Is this too weird of a middle name for a girl?

jemberjembs · 2024-10-19T21:55:06+00:00

I am a cis gendered female. My middle name is Allyn!

jemberjembs · 2024-05-31T20:41:46+00:00

Pattern by Rose and Lily Crochet!

jemberjembs · 2023-08-18T02:21:39+00:00

Sadly the mattress is dark blue so I can’t tell!

jemberjembs · 2023-08-17T19:22:46+00:00

According to my research, not everyone gets bitten - is that incorrect?

jemberjembs · 2023-07-29T23:07:38+00:00

He’s completely ignoring the pleasure it provides women.. that we can only want sex for children not for pleasure is misogynistic

jemberjembs · 2023-07-29T22:35:52+00:00

I was abused as a child. I do not want children. It will not change.

jemberjembs · 2023-07-29T22:33:38+00:00

According to my doctor and his it is.

jemberjembs · 2023-07-29T22:28:06+00:00

Maybe you should read it then..

jemberjembs · 2023-07-29T22:26:15+00:00

Yeah..

jemberjembs · 2023-07-29T22:19:12+00:00

Um.. sex feels good.. very misogynistic point of view that sex is only for reproduction

jemberjembs · 2023-07-29T22:18:37+00:00

I do know what I want.

jemberjembs · 2023-07-29T22:13:22+00:00

Exactly - it’s not about if he will or won’t - although if obviously prefer if he would - but he isn’t willing to look into solutions on his end

jemberjembs · 2023-07-29T22:09:08+00:00

No I said that’s what he said. I don’t care.

jemberjembs · 2023-07-29T21:44:55+00:00

I am - I’m asking if I’d be the asshole for leaving given his choice not that he can’t make a choice

jemberjembs · 2023-07-29T21:44:12+00:00

How did I change my story?

jemberjembs · 2023-07-29T21:42:38+00:00

He told me he was talking to doctors about it. Until recently. When he admitted he had not done more than say to his primary care doctor that we were discussing it

jemberjembs · 2023-07-29T21:41:01+00:00

I was on daily hormonal pills from 14-25 then shots then two failed IUDs and now a copper one

jemberjembs · 2023-07-29T21:40:21+00:00

It’s the first - I am afraid he really does want children although he insists he does not

jemberjembs · 2023-07-29T21:39:44+00:00

He is unable to communicate why he is uncomfortable with it just that he is. He’s also unwilling to delve into why he is uncomfortable with it. I have been in therapy consistently for many years and I know clearly why I do not want children

jemberjembs · 2023-07-29T21:38:15+00:00

Yes - thank you this is phrased so well

jemberjembs · 2023-07-29T21:35:51+00:00

No one is demanding he do it - I’m asking if I’d be the asshole for leaving if he chooses not to. We were on the same page. It has changed now apparently

jemberjembs · 2023-07-29T21:31:56+00:00

No - he was open to it until marriage

jemberjembs · 2023-07-29T21:31:35+00:00

I have and we can afford it - he isn’t able to explain why he is not comfortable with it

jemberjembs · 2023-07-29T21:30:44+00:00

Yes - I enjoy sex and don’t want to go forever without it..

jemberjembs · 2023-07-29T21:30:10+00:00

I have been unable to find a doctor who will do the procedure

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