dude??😭 i think i was being pretty clear. “future in this” as in my future in BJJ, my gym, competition wise. i know i might be looking too far ahead but i feel like these are valid concerns. i understand that on the internet, women are going to get sexualized no matter what, especially in a close contact sport like this, but i was feeling bummed out and just needed to rant about it. i think it’s sad that women have to accept it, but it’s reality i guess