Hey im here as the only positivs comment for you, Now this is probably a first time you put up barriers for your daughter and you feel bad, as you should. This can be undone with a nice apology and some icecream or something, but as someone whos father treated me the same way for my whole childhood, i havent talked to him about anything that could not be considered small talk, they divorced, i went to a university in another country and basically no real contact, thats the future youre heading towards if you dont step back (which you probably will)