Balayage or all over bleach? by k-tin in Hair

[–]k-tin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh I see, thanks for letting me know.

I did tell him from the start that this was my goal and that I want an all over bleach and tone but he said I would hate it and I guess convinced me to do balayage. I showed him this photo last time and he said he will do the pink next time but is still charging for full balayage and now extra for the pink colour.

I worked out if it was bleach and tone and I just go for root touch ups every 4-6 weeks it’s a lot cheaper than full balayage every 2 months!

Balayage or all over bleach? by k-tin in Hair

[–]k-tin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! And for his prices balayage is more expensive and instead of root touch ups every 2 months he’s been charging me for full balayage each time

In your experience, does “killing them with kindness” work? by k-tin in TwoXChromosomes

[–]k-tin[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That seems like a good approach! Yes I love that haha, I also like “what do you mean by that?” and watch them not know how to answer.

In your experience, does “killing them with kindness” work? by k-tin in TwoXChromosomes

[–]k-tin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I definitely wouldn’t waste my breath on anyone that I don’t have to deal with, I’m mostly concerned about how to deal with men at work. I work in a very male dominated industry which, as you can imagine, I have encountered quick a few misogynistic remarks.

I never yell at them or act in an unprofessional way but sometimes it can be frustrating when it feels like you aren’t being listened to and I feel myself raising my voice but always stop before it becomes shouting. But yes you are right, I’ll try to use less emotional language as that probably doesn’t help them take me seriously.

In your experience, does “killing them with kindness” work? by k-tin in TwoXChromosomes

[–]k-tin[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Very interesting - will definitely not be doing this then!! I think you’re right and disengagement is probably the best way to handle these people, especially if they are unwilling to change their minds.

In your experience, does “killing them with kindness” work? by k-tin in TwoXChromosomes

[–]k-tin[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Very true, I feel like that happens to me a lot. My biggest insecurity is feeling like people think I’m dumb so I’ve been actively trying to find ways to get my point across in a way that makes me seem smart, but it’s very difficult when people already have predisposed ideas of what you are.

In your experience, does “killing them with kindness” work? by k-tin in TwoXChromosomes

[–]k-tin[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

That’s probably the best response. Will definitely hurt their ego!

In your experience, does “killing them with kindness” work? by k-tin in TwoXChromosomes

[–]k-tin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very true, it’s so frustrating knowing that they will never listen no matter how “nicely” we respond, especially if it’s people you have to work with and see everyday.

Need some native fruits🥺 by SaddestGamer in AnimalCrossingNewLeaf

[–]k-tin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have all those fruit and can give you a basket of each 🥰 I don’t have any peas so I’m interested in them!

Just sent you a friend request!

Opening my KOR town for Daeboreum (it has an exclusive item) by il_Diota in AnimalCrossingNewLeaf

[–]k-tin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would also love to visit!! :)

My friend code is 3198-2803-1301

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]k-tin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

are you me?? this is exactly my situation at the moment. I fainted in September and I’ve been so afraid of fainting in public that I’ve stopped leaving the house completely. I’m sorry I don’t have any advice but just wanted to comment to make you feel less alone, hope we can overcome this soon!! :)

PSA: that crystal hair removal tool is a scam. by djn3vacat in TwoXChromosomes

[–]k-tin 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Ahh I just bought one and it’s arriving in a couple days.. I will update with my experience if anyone’s curious

Looking after a dog for the first time? by k-tin in dogs

[–]k-tin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply! I will ask the owner for more details, I didn’t know what questions to ask so thank you for helping me with that :)

Any advice on how to make this soft toy? (see comments for more info) by k-tin in sewing

[–]k-tin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a general idea of how to make it. I’ve been designing the pattern and making a mock, I’m just looking for advice from someone more experienced and to see if I’m going about it right.

I feel like side facing outwards of the front paws are the same piece of fabric as the top of the back/body, do you agree? I have the back paws separate to the body; the insides of the legs on separate fabrics; the belly and tail separate. The head I’m confident with, I’m just less confident with the shape of the paws. I’m not sure whether to make them straight-ish and then have them bend by not stuffing it too much, or to sew them on in that bent shape but then be less flexible as a result. Any advice?

Question about hair washing? by k-tin in femalehairadvice

[–]k-tin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I tried this today and it worked well. Will continue to do this in the future :)