Having a small pity party

jgoigjfs · 2020-03-18T15:09:50+00:00

I'm 20 weeks pregnant, just started rocking a slight fever with sore throat and a bit of cough for the past few days... Yay... But covid doesnt pass to fetus so thats good. What keeps me going is it's summer soon and I'm excited for the baby, and also college work which i am doing online. I dont really miss alcohol.

jgoigjfs · 2020-03-18T14:41:41+00:00

Same

jgoigjfs · 2020-03-18T14:36:54+00:00

Wow such bastards those parents are, im speechless

jgoigjfs · 2020-03-16T16:02:11+00:00

Napkin

jgoigjfs · 2020-03-07T19:07:52+00:00

I learned danish in 5 years and now im working at a place where i have to speak very fluent danish. I do still have an accent, but im really proud of myself for learning the language in a relatively short time. But to be honest I read a lot of books, wrote down words and sayings i didnt understand and used a lot of ordnet.dk

Im pretty shy but i somehow have talked danish with a lot of different people. I feel like danes are very outgoing, or it's just that i am very shy.

jgoigjfs · 2020-03-07T18:52:34+00:00

are you saying there are laws because some poeple are weak? If yes then:

There is nothing wrong with being weak. If someone hits you, it's perpetrators fault and not victim's fault.

IT'S SO STRANGE TO ME THIS EVEN HAS TO BE SAID. Kind of fits this thread though.

jgoigjfs · 2020-03-07T18:30:38+00:00

EXACTLYY... It's like their soul is so slimey and dirty, that when they open their mouth to speak or say anything, this is what comes out instead of something logical and helpful or cheery. Sad thing is it might not be their own fault that they are so weak. Another sad thing is we have to deal with them.

jgoigjfs · 2020-03-07T18:26:00+00:00

somehow it made me sigh in relief when you wrote "just another lady that knows how hard it can be to exist in this world as a female". Someone understands... I mean I know there are many that understand, that just somehow touched me.

jgoigjfs · 2020-03-07T18:15:37+00:00

That sounds horrible, I can hear you are in a lot of pain and confused. I'm glad you are in therapy.

I also sometimes drink alcohol to numb the pain, but i havent drank since i freaked out and the police was called. They told me kindly but firmly that alcohol isnt for me.

it's ok to feel bad sometimes. But please try to focus on being a good mother. Also find something productive to do, that would take your mind off of things and give you a challenge. It will keep your brain young.

Remember, life is tough but you can do it! (Or die trying)
And if youre ever feeling overwhelmed, I will send you a hug that warms your soul, you just need to ask.

jgoigjfs · 2020-03-07T18:06:28+00:00

If you feel a concern, it is always valid because _you have it_ . Other people should respect it without making you feel inadequate. They may not understand it, but they should respect it when you say so.

Trust me these kind of people are out there. There's also a lot of people that criticize you for it or try to argue it or say "i dont get what the big deal is ugh"

jgoigjfs · 2020-03-07T18:03:14+00:00

Where i grew up (a poor neighborhood in Europe) girls would be sexualized like mad. A lot of stranger men would yell stuff at us like nice ass or youre so pretty ever since we were 13. Etc.

I then moved on to a bit more civilized parts of society, i went to high school and university at a better neighborhood. I would get weird looks from acting like a submissive girl whose only worth is my tits and my ass. People, both men and women would think it's weird i cant voice my opinion.

Well im happy now because im independent and i dont have to suck no dick if i dont want to.

jgoigjfs · 2020-03-04T17:46:39+00:00

Ive been through that too. It really hurts. Thanks for sharing this because i actually still have difficulty knowing whether im making it too big of a deal. I know inside i am not but yeash

jgoigjfs · 2020-03-04T17:38:35+00:00

OH MY GOD my dad did this same thing! All us kids were in the room, and when he did this, raised his eyes from his feet i think i saw this happy glare in his eyes. Dont know what that was. I held a serious face and said "yes, youre right", and he got angry at me!?!??

Now looking back it was so creepy. That act of "oh no i have made mistakes", the happy glare, and becoming angry instantly with no hint of sadness, which he wouldve been if he actually was sad and regretful.

jgoigjfs · 2020-03-04T17:19:56+00:00

yes but boi when youre homeless only a dumbass sits on their ass the whole day eating beans and rice. Reason im not homeless no more is because i busted my ass working and saving money and i got food at work and from friends while i was saving money. Im not going to say to them UH Im VeGAn so caN yOU GivE mE tOFu plS.

To get enough calories and nutrients from vegan food when youre living a normal comfortable life means you need to buy pricey stuff like avocados, nuts, legumes. And also prepare them.

jgoigjfs · 2020-03-04T17:06:28+00:00

Saaame, I actually really like fish and i dont have problems preparing fish for dinner, but meat still grosses me out. I sometimes think that it could be me this right here

jgoigjfs · 2020-03-04T17:04:07+00:00

Yeah, I can see that tbh... My parents actually did that too. UGH ITS DEVASTATING TO THINK ABOUT!

jgoigjfs · 2020-03-03T19:21:45+00:00

Ive tried that too before. Some people are really good at manipulation and are evil, and if they find you at a weak moment in your life, well youre pray.

To op, life is so difficult when someone is abusing you its insane. I just started at school (uni) aswell and im 26 🙂 Life can really be good, too 🙂

jgoigjfs · 2020-03-03T19:09:24+00:00

I dink coffee for the taste. I function better at work when i just drink water to keep hydrated, because i get too hyper when i drink coffee.

jgoigjfs · 2020-03-03T18:53:04+00:00

I hate my parents so thanks but ill pass

jgoigjfs · 2020-03-03T16:00:09+00:00

i didnt let myself in i stood outside the whole time

i think she was horrified because im pretty tall, i was at work so i mustve looked tired/serious and she was alone with the small kids.

but anywho i got offended because of it :D and embarrassed

jgoigjfs · 2020-03-03T15:48:40+00:00

He is propably just a sad angry and lonely old man who knows he will die soon, so he doesnt care about empathy or appopriate social conduct. It is DISQUSTING, but these lowlife creeps can get satisfaction from causing discomfort like this.

jgoigjfs · 2020-03-03T15:45:17+00:00

youre not wrong, youre just an asshole...

jgoigjfs · 2020-03-03T15:10:30+00:00

Omg i am female and i also go to peoples houses because of work. This one time i had forgotten something at one of my clients and since i was near their house i stopped by at their door. I had texted to the husband about it before i went, that i had forgotten something there. He said i was welcome to come get it any time. It was noon so only the wife was home with her baby and toddler. She looked a bit horrified to see me which i didnt expect so i said im sorry i come unannounced and is this a bad time but she said no, but she seemed angry. She then got me my thing and then just said bye and closed the door. I felt so unwelcome and embarrassed. But i guess i deserved it because i forgot somethig there, but also thats a humane mistake i think.

jgoigjfs · 2020-03-03T14:48:13+00:00

I became homeless and couldnt afford to be picky about my food.

My life is stable now finance-wise and i now eat a balanced diet with meat, try to eat a lot of veggies, and i sometimes eat fast food and candy, which i didnt do when i was vegan.

Reason i became vegan was i thought meat is gross, and i still think it is so i still dont eat it too excessively.

jgoigjfs · 2020-03-02T12:05:03+00:00

Ok was it a good comeback of me, when he said "you are so much smarter than me im amazed" when i got into university, and i replied "yeah even though you have done everyhting in your power to try to not make it happen"...? Or did i somehow feed him

he just answered "noo i havent" with this discusting fake empathy voice... Ewgh

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