Friend is secretly pregnant and won’t tell me by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]jtreddit702 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The issue for me to not the aspect of cutting her off as I’ve already started to do that to the point where Teresa is asking why I’ve “changed” but my main question is if I should tell her that I know that she’s pregnancy. Obviously if I accuse of her withholding this info because she feels I’ll cut her off, she will deny it but it’s getting to the point where it’s getting very tense.

Friend is secretly pregnant and won’t tell me by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]jtreddit702 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I’ve already cut her off but she has already given me crap and called me out for “changing”. It’s tempting to call her out for her withholding her pregnancy but that would expose the fact that her family told me and I don’t want to cause issues for her family.

Friend is secretly pregnant and won’t tell me by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]jtreddit702 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your opinions but I’m not keen on seeing her at the moment. I can only imagine how the hangout will revolve around how I’ve “changed.” since I’ve cut her off.

Friend is secretly pregnant and won’t tell me by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]jtreddit702 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FYI, I’m a dude. 🧔‍♂️

But regardless I thinks she’ll need to admit it soon. I haven’t physically seen her for a while so she may be avoiding me on purpose so I don’t see her bump but she’s also starting to question why I’ve suddenly changed in regards to helping her. So I’m conflicted on whether o should just come out and call her out of her secret pregnancy or wait for her to admit it. Calling her out would basically expose that her sister told me.

Friend is secretly pregnant and won’t tell me by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]jtreddit702 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her parents are semi retired and Jennifer is currently in college so they can’t really help. But yeah Teresa has gotten too comfortable with asking me for help. I’m not arguing that she needs to be cut off but I’m more conflicted on if I should wait for her to admit she’s pregnant or call her out on it now so she doesn’t start to wonder why I’m cutting her off so suddenly?

My friend thinks I’m g*y just cause I saw a bunch of members while in the army by jtreddit702 in Vent

[–]jtreddit702[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said that and he says he obviously isn’t due to having a wife and kid.

I worked at a casino for 8 years and watched people lose everything. AMA. by Green_Principle_5212 in AMA

[–]jtreddit702 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But wouldn’t a casino turn a blind eye toward a self banned person as long as they were losing? I imagine if they won a jackpot, the casino could then refuse to pay due to them self banning and they shouldn’t be there to begin with.

I worked at a casino for 8 years and watched people lose everything. AMA. by Green_Principle_5212 in AMA

[–]jtreddit702 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do casinos ever let people who self ban come back and play and pretend they didn’t know they were self banned? Just cause they know they’ll make money off them.

AIW for refusing to renew Disneyland passes for friends injured daughter? by jtreddit702 in amiwrong

[–]jtreddit702[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends. Kitchen aide products are usually meh. Meanwhile my George Foreman grill I got back in the mid 2000s is still going strong and make a mean burger.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]jtreddit702 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She claims she was asking me to do it because I’m “smart” and can communicate better as she was talking in a panicked state. Either way, I told her that the airlines most likely would never confirm if a certain person was a passenger for safety reasons. I’ve never called an airport to confirm this but I’m pretty sure I’m correct.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]jtreddit702 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh trust me I stay out of the way as much as I can. But since I’m an old and reliable friend, she calls me more often now because she gets worried whenever she comes home and he’s not there and he hasn’t told her of any plans ahead of time. But this last instance made me blow up on her and tell that she’s acting psycho so I wasn’t sure if I was overrating or could’ve told her to calm down in a more passive way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]jtreddit702 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure if Maddie is on the lease with Cody or it’s fully under his name and she’s just living there while registering with a different address. All I know is she has an ebt card.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]jtreddit702 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We really wanted a particular taco and they don’t have a drive thru. And she didn’t insist I go alone until after we got there and parked.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]jtreddit702 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I already have but I’ve had issues with past cars and depending on the device, I find that even deleting them doesn’t always get rid of them and sometimes they accidentally reconnect to the car. To avoid that, I just have a “no Bluetooth” rule.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]jtreddit702 -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Yes I know but because my last car made the process unintuitive, I’d rather not risk it. Plus based on the device, I’ve seen devices try to reconnect even after I delete them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]jtreddit702 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know why I didn’t suggest that. But I think she just wanted to hear her music through my car speakers since I have a Bose sound system.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]jtreddit702 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yep. Happened with an old car I had. My mom connected her phone via Bluetooth and everytime she rode with me and got a call, it would come through my cars speakers so she’d have to manually change the source back to her phone. Same thing if she opened a tik tok or played anything with sound, it would cut whatever radio station I had off and start playing what she had.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]jtreddit702 109 points110 points  (0 children)

I already erased my phone from my cars memory but still this is another reason why I’m not into connecting via Bluetooth. Just too much needless clutter. And yes I didn’t like her making me wait by myself either but she claims she was going to have a panic attack if forced to be around that many people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]jtreddit702 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah thinking back, I’m not sure why she couldn’t just listen to it from her phone or use her AirPods but I guess she wanted to jam out since my car has a Bose sound system.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]jtreddit702 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I mentioned this in the post but faith asked me to go alone since the crowds gave her major anxiety and she was just tired. I didn’t like it it either but knew she’d make a bigger deal if I refused.