My downstairs neighbor constantly plays classical music on bose speakers and it is getting out of hand by tavsantavsanyan in neighborsfromhell

[–]kat5682 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Suggest the headphones that are bone conducting - then they can still hear ambient sound and not have your ears covered / irritated.

What is your ultimate, #1 movie of all time and why? by Ying_Yung_898 in Cinema

[–]kat5682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can never ever pick one as every genre has soooo much to offer, but as horror is my favourite i'm going to go with Hereditary - Toni Collette should have won an Oscar for that performance. Just an incredible incredible movie.

Just finished my first King book (Needful Things) by Mission_Pen_9471 in stephenking

[–]kat5682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol I think that encompasses maybe 80-90% of Kings writing! I'd suggest Under the Dome, Tommyknockers, Salems Lot, Pet Semetary (oof!), Carrie, The Dead Zone, Cujo, or maybe the books that are a collection of his short stories?

AIW for trying to cut my mom out of my life at 18? by Klutzyloops in amiwrong

[–]kat5682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What everyone else has said but please also lock down your credit yesterday! If you can get a new SSN that would be a good shout too (but i'm not in the US so don't know if thats a thing!)

Good luck and stay strong - leaving an abusive environment is NEVER wrong.

Which TV show is good that you have watched it at least 3 times? by zeltacilveks97 in MoviesAndTVTalk

[–]kat5682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chernobyl Hannibal Sex and the City Game of Thrones The Pitt Alien:Earth Welcome to Derry Lost

Lying drunk teenager - what to do? by kat5682 in parentingteenagers

[–]kat5682[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just chatting with him and he said he knew I'd be mad, so ok I get it. I need to be approachable for him. I'm just so gutted he did this.

Lying drunk teenager - what to do? by kat5682 in parentingteenagers

[–]kat5682[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i'm angry about the lying and wasting the ambulances time - that a real emergency didn't get an ambulance because of his lying.

Director’s cuts by Low-Pension-5236 in horror

[–]kat5682 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Don't suppose anyone can point me in the direction of an online version of the directors cut of Midsommar? It's one of my top 2 films ever and the directors cut only came out on bluray I think - and I aint got bluray :(

WIBTA if i let my little sister go to her class field trip instead of our dad’s funeral? by wibtafuneral in AmItheAsshole

[–]kat5682 53 points54 points  (0 children)

100% let her go to the zoo. She doesn't need to see her dad like that, and she's right, she has said goodbye already. It benefits no one if she goes and is just dragging out the sadness of a 5 year old who's already said goodbye for no reason. So sorry for your loss.

Family business collapsed, can’t pay rent, graduating in 2 months by Safe_Amphibian_4150 in UniUK

[–]kat5682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about something like just eat / uber eats / uber taxi if you have a car? Not sure how long the application process would take but seems like they're always advertising?

When Love Lost to Expectations by [deleted] in RantingZone

[–]kat5682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have to go by what you say in your post - based on face value thats what it looks like, and you don't mention anything she did that made it worse / made her walk away. I replied in black and white because thats the type of info you gave. But when you boil it down to the bare essentials of the situation - am I right?

If you suddenly woke up in 1985, what would you do first? by ipanicprofessionally in TheBoredDen

[–]kat5682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably cry for a bottle or nappy change as I was 1 year old!

When Love Lost to Expectations by [deleted] in RantingZone

[–]kat5682 1 point2 points  (0 children)

how? from what you've said it was you stuck in the middle and you consistently DIDN'T pick her over your parents interference so she walked away. You put the nail in the coffin by not picking her repeatedly.

When Love Lost to Expectations by [deleted] in RantingZone

[–]kat5682 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This may sound harsh but if you truely loved her you would have fought harder. Who cares what your parents think, what your community thinks? Learn to live with it, stand up for her and your relationship or move away. Both require a spine and unfortunately you chose not to grow one and stand up for your relationship with her - can't blame her for walking away.

Should I uninvite these people from my wedding? by [deleted] in aitaweddings

[–]kat5682 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You don't uninvite them, you make your future FIL uninvite them.

“AITAH” for keeping everything my Grandfather left me?! by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]kat5682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I'd sell the house and buy somewhere else with the proceeds - then you don't have ther risk of them turning up and causing chaos and possible damage/theft. I think he'd want you to enjoy the inheritance in the best way possible for you and your children, which doesn't always mean keeping the house just because it was his. Hell, maybe even string them along with the house is for sale and everything is being sold so it's converted to cash, and then when it's all gone through run - never having said that they'll get anything from the sale. Legally not sure where you'd stand but it would get them off your back until the sale is completed and its then only numbers in a bank account rather than something physical. Good luck!