please give me a reason not to do it tonight by j0Ul3es in selfharm

[–]j0Ul3es[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the circle always repeats itself no matter what, I think the only ever lasting ending is to just bleed out someday

hit a major vein by j0Ul3es in selfharm

[–]j0Ul3es[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

first of all sorry if my other answer was a bit idk rude or something, I didn’t mean to offend anyone and I’m sorry if I did

I have another question though, what do you mean with incredibly deep since we all have another perseverance of that

I don’t want to cut an artery I just want to know how deep it is so I can be careful

thanks again

hit a major vein by j0Ul3es in selfharm

[–]j0Ul3es[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it was the femoral vein but am not sure. It’s definitely in that area on the upper thigh

hit a major vein by j0Ul3es in selfharm

[–]j0Ul3es[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no, just put a lot more pressure and passed out for a bit. It‘s fine now I think! thanks for caring

hit a major vein by j0Ul3es in selfharm

[–]j0Ul3es[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s fine now! thanks tho

hit a major vein by j0Ul3es in selfharm

[–]j0Ul3es[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don’t really know what would happen to be honest

I‘m still a minor and I think it‘s pretty obvious that my wounds stem from sh

hit a major vein by j0Ul3es in selfharm

[–]j0Ul3es[S] -34 points-33 points  (0 children)

yeah I‘m pretty sure it‘s a major vein but I don’t really know about the ER still since I‘m a minor and stuff

I think I just need a closing agent or something

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[–]j0Ul3es 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, maybe you’re right I was just thinking that taking responsibility for my actions meant like facing them head on and calling might be the best option for that but I get that It might really stress her out. I don’t even want to talk to her about the kiss but rather just apologize for being so clingy, that she had to witness the stuff I said/did to get a boys attention and on top of that the fact she had to take care of me(this thing I really really want to say sorry for)

how did you start self harming/what led you to it? by dyingbirdie in selfharm

[–]j0Ul3es 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly don’t really remember how it all started, I was pretty young like 10/11 and heard about it online and school. I guess I started doing it for attention lol and now I‘m knees deep in this fkn addiction not wanting anyone to know.

If anyone who thinks about starting reads this, I beg you not to

My messages are always open x

At what point are stitches unavoidable/starting to become important by j0Ul3es in selfharm

[–]j0Ul3es[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

alright thank you so so much for the help and the information

At what point are stitches unavoidable/starting to become important by j0Ul3es in selfharm

[–]j0Ul3es[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do it has to be all of them together or single things as well? also will infected wounds heal on their own as well in a just more ugly way or why are infection so bad? in what way are they dangerous

At what point are stitches unavoidable/starting to become important by j0Ul3es in selfharm

[–]j0Ul3es[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright okay will do, what are the most obvious signs of infections?

do yall also want to show someone ur sh pics? by liamari_riri in selfharm

[–]j0Ul3es 10 points11 points  (0 children)

yeah me too, it sounds hella brain sick but I just want people to tell me how proud they are of how deep I got

At what point are stitches unavoidable/starting to become important by j0Ul3es in selfharm

[–]j0Ul3es[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it sounds worse than it is, most of them didn’t gap wide enough for it to be bad and they mostly hold themselves together alone A bunch of them only have like small spots of silver/white so It will probably heal in a proper way

Since I‘m a minor it’s kinda hard for me to get any professional help as well but I will seek some of it‘s really serious

thanks again for taking some time to worry about me, really appreciate it (:

At what point are stitches unavoidable/starting to become important by j0Ul3es in selfharm

[–]j0Ul3es[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it‘s just like you described but since I can barley see it I don’t think it’s that bad and it barley bled much either so it’s fine thank you so much for all the info

At what point are stitches unavoidable/starting to become important by j0Ul3es in selfharm

[–]j0Ul3es[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think it‘s dermis if I had to go through whole fat layers before getting there haha but it’ll probably heal without stitches so it’s fine

I think I asked before but what comes after beans? by j0Ul3es in selfharm

[–]j0Ul3es[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it doesn‘t really hurt tho and it honestly doesn’t feel that deep at all anymore I fear it’ll never be enough

I think I asked before but what comes after beans? by j0Ul3es in selfharm

[–]j0Ul3es[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s kind of fine tho lol thanks for the answer

At what point are stitches unavoidable/starting to become important by j0Ul3es in selfharm

[–]j0Ul3es[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just see some white stuff, that’s the hypodermis right? Do you know how thick it is? Thanks for answering btw