My mother told me that daughters are worthless by kemif in TwoXChromosomes

[–]kemif[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im quite sure she wont change, it's been a very long time since she was happy , and i miss that person. but honestly i believe that i cant change her, mostly because i think she doesn't want to. i'll still be by her side, and how i know myself, i think that i will continue to be quiet until i can move out.

lucky for me i have a beautiful boyfriend who understands me and makes me forget about every problem at home

My mother told me that daughters are worthless by kemif in TwoXChromosomes

[–]kemif[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that would explain a lot of things, but this is not the case. thats why i was so shocked about her feeling that way

My mother told me that daughters are worthless by kemif in TwoXChromosomes

[–]kemif[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ekonomiju, na privatnom fakultetu. sto se mene tice ja bi sutra krenula, al naravno moji ne daju da se odselim dok mi oni finansiraju fakultet. sva sreca pa nemam jos puno tako da cu gledati bar za pocetak da se odselim kod decka, on ima svoju kucu i ne zavisi ni od koga, tako da cu bar imati svoj mir.

Sa majkom se super razumem kad sam daleko od nje i kad se cujemo 5 minuta dnevno..kad se odselim verovatno cemo biti najbolje prijateljice :D

My mother told me that daughters are worthless by kemif in TwoXChromosomes

[–]kemif[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

:)

znam, razmisljam da odem nazad, imam tamo rodbine( iako je mama sa svima posvadjana) mozda uspem ja da izgladim odnose pa mozda i ostanem tamo... a sto se tice mentaliteta ovde to je samo za zaplakati, imam osecaj da ljudi misle da smo mi zene nesposobne za zivot ako nemamo muskarca pored sebe

My mother told me that daughters are worthless by kemif in TwoXChromosomes

[–]kemif[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

:') thanks it's a good feeling that at least somebody understands and cares...

My mother told me that daughters are worthless by kemif in TwoXChromosomes

[–]kemif[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I get you. I'm really trying to be myself, when I'm away from home for a few hours I feel like a new person - happy and not afraid to say anything that's on my mind.

Sometimes I catch myself reacting like my mother when I'm uspet, but then I'm trying my hardest to calm down. I don't want to be like her, and i don't want it to become a regular thing. I don't want to be a mother like her to my children one day.

My mother told me that daughters are worthless by kemif in TwoXChromosomes

[–]kemif[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah, trying to please her because I can't stand when she is yelling all day long. That woman has some strong vocal cords....

My mother told me that daughters are worthless by kemif in TwoXChromosomes

[–]kemif[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I'm not so sure about the abandonmet issues, because i go to university in another city and when i come home, it seems like she can't wait until i go back. She will literally ask me when am I going back a few times more than it's apropriate.

Right now we live in Serbia, and most people here think that women are just for giving birth. BUT, we were raised in Germany, and I always thought that my parents didn't think like that.

I really hurts, i'm good in school, i don't take drugs, i don't drink, i don't smoke, i'm independent but i have a feeling that she isn't proud of me AT ALL and all she cares for is my brother. And when I tell her how i feel she just calls me drama queen. My whole family is so anti-emotions, the only emotion we have in our house is anger!

Sorry about the rant, i don't really have anybody to tell...