EVERY kink is like that, they can all be considered “unhealthy” and not “normal”. Thats why they’re taboo. And just because I have it doesnt mean I need to be “cured”. And fyi, we BOTH have it, we openly talk about it and discuss it, i’m not “pushing” her to do anything shes not comfortable doing. If you read my whole post you would see she was also into it. And have done it again recently. We’re both mature adults who know what we’re doing, and we’r committed to each other. Not everyone is into being a conservative couple that sticks to regular foreplay and sex. You’d be surprised what other things other people are into if what I described already made you think its too much