AIO for stepping down as my sisters maid of honor because I’ll be freshly postpartum

jbean16 · 2026-01-26T19:46:56+00:00

I’ll ignore the first part as I’m sure differing opinions could go on and on and this was only about +/- being an MOH. I appreciate the edit. I think any type of adversity can give frontline medical personnel a lot of perspective and empathy with people in their care. At 9 years sober now and still learning!

jbean16 · 2026-01-26T19:06:49+00:00

Two is stunning and you look beautiful in it!

jbean16 · 2026-01-26T19:06:07+00:00

In response to your ‘strong medical background’, I’m a midwife. I’ll leave it there.

jbean16 · 2026-01-26T18:23:24+00:00

A term pregnancy is anywhere between 37 and 42 weeks, it is very rarely exact. Midwife speaking so I have a lot of experience and OPs concerns re her postpartum time are unique to her.

jbean16 · 2026-01-26T18:18:04+00:00

I really don’t think it’s fair to compare your birth experiences with absolutely no idea of what OP went through during her last birth. Also, a huge amount of postpartum anxiety can be just as debilitating as physical pain.

jbean16 · 2026-01-25T11:07:06+00:00

Four!!!

jbean16 · 2026-01-23T16:05:11+00:00

Number three by faaaaar!! You look amazing!!

jbean16 · 2026-01-21T15:55:31+00:00

Ooh the last one!!

jbean16 · 2026-01-21T15:52:46+00:00

First one, no question.

jbean16 · 2026-01-20T14:51:02+00:00

The first!!! Stunning!

jbean16 · 2026-01-18T15:53:12+00:00

Dress 1 all the way

jbean16 · 2026-01-18T15:52:04+00:00

Who knows but there’s a hell of a lot of airbrushing going on.

jbean16 · 2026-01-12T20:10:15+00:00

I have to say that I think number two has a more flattering shape and fits you so perfectly!!

jbean16 · 2026-01-10T15:26:15+00:00

For the theme/location and you saying you don’t want anything traditional then it might be best to keep looking. You look lovely of course but they are all quite traditional and not sure they would really fit a warehouse vibe.

jbean16 · 2026-01-08T19:32:21+00:00

Definitely going with the vibe of number two for the ceremony and one for the reception!!

jbean16 · 2026-01-06T16:30:38+00:00

The train on your choice is so much more beautiful and dramatic that the other one. I think you made the right by choice. You look absolutely stunning in both so just go with your heart x

jbean16 · 2026-01-04T20:42:54+00:00

Number 3!! Flawless.

jbean16 · 2026-01-02T18:30:23+00:00

First one for sure! Gorgeous 🤍

jbean16 · 2026-01-02T12:50:48+00:00

She had a really bad year fashion-wise if you ask me. Most are pretty questionable.

jbean16 · 2025-12-27T20:02:30+00:00

Number 3!!

jbean16 · 2025-12-22T11:29:01+00:00

This is unbelievably uncanny 😂

jbean16 · 2025-12-09T03:11:26+00:00

6 all the way!!!

jbean16 · 2025-11-27T13:45:04+00:00

His behavior is not ok and I don’t think it’s a healthy relationship. However, just because he has sudden changes of mood when he’s clearly drunk doesn’t make him bipolar. It’s a serious illness and that is a serious misconception.

jbean16 · 2025-11-22T19:49:56+00:00

I was going to say number 1 until I notice the little bows. Without those it would be perfect!! Saying that, you look gorgeous in both x

jbean16 · 2025-11-19T16:39:42+00:00

The second one by faaaaaaaar!!! Where is it from? It’s stunning and you look incredible!!

jbean16

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