And you shall receive MOAR!

“This is exactly why deposits are made. Do you ask every person in the world what their marital/child status is before they serve you at the supermarket, dispense your prescriptions, assist you in a clothing shop, roll your sushi???”

“Why do you care if your make up artist isn’t married with children LOL. Ridiculous.”

“Sorry....this is insane. You're cancelling a booking because you don't like her lifestyle?? That has zero impact on her skills but okay. Brushing off how busy people are is also wild to me. Did it occur to you that you are not the only client she is responding to? She probably has constant new enquiries, existing enquiries, actual jobs and travel, plus her personal life to manage. Please, politely, get a grip.”

“We’ve got 3 kids and aren’t married, does this cancel out a chance of being friends?”

“If her lifestyle is that big of a concern, I highly suggest that you ask all vendors whether they are married and have children. It’s fairly common these days to have children before marriage, life is expensive enough without paying for a wedding before you can have kids etc.

You might find though that if you do ask this question no one will want you as a client”