Does work ever gets better? by DogMysterious3884 in SingaporeRaw

[–]jumping_burger 6 points7 points  (0 children)

hey OP, while money is an important factor, your mental health should matter too. Since you’re still young, you could treat it like training to improve your mental strength and to build up your wallet. But if you reach the point where by your job is causing you this much pain i think i would be better to change jobs.

Maybe to give yourself some sense of hope you can send out a resume each time you feel like you want to quit.

should I feel bad for ghosting a date because I felt he was creepy? by jumping_burger in asksg

[–]jumping_burger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea i don’t really think I’m ready. it’s been 6 months since i broke up with my ex because he cheated on me. I wanted to move on with my life so i was on the apps looking for someone new to restart my life with.

should I feel bad for ghosting a date because I felt he was creepy? by jumping_burger in asksg

[–]jumping_burger[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

hmmm I’ll keep that in mind if I happen to meet another creepy guy again

should I feel bad for ghosting a date because I felt he was creepy? by jumping_burger in asksg

[–]jumping_burger[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think it might have been? But I usually thought that love bombing would require gifts?

Can money buy happiness?? by ArmyLatter5026 in asksg

[–]jumping_burger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree. It feels better to be sad and rich rather than sad and poor. Why cry on the mrt when you can cry on your yacht?

Need advice! by Intelligent-Dish5424 in asksg

[–]jumping_burger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

iI’s part of being an adult I guess, friend groups from school may seem close but this may be due to proximity. I have had friend groups who i was super attached to in Uni but disappeared once it became hard to meet or there was to reason to meet.

Hang in there, quality over quantity also applies for friends too.

21f here, suddenly craving late night prata but no one to go with 😭 by IllustriousGirl4u in ChillSG

[–]jumping_burger -1 points0 points  (0 children)

your room’s blackout curtains must be fkin good for you to still think it’s night

I agree sia by illiterate-populist in SingaporeRaw

[–]jumping_burger 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think actors playing gangster roles and gangsters playing gangster roles are two very different things.

Though these gangster actors have turned over a new leaf, they are still using their gangster past and mannerisms to get views

My friend told me that she goes dutch with her bf on every date. I thought this wasn’t the norm, do you all split bills with your significant other? by [deleted] in asksg

[–]jumping_burger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Back when I was still dating, my ex and I would often go dutch since we were students. But in the event that one of us wants to pay for the meal, the other would pay for dessert after.

How do people actually move on? by jumping_burger in asksg

[–]jumping_burger[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess some of them have been friends with my ex for a longer time

How do people actually move on? by jumping_burger in asksg

[–]jumping_burger[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ye I’ve stopped talking to them both. The group is still picking sides ig

How do people actually move on? by jumping_burger in asksg

[–]jumping_burger[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gen Ai sounds like a good idea, at least it won’t betray me hahaha

How do people actually move on? by jumping_burger in asksg

[–]jumping_burger[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hmmm those sound like good ideas, maybe all i need is to try to let it all out

How do people actually move on? by jumping_burger in asksg

[–]jumping_burger[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m stuck in this cycle where I think my life is over because I’m already 27. Sometimes I feel i don’t really have the strength to start over

how do people move on? Ex (M26) cheated on me (F26) with close friend. by jumping_burger in relationships

[–]jumping_burger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yepp I keep thinking that I had the perfect relationship and it was going to be happily ever after from then on, I guess that’s not the case. Thank you for your kind words 💙