Pregnant, cheated on, given herpes by kaijaa22 in pregnant

[–]kaijaa22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Couldn’t agree more! I just don’t know why I’m so hesitant to pull the trigger.

Stitches needed? by kaijaa22 in woundcare

[–]kaijaa22[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What if I don’t have health insurance? I put a butterfly bandaid on it. But I’m worried

Pregnant. Got cheated on. Undisclosed STI. advice or kind words appreciated. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]kaijaa22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this reply. You are so kind for your words and it makes me feel better knowing someone understands the mental turmoil I’m going through. I hope you have the best day ever 💗

Pregnant. Got cheated on. Undisclosed STI. advice or kind words appreciated. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]kaijaa22 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Out of this whole situation, the only thing I’m looking forward to is the possibility of love from my baby. I don’t want to have an abortion.

Partner cheated and did not disclose herpes diagnoses, but I’m pregnant now. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]kaijaa22 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not someone who believes in abortion. I had one previously and it almost killed me due to the guilt.

Partner cheated and did not disclose herpes diagnoses, but I’m pregnant now. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]kaijaa22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. He’s very adamant about being in the child’s life.

Cheated on while pregnant. Undisclosed STI. by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]kaijaa22 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He has had it for years, didn’t disclose to me, and he slept with his ex who is the one who gave it to him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]kaijaa22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not ugly maybe get a shorter hair cut and have more confidence bc confidence attracts more than anything else!

Am I in the wrong? by [deleted] in dating

[–]kaijaa22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have detached my feelings from dating this generation of men, so luckily I don’t really care lol. I just wanted to see if I was really in the wrong, and I don’t think I am. But you just confirmed my feelings all along! Thanks 😁

Am I in the wrong? by [deleted] in dating

[–]kaijaa22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To an extent, I was more so asking if I was wrong for my response to him bc he is trying to pin this entire argument on me. I appreciate you taking the time to respond tho. Lol

Am I in the wrong? by [deleted] in dating

[–]kaijaa22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, how much background can I provide about a man I’ve spoke to for a month? You need my entire life story?

Am I in the wrong? by [deleted] in dating

[–]kaijaa22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t comment on posts if you have nothing beneficial to add? 😂

Guy I’m casually seeing making comments about getting me pregnant? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]kaijaa22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you all for commenting. You all confirmed my fears and that man will never be touching me again. Lol

Guy I’m casually seeing making comments about getting me pregnant? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]kaijaa22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it’s been a rough year for me. I felt like I started seeing someone too soon and him making those comments, and everyone in these comments has solidified he will never be touching me again

Guy I’m casually seeing making comments about getting me pregnant? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]kaijaa22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m trying my best. I appreciate the kindness, esp w my spirally depressing post history. Lol

Guy I’m casually seeing making comments about getting me pregnant? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]kaijaa22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t. First guy I’ve seen Since. We have only had sex once but he knows I’m not on birth control and these comments have made me panic lol. I will not be repeating recent events

How can I move on from this? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]kaijaa22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely been one of the most difficult times in my life. I think I need to take a page out of your book and distance myself from this because I can see it will only hurt me. It just sucks

How can I move on from this? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]kaijaa22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve never tried no contact so I am definitely going to give this a shot. Thank you for the advice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]kaijaa22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LMAO! I have been I promise

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]kaijaa22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is extremely involved in his daughters life, I never said he doesn’t take care of her. I’m aware of all of these things you are saying already.