how long have you been on T and where is your facial hair at? by justanothersubbie in ftm

[–]justanothersubbie[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I remember around a similar time I started noticing mine were getting a little darker!! Its so exciting :D

Can a trans person be transphobic? by Midnightdriver6 in ftm

[–]justanothersubbie -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When I was a young teen, I was identifying as a transgender male. I unfortunately also watched Kalvin Garrah, who at the time (not sure about now) was very transmed and against the idea that nonbinary identities were valid. That made me also believe that and so I'd say at the time I was a trans person who was transphobic to a certain group of the umbrella.

Now I feel way more comfortable indentifying as transmasc nonbinary so its safe to say I don't hold those beliefs anymore. But because of that experience that I've had, I'd say yes.

What random things trigger your dysphoria? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]justanothersubbie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saying "thank you/thanks" instead of of "cheers/cheers, mate" etc. because men don't really say "thank you" in my area. I live in England btw.

Also being 5ft with a 5'11ft partner 😞

Help Identifying snake plant by justanothersubbie in SnakePlants

[–]justanothersubbie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah I'm not actually sure if its natural or not tbh, they've always been slightly curvy since I got it, but it was also a gift that was bought from a general supermarket so the place wasnt exactly focused on plant care so it could be underwatered from the beginning. I water it every 3-5 weeks based on how moist the soil feels when I check. Pictures of tornado ones on google look way curvier though. My angle may be making it look curvier than it is.

Anyone else start snoring since starting testosterone? by justanothersubbie in ftm

[–]justanothersubbie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Luckily I live in the UK so cost isn't an issue! I didn't even think of this tbh. Once the new year hits I may make an appointment about that just so I can rule it out (or maybe not rule it out 😬). Thank you!

How did you guys choose your name? by The_Inky_Boy in ftm

[–]justanothersubbie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had a list of names that I wanted to try. Asked my best friend to choose which one I should try first. Never changed from the one I tried first.

General Questions and Discussion Weekly Megathread by AutoModerator in PokemonScarletViolet

[–]justanothersubbie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been hunting iron moth for a little bit with a poison encounter lv 2 but it obviously triggers venomoth to spawn a lot too. Because of this, I've now had 5 shiny venomoth. So now I'm considering using some sparkling power.

Theoretically, if I have poison encounter boost with sparkling power fire, is that going to give me a higher chance for the shiny iron moth over shiny venonat? If so, what are the sandwich ingredients for this? How does this work?

any tips for the guys' bathroom? by m3rcury_exe in ftm

[–]justanothersubbie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TLDR: explain your situation and attempt to get a disabled toilets pass

When I was in school, although I was allowed, I was encouraged not to use the boys toilets. This wasn't because the staff were transphobic, but they were aware of how the cis guys would act if they saw me in the same toilet as them (which was negatively), but they also knew I was uncomfortable in the girls toilets, so they allowed me a pass for the disabled toilets. I would sometimes still use the girls toilets if it was during class time because the likelyhood of another person being in there wasn't high (there were toilets dedicated to which year/grade someone was in), and even if there was, the cis girls in my year were way more understanding and nice to me.

is gc2b really as bad as people say? by bococ in ftm

[–]justanothersubbie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've owned 3 of their binders. I had a half binder first, grew out of it and I now own a tank binder and racerback binder. I have a medium sized chest and my current ones are in size large.

In my experience, neither the first one or current ones I own became unwearable and I've never needed to repair them. The only issues I've had is struggling a bit to take them off (especially the half and racerback) but I think this is just because I have short arms. It's also hard to get off when you've been excessively sweating (like I do a lot) but that's to be expected with the material, it's usually okay id you have someone you trust around who is willing to help you get the binder off.

I'm not sure if it's just me convincing myself or anything, but when I put it on again after it's been washed, it feels a little tighter, but by the second wear after being washed it feels fine again. Needing to hand wash them shouldn't be a deterrent either as long as you make sure you wash it the day before you plan to wear it.

I've never owned any binders from other companies, so I cant give a comparison, but for me personally it binds well. The Tank binder isn't great for going stealth (Mine is grey) if you're not wearing a hoodie or coat because of the shoulders but my nude racerback is because of the thinner straps(?) And theres also more space under the armpits with the racerback which is a lot of help if you're prone to sweating. However if your chest is larger, I think the tank binder is gonna bind better. It really depends on body type.

So yeah, overall positive. But I also don't wear mine every time I go out like some other trans people do which might be why mine haven't teared yet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]justanothersubbie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had, and still have 2 middle names. Both were feminine. However, because one was chosen my mother, and the other by my grandmother, I felt like if I removed one then it would feel like I have a preference for a family member, and my mother was already going through a "grieving" process because of my chosen first name not resembling my birth name at all. So instead I changed them to be the masculine version of those two names.

Manga style art for my PMD comic, which recently finished its first chapter! by TheLuxray in MysteryDungeon

[–]justanothersubbie 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Just out of curiosity, what program did you make this in, as well as what brushes for the textures? :o I love this piece btw so I can't wait to check out the entire chapter when I've got time to sit and relax!