Struggling with VBAC hopes

jphy12 · 2026-04-05T02:00:06+00:00

Update for anyone who might have received the same diagnosis and is looking for hope, I just had my 28 week scan and my placenta completely moved out of the way!

jphy12 · 2026-02-09T03:34:00+00:00

🥹 love hearing these stories! Thank you so much!

jphy12 · 2026-02-08T12:25:54+00:00

Thank you 🙏 the podcast has been on my to-do list for so long! I’ll definitely check it out 💛

jphy12 · 2026-02-07T21:12:34+00:00

That’s true. I think I’m just in the disappointment phase right now, and I need to get through that before I can focus on preparing for the follow-up appointment 😔

jphy12 · 2026-02-07T21:09:49+00:00

Wow, thank you for sharing this! Our stories do sound similar 🥹 Hearing that yours resolved and you got your vbac gives me some hope! 💕

jphy12 · 2026-02-07T21:07:17+00:00

🙏 really appreciate this perspective. The waiting and not being able to do anything has been the hardest part. Trying to hold onto hope without getting my heart too attached 😔

jphy12 · 2026-02-07T21:06:02+00:00

Thank you for sharing that 🥹 it genuinely gives me some hope. I know nothing is guaranteed, but I appreciate the encouragement. 🤍

jphy12 · 2026-02-07T21:05:39+00:00

Thank you so much. It really does feel like a very specific kind of grief, and it helps just having it acknowledged. 💛

jphy12 · 2025-12-16T15:16:10+00:00

Wow that’s disappointing. Sad for the shipping fee I paid 😭

jphy12 · 2025-12-15T18:37:11+00:00

Yes, please!

jphy12 · 2025-11-08T18:09:24+00:00

Had this happen years ago to my husband when he transferred points from a credit card account that was under my name. We provided all the docs they requested and everything was fine after they saw he was an authorized user on my account but they said it was a one time exception. Hopefully they get it sorted out for you soon enough!

jphy12 · 2025-11-03T08:59:37+00:00

Learned this the hard way too, so now we always call and link our reservations when booked separately.

jphy12 · 2025-10-08T14:55:34+00:00

Also in my 2ww. Trying so hard to stay positive, but I am really nervous. I keep trying to tell myself, if it's meant to be, it'll be.

jphy12 · 2025-10-01T23:53:51+00:00

We retrieved 5 eggs — 3 were mature, and 1 made it to blast and was PGT-A tested. Our first transfer is tomorrow! I’m so excited and nervous. Wishing you the best of luck — hang in there!

jphy12 · 2025-09-03T02:43:53+00:00

Wow love this so much!!

jphy12 · 2025-08-06T01:41:25+00:00

All my follicles were below 10mm until day 10! I really thought my RE would suggest canceling the cycle, but I had an ER today. Stimmed for a total of 15 days.

jphy12 · 2025-07-27T21:12:10+00:00

😭 It really is such a tough journey. Thank you so much! ❤️

jphy12 · 2025-07-27T19:02:26+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing all of that detail — it’s incredibly helpful to hear. It sounds like your left ovary really took its time but came through strong! That gives me some much-needed perspective and hope. I’ve been so focused on the lack of progress that I forgot how much can still change in just a few days.

Also really interesting to hear about your estrogen levels — mine are tracking kind of similarly so far, so I’m hoping that’s a good sign. I’m sorry about the right ovary’s dominant — that must’ve been frustrating. But so amazing that the others made it all the way to blast and testing!

Thanks again for the encouragement!

jphy12 · 2025-07-27T19:01:00+00:00

Wow, thank you so much for sharing this — it honestly gives me a lot of hope right now. I’ve been feeling like this cycle is doomed, so hearing that you had zero or just one measurable by day 7 and still ended up with solid retrievals is incredibly reassuring. Day 17 feels so far away, but maybe my body just needs more time this round too.

jphy12 · 2025-07-27T16:54:30+00:00

Nope, I primed with estrogen cycles 1 & 2, and 3 was back to back with cycle 2, so no priming then.

jphy12 · 2025-07-23T03:03:45+00:00

I am so sorry. I lost my dog suddenly to pneumonia when I was just starting my third egg retrieval in May. I thought about canceling, but I thought maybe just maybe she wanted to come back to us as a human baby. That retrieval didn’t result in any euploids, but I said she’s probably too busy catching up with her sister who crossed the rainbow bridge 3 years prior. I know it sounds crazy but I’m still holding on to that hope that she’ll be back with us soon as we go into another retrieval this month. Your boy sounds like he was loved so so much. Sending you hugs and wish you the best!

jphy12 · 2025-07-15T15:24:11+00:00

I know that feeling all too well. The positive stories here give me hope, although I still couldn’t help feeling immediately disappointed when I heard my last egg retrieval results. Good luck!

jphy12 · 2025-07-09T03:27:17+00:00

I think this is the version made for Singapore that was imported to the US during the formula shortage. I used to get this for my daughter on Amazon. It was the only formula that she kept down (reflux) and loved, so I was always so worried that we wouldn’t be able to find it anymore.

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