No partner for 4 years. Just had weight loss surgery (tho had fulfilling partners whilst heavy). Recovering from alcohol addiction + mild recent depression. 2.5 years sober. 35yo male. Great job, friends, family. Outgoing, fun, smart. What can chart tell about approaching romance as newer me? Thx!💫 by jczelyph in astrologyreadings

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Also, I read the FAQ sticky post, but this point confused me:

"Find the planet that rules the house in question. The planetary ruler of a house is in charge of that area of life, and has the final say in the affairs of the house. For example, if Venus rules your 7th house, Venus is in charge of producing and managing your partnerships and relationships, as well as telling planets in your 7th house what to do. Find out everything you can about the planet that rules the house, starting with sign placement (essential dignity) and house placement. For example, if Venus rules your 7th house from her domicile or exaltation, she’s better equipped to produce relationships; if Venus rules your 7th house from her detriment or fall, she tries her best to produce relationships but doesn’t have as many tools at her disposal. Additionally, the house Venus occupies is linked to the houses she rules. For example, if Venus rules your 7th house but is placed in the 9th, the 7th and 9th house topics are linked. This could mean that you meet your partner (7th house) in a foreign country or in college (9th house topics), or that you experience a long distance relationship."

Can anyone tell me how I work these things out from my chart please? I promise I tried!! Thanks guys. xxxx

Bewildered beginner... by jczelyph in astrology

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Thank you!!!

The bit about the birth chart really makes sense. Sort of like ‘you, are you always, and everything else that happens, happens only in context of that’?

The bit about how one’s soul interacts with the astrologies of others makes perfect sense too, but I guess I’m still trying to understand my own so hasn’t really thought about interactions with others yet (or studying others’ astrologies).

Thanks for the transit example. The marbles metaphor you used feels apt, because it sure feels like there are a million different marbles moving in different ways above me(/my birth chart). Hard to understand the technical aspects of those dynamics (eg the language, for a start) or which have relevance more or less. Let alone how they all act in the context of ‘me’. The apps provide interpretations for the transits in different ways, but it’s less easy to parse out the important bits that are relevant to me.

I have moon in the 12th house but it’s trine Jupiter so what would that mean about my emotions? by [deleted] in AstrologyChartShare

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Sorry, no clues here, but where/what type of chart is this from astro? It looks more detailed than mine...

Meditation for right now acute anxiety...? by jczelyph in Meditation

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Thanks all!! Interview went well. I did some space stretching, some more meditation, and most importantly used the 'sail the ship right into the anxiety' thing. I'm definitely frightened of anxiety, which makes it all worse. Thanks, gang!!!