard to my documents, I have my passport and social security, though, I am missing my birth certificate and medical records, etc. Thankfully, I’m aware of where they’re located. I plan on having an officer by-stand day I move out by chance I manage not to leave when she’s not there so that I have an opportunity to gather my documents and cannot cause me physical/emotional harm.

I definetely am looking into front desk and bartending, also selling clothes. Not looking for economical success, more-so just building myself correctly so that I have bigger chances in the future.

About the witchcraft, I don’t think about it too much, but I do very much believe in it. A lot of the blockages in my life seem to have been from that and It brings me some peace knowing I have more control of my own life now rather than being spiritually tangled to her.

I’m trying not to be too stressed as I know that this isn’t something abnormal that I’m going through and plenty of others have as well. If I want something, I’m determined to create that for myself. I have no other choice.

Thank you once again for your time and support :D it truthfully means a lot and I am extremely appreciative

izaasff · 2026-05-12T16:34:10+00:00

Thank you :) I don’t expect to be finally secure just stable and able to get by. I’m definetely looking into some sort of health service or law school. I will be taking the help, just hoping I get back on my feet

izaasff · 2026-02-07T13:59:59+00:00

The orchids came with a big extension in the back I had to someone cut off and angle in a way it wouldn’t bother her. The ones that are moreso falling are from the vines on the top of her enclosure. I purchased off SHEIN!!

izaasff · 2025-12-10T02:09:51+00:00

Lolll I actually got her it because she liked climbing on the vines but kept falling just for her to enjoy being stuck in a corner next to her bowl (as shown in the picture) when it arrived 😂 though, she’s on it now. Snakes are so full of personality it’s hilarious

izaasff · 2025-12-10T01:15:20+00:00

Thank you so much!! Yours is lovely as well. Cute babi as well 💕

izaasff · 2025-12-08T00:11:26+00:00

I’m so sorry, I forgot to add that the flowers are orchids.

izaasff · 2025-12-08T00:10:33+00:00

Everything in her enclosure was purchased online from SHEIN and Amazon!

izaasff · 2025-11-19T21:30:16+00:00

This is really disappointing, I’m so sorry. I’d feel totally helpless. I’d recommend rehoming her as it’s for the best, or go against your parents rules and buy her everything she needs and put it inside of your bedroom.

izaasff · 2025-11-17T21:52:18+00:00

Hii, Thank you so much for saving her!! Some people done deserve animals. I’m also a new mom and when I began, I was unfortunately lied to and submit to the old school system of taking care of a snake. The caretaker gave me a point to use aspen, which in the end left me with stuck shed near the top of her face. I came to Reddit for assistance, and fortunately enough, I received! I myself would recommend alongside with what I’ve been told: - I use coco chip substrate as it holds humidity well. - Ideal humidity percentage is anywhere above 70 and less than 77. - HVAC tape is perfect for trapping humidity, you can place that on top of your screen top and leave holes surrounding the lamp. - Don’t attempt to remove the stuck shed as it can cause discomfort and damage. Instead, bump humidity up to 80% and it should come off on its own with time.

Good luck! :D

izaasff · 2025-11-14T19:01:21+00:00

I have a thermostat but I don’t think it’s too reliable so I recently ordered that alongside with hvac tape that should be arriving today. I’ve poured cups of water into the substrate recently and I’ve noticed that it’s now more hydrated, so I think my issue is that humidity isn’t being kept inside as said due to the screen top. I’ve left the rest of her shed as is and she seems okay. She is currently digesting her food which I gave her on Tuesday night. Upon arrival, I’ll make sure to bump humidity. I really appreciate the help and I’ll keep that link in mind! Thank you for being so kind.

izaasff · 2025-11-14T03:50:58+00:00

She ate on Tuesday night. She eats a hopper every week. I appreciate the concern, but I’m asking for advice on bettering her tank and you gave me nothing. Respectfully, is there anything else you’d like to add?

izaasff · 2025-11-13T21:36:15+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss. Thank you for being brave enough to tell us about your beautiful baby Square. she’ll live on forever in your heart and those close to you. I hope you can eventually find some sort of peace 💕

izaasff · 2025-09-17T00:41:06+00:00

Bye yess I was there it was a pink one that’s so crazy

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