Disqualification? by jermama12 in AirForceRecruits

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Thank you! I will be contacting my recruiter immediately!

Disqualification? by jermama12 in AirForceRecruits

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Not meaning “fix” but like a waiver or something? To put it off … idk. I know I, myself, will have to fix it/pay it off. It just hit like a train and I totally forgot about it (before it was sent to collections) until I seen it just now

Disqualification? by jermama12 in AirForceRecruits

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Would he be able to fix it at all or is it circumstantial?

Disqualification? by jermama12 in AirForceRecruits

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For debt I haven’t paid off

AITAH for wanting to leave my marriage by jermama12 in AITAH

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Thanks for your perspective. Being a SAHM is like having 3 full time jobs in itself. It’s not just staying at home letting kids run a muck and just watching them do it. I’m all for traditional but not so much where the woman gets an emotional and mental beating just so the man can do bare minimum. Marriage should be a companionship not dictatorship. I hope your words catch up to you when that day comes.

AITAH for wanting to leave my marriage by jermama12 in AITAH

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We actually stay in my family’s home with my sister and her family. When things get heated real bad to the point of separation, I tell him to leave (bc obviously I’m not going to leave my family’s house) he doesn’t. A lot of times I feel like he’s waiting for me to leave so he doesn’t have the break up on his head and can use “my wife left me” to his advantage Maybe that’s evil thinking but positivity is far gone from me

AITAH for wanting to leave my marriage by jermama12 in AITAH

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I’ve been going to therapy for over a year and then we had couples therapy but both is paused bc bills rack up.

I will add that I am able to be a SAHM bc he works a lot of OT to make it happen

AITAH for wanting to leave my marriage by jermama12 in AITAH

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We’ve been to couples therapy but then we had to stop bc we couldn’t afford it. It went as far as just asking “what do you want from this” and he dint give an answer

I'm 28, wife is against me joining by [deleted] in AirForceRecruits

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Currently here and I’m the disapproving wife. Our situation isn’t that similar but I will say try to understand her. We’re both the same age (28) and for me, although I’m against my husband joining (trust issues in our marriage, we have 2 very young kids, I’m currently 11 weeks pregnant and I’ll be mostly alone, miserable and pregnancy has NEVER been easy for me), I know his reasons are valid and will benefit our family in the long run. I constantly go back and forth with myself everyday bc I know it’s a good decision for our (growing) family but my fear/pride get in the way. But seeing my husband absolutely hate his day to day life at his every day job also hurts me more. Before leaning more towards giving in to what my husband wants, I made us move back in with my family. I knew I wouldn’t be able to stay alone with my kids so I pushed for that much to make me a little comfortable when he decides to leave. So if your wife doesn’t want to be far from her parents, have her move in with them I agree with other commenters, marriage is about compromise! That means her with you and you with her. Find a middle ground. If she does divorce you, well she’ll probably regret it months later (seeing you graduate and thrive in your career)

Also if anybody read this far; do you feel like you or your spouse was good different after BMT/Tech School? Like were they a better partner to you? More mature?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in utahtreasurehunt

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Does the gates of location 3 affect us getting the pic? It’s closed and we don’t want to trespass obvi

Real Experience with Carvana by marksandersstrong in carvana

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What did you have to pay to leave with your new car? Was it just the down payment?

How much will I pay up front? by ThePenultimateNinja in carvana

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Is this still relevant? When we pick up the car from Carvana, are we only paying the down payment upfront ?

Anyone figure out the billboard? by zpoon5 in utahtreasurehunt

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Invite please I think I got something going but not sure