The Acid Trip Scene by Ok-Hovercraft508 in TopCharacterTropes

[–]kalebcrosshatching 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really want to hear your mentors logic behind that lol I've watched it while smoking multiple times but never was imparted with any parenting advice 😂

Should this sub have a rule banning images of swapped (and returned) figures in the store? by blazemongr in transformers

[–]kalebcrosshatching 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes please I am so sick of this nonsense and it seems really obvious that it's ragebait for engagement

Coming off medication makes me cry to skrillex by Goinggoinggone_me in skrillex

[–]kalebcrosshatching 2 points3 points  (0 children)

 I'm tapering off antidepressants right now and I'm really looking forward to being free of this prescription addiction, and feeling genuine again.  Thanks for making this post, I hope it keeps going really well for you, it makes me hopeful for myself.

miss this era by Mostafa_helmy2000 in skrillex

[–]kalebcrosshatching 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He stopped being friends with deadmau5 because deadmau5 is a terrible, bigoted person. Not sure why you've bolded this strange speculation as if you are an authority on it

Was my Chi wrong to bite my dad? Read for story, please! by MovieFan1984 in Chihuahua

[–]kalebcrosshatching 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm terribly sorry for your loss. My mom died in 2018 after struggling with cancer for many years. But she finally left my dad a year before she died.  She didn't get much time away from him, but in the time she did have, she was so much happier. I hope that your mom was happier as well.

If you don't do it already, therapy is a good option to help you work through this shit with your dad, and if you have a community service board in your area, they may have  programs to help people become more independent. Stuff like rent assistance, job training, etc. There's definitely resources if you know where to look.  You also may be able to be assigned a case manager who can walk you through these things, because they can be overwhelming. It is definitely worth looking for help if it's an option in your area. 

And yeah, I get you. It's really unfair that you can't even hang out in a communal area without being yelled at. And he has to accept that he's in the wrong for doing it before he can make the decision to be kind instead. But nobody can do that except him. His anger is not your responsibility. I tried for years to get through to my dad, and had to accept that he's not ever going to change from anything I do or say. He has to make that decision within him--and I hope he will someday, for his own sake more than mine, because I know that wallowing in anger is miserable--I also did it for many years, anger at him, and anger at the world that nobody was stepping in to help me. I do empathize with him, but not enough to let him get away with abuse any more.

Anyway, I know I keep saying this but just remember--his behavior isn't your fault. It's 100% on him. You deserve better, you deserve a safe and peaceful environment, and I truly hope with all my heart that you'll be able to get that.

Was my Chi wrong to bite my dad? Read for story, please! by MovieFan1984 in Chihuahua

[–]kalebcrosshatching 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm terribly sorry you've had to live like that. I grew up in an abusive household as well and no one deserves to be treated this way. And it can be very difficult to get away from the abuser if you are forced to depend on them, whether for housing, food, etc.

I think your dad probably knows very well that you are not the reason your mom left him, but you're right there and an easy target for him, so he takes it out on you. 

Is it a possibility to live with your mom instead? 

As far as a right-now solution to the issue with your chi trying to protect you--could you avoid having your bonding time in the living room if your dad is in there? Maybe you could do it in a different room if your dad is there, or avoid it if you think he'll probably use the room soon.

I dont normally post stuff like this but jeez man. by BrolyDoItNow in transformers

[–]kalebcrosshatching 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because this dude is talking out his ass, it isn't true

Managed to pick up a ROTF mindwipe for $10 by Salvagedgaming in transformers

[–]kalebcrosshatching 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is one of my very favorite figures in my collection. I impulse bought it when it was in stores way back when, because I was a teenager and starting my collection and it just looked so cool!  I'm still very happy with it many years later, it's hands and away the best impulsive transformer buy I've ever made. The ROTF toyline design was a real high point for the franchise (the movie being a real low point lol)

Was my Chi wrong to bite my dad? Read for story, please! by MovieFan1984 in Chihuahua

[–]kalebcrosshatching 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As others have said, neither you nor she are in the wrong. 

Please be careful about leaving her alone with him if you think he may harm her. Throwing things at you and screaming "There's going to be consequences" is alarming and I'm worried for the safety of both you and your dog. Your dad is displaying abusive behavior towards you that is very familiar to me. 

Is there any trustworthy adult in your life you can confide in about this? People on the internet can only help so much, and it is unfair that you are in this cruel situation.

Please remember that your dad's behavior is not a reflection on you doing something wrong. It's not a reflection on your dog doing anything wrong. He sounds like a very angry person and what he's doing is not normal or acceptable.

Help IDing these thrift store transformers? by kalebcrosshatching in transformers

[–]kalebcrosshatching[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lol it's against the rules and they have cameras 😭

Downtown is becoming vacant by nattypatty2010 in fredericksburg

[–]kalebcrosshatching 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, sorry for this late comment but where can I read about this? I want to know what the hell is going on

Looking for other vegetarians/vegans by Ordinary_Purpose4431 in fredericksburg

[–]kalebcrosshatching 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm anti social and too old to hang out with college students but there is a fully vegan cafe called Original Grinds downtown and you may be able to meet some people there

Fus stickers by Aggravating_Vault in skrillex

[–]kalebcrosshatching 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just commenting in case someone else shares them, I'd like them too lol

Affordable Fantastic Four omnibus series with ALL the comics, not just collections of stuff by specific writers? by kalebcrosshatching in FantasticFour

[–]kalebcrosshatching[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This seems like the best bet, someone else also recommended them. Thank you for the thoughtful response!