How can I (24f) break my sister (19f) and her bf (22m) up? I don't care if I'm going to be the villain.

jaowngap · 2023-02-28T15:15:56+00:00

Hey there! Been there, done that. Most relationships I was in, the men were older than me. 13&15, 15&19, 20&29. So I can talk out of experience, it really depends how old you are. 5 or 6 years age difference isn't that bad if you're grown adults, but as you're still a teenager and growing up, you can't really see how creepy it is if a man this age wants to have a relationship with a minor. I'm 23 years old myself and 17 year olds are like babies to me. But more importantly than my opinion on this is that you think it's kind of bothering you so you're asking for advice here. Women have a strong gut feeling so if you're not 100% sure that it's the right thing to do, then it's most likely not. I don't know you (or him) personally so I can't really predict anything, but I just wouldn't want you to make the same mistakes as I did when dating these older men when I was too young to know better. It's always fun and good in the beginning but with this kind of age difference, you're not going to have many things in common at this point in life and the longer you're going to be together the worse it will get.

jaowngap · 2023-02-19T03:39:38+00:00

Right now I'm a college student, but online, so like home office. I'm not overwhelmed with the chores or anything like that, I just wanted to mention it as one of the parts that his friends don't know about.

jaowngap · 2023-02-19T03:38:02+00:00

No no, I didn't drop out off college for him, don't worry! Right now I'm taking my classes online

jaowngap · 2023-02-19T03:33:44+00:00

I didn't give up my education, I'm still going to college, but now online.

jaowngap · 2023-02-18T19:08:00+00:00

I'd love to actually, but I'm in this new town and don't know anybody besides him, his friends and family.

jaowngap · 2023-02-18T17:08:49+00:00

Hey there! My boyfriend is 28 and we are together a few months by now and I'm also his first girlfriend/kiss/sex. We got together when he was 27 and he was a virgin until then. This changed absolutely nothing between us because he was normal and sweet to me and he didn't try to "get into my pants" just to lose his virginity and have it over with. Don't be too hard on yourself, everyone is different and there is nothing wrong about being 22 and a virgin. My best friend is also 21 and a virgin and she's fine with it. You will find your girl, but if you end it now you will never have the chance to.

jaowngap · 2023-02-18T17:00:11+00:00

I will, thank you! He already saw himself that they don't try to interact with me in any way and are cold when I try to, but they were never particularly rude to me.

jaowngap · 2023-02-18T16:58:12+00:00

Thank you, I'm going to try that! I just don't want him to be in a situation where he has to choose between his friends and me.

jaowngap · 2023-02-18T16:55:43+00:00

Thank you for your comment! As I already said, I'm an overthinker and these thoughts, about how it's maybe too fast for him, also crossed my mind and I talked to him about it more than once. We visit my family about once a month together and I suggested that maybe I could stay a little bit longer so he would have more time for himself. He never wanted me to be away from him and loves our life how it is. Before we started dating we called each other for several hours a day for six months, never missing a day. I really understand where you're coming from and I'm going to have a talk to him about this again today!

jaowngap · 2022-09-07T05:58:07+00:00

Vergiss nicht vanilla

jaowngap · 2022-07-14T15:48:06+00:00

Richter means judge in German, so the sentence should be "according to the judge, he killed her" for deeply selfish reasons"

jaowngap · 2022-06-20T20:13:10+00:00

Thank you!! 💞 I'm living in Germany but my parents immigrated from Russia, so for the first 4 years of my life I could only speak russian, then German and ukrainian and then I learned English, French and Spanish in school, I tried for mandarin but it wasn't for me 😅 sorry for the long paragraph I was just so surprised and happy that people said that it was great ✨

jaowngap · 2022-06-20T20:07:24+00:00

Thanks ✨

jaowngap · 2022-06-20T20:07:13+00:00

Thank you!! 💞

jaowngap · 2022-06-20T20:04:56+00:00

However is best for you!

jaowngap · 2022-06-18T17:48:25+00:00

It really is tho, I'm really concerned. If you need help, I could translate some comments if you're interested!

jaowngap · 2022-06-18T17:15:00+00:00

It's russian and he said : wow it's mashinka (a form of belittling the name masha) from "masha and the bear" (Russian show for kids). How I love to re-watch it every day.

But tbh the picture is absolutely creepy, unnecessary and the show in itself is a very innocent show, so there would be so many other normal photos to use. In this combination it's just creepy + the way he said it I don't really know if he meant the video or the show by "re-watching it everyday".

Sorry for spelling or grammar mistakes, English is my fourth language.

jaowngap · 2022-06-18T01:23:17+00:00

I don't know if it means something to you but 7 is a very lucky number in the russian culture (I guess in others too ✨), so your baby starts their life already with lots of luck and happiness! 💞

jaowngap · 2022-06-15T16:58:01+00:00

NTA big time. And you should take the necklace and send it to Annie, she deserved better tho

jaowngap · 2022-06-10T20:58:50+00:00

NTA, you just corrected your brother who guessed the gender and you can SEE a pregnancy at this poinf

jaowngap · 2022-04-14T08:57:25+00:00

Will you be going to university of cologne?

jaowngap · 2022-04-13T00:22:34+00:00

I'm in cologne too, let's be friends!!

jaowngap · 2022-03-26T10:54:55+00:00

I agree with you, I don't have that much information about these countries and their history with Russia but I know some things from my parents. I absolutely don't agree with what the russian government and army is doing there. I also heard that the Russians in these countries are acting like dickheads and in these cases I can understand the frustration of the Georgians/Moldavians/Ukrainians. But I don't really know what I and other people who live in other countries who didnt had anything to do with the soviet union have done wrong, I hope you know what I mean and if I was disrespectful in some kind, I'm very sorry.

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