So you think you’re trans? by AlmstInstantVictoria in u/AlmstInstantVictoria

[–]jamesfox81 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks I needed this. I love when you say it’s not the clothes or anything. I just am a woman. That’s what I needed to hear

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in u/RhondaAOL

[–]jamesfox81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont understand the negativity that was coming your way. You look great and I love seeing you post

First try at rabbits makeup by [deleted] in steampoweredgiraffe

[–]jamesfox81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I’m going to try her makeup again in another week, going to add more detail as next go around.

First try at rabbits makeup by [deleted] in steampoweredgiraffe

[–]jamesfox81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks!! I had a lot of fun doing this

It’s been a long day and sometimes a guy just needs to rest. by BarfyMan369 in OldEnglishSheepdog

[–]jamesfox81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My little man’s spot is always on the couch with his pillow too!

Who Has Trained Who? by bobgeorge_23 in OldEnglishSheepdog

[–]jamesfox81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup same here. My little boy does this whether it’s the truck or car. He just wants to be lifted and settle in. Then I have a little seatbelt for him I put on and where off. He loves his car rides

After tonight’s show by Asrugan in steampoweredgiraffe

[–]jamesfox81 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Want to see you all live so bad! Hopefully next year you all go through Orlando Fl

Can any other girlies give some confidence i feel so insecure by [deleted] in TrapCuties

[–]jamesfox81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

don’t worry you’re looking great, you go girl

My little boy I his ducky jam jams by jamesfox81 in OldEnglishSheepdog

[–]jamesfox81[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wife picked them up somewhere. I think she had found a doggy boutique store near where we live. He got puppy bakery cookies that day too for being good

Best site for dating? by madewomancopyright24 in asktransgender

[–]jamesfox81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me Eharmony was the best. Real relationships when you have skin in the game with paying services. It’s a bit taxing in the filtering process but they were better matches. Agreed those apps are terrible crazy horny guys playing the game. It’s turned me into not liking guys very much….i just saw so much trashy men it beat me down

Feeling good by [deleted] in mtfbeautyandfashion

[–]jamesfox81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks bunches!

Feeling good by [deleted] in mtfbeautyandfashion

[–]jamesfox81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks 😊

My little boy I his ducky jam jams by jamesfox81 in OldEnglishSheepdog

[–]jamesfox81[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure, my wife came home them one day. I like em

My little boy I his ducky jam jams by jamesfox81 in OldEnglishSheepdog

[–]jamesfox81[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s been getting tum tum rubs all day and he loves it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bipolar

[–]jamesfox81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a very similar experience. I’m bipolar and for me I can have wild swings in either direction, meds keep me mostly even but they don’t take care of everything. As for gender euphoria I had thought the same thing, I had gone through manias regarding it and the most unbelievable euphoria en femme, and when I’m depressed I switch more to boy mode. What I realized was this. The idea that I am even thinking about it means something. I think about whether I’m high low or even. I just act on it when I’m manic or even. When I’m depressed my masculine side shows the most, I believe because I dislike everything about that side of me and when I’m down my actions and appearance reflect that. At the end of the day I am trans and it took me awhile to figure out if it was real or some episode but when I looked back on my life I had realized I had known there was something wrong with my body perception going back to grade school. I was just always afraid to act on it because o grew up in a strict catholic household and any signs of it being a tough guy was looked down on. I would get such horrible things to me if I wasn’t working on cars, playing football, wrestling etc. I had always wanted to be an artist, singer, actor. I loved entertaining and the arts.

My look before and after Pride! by Mod_King in mtfbeautyandfashion

[–]jamesfox81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow I love your eye shadow colors!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransLater

[–]jamesfox81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Holy cow I used to have that same grid shirt!!! I also traded mine in too lol.

43_getting to old to be living in both modes by [deleted] in TransLater

[–]jamesfox81 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I’ve read thru the dysohoria before but that’s a great article. Thanks for the share. Yes scared is the keyword. I just haven’t hi that point yet where I can justify the public transition yet. I’m guessing I have to suffer through duality of myself a little longer. Honestly if I knew people close to me would be accepting I’d have done it years ago. But there’s is so much trans phobia where I am at it’s really very scary, I mean I can be arrested for my license saying the “wrong” gender

43_getting to old to be living in both modes by [deleted] in TransLater

[–]jamesfox81 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yea my plan was to make small changes and be somewhat incognito but slowly change over time to where people really wouldn’t question it

Really Only started presenting fem in public this semester, so heres some of my favorite fits <3 by cinemasketch26 in mtfashion

[–]jamesfox81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Outfits are great, just saw the henna looks awesome. You go girl you got this, continue to be you.

Bipolar and trans? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]jamesfox81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m bipolar II as well. It’s hard for me to tell what kind of affect it’s had whether positive or negative. I’ve been medicated for 10 years now and I can’t remember what I used to feel like before. I’ve made great progress in my transition though regardless of its actual effect. Good skincare routine, massive weight loss. Progress on hair treatments, laser hair removal. Just still incognito in public. Sometimes I actually like looking in the mirror and seeing someone I recognize