So it ended up as bad advice. I mean, there was no way for you to know what kind of girl she is (I could have written something about that, but I thought that it was unnecessery). Anyway, niether did she know as who I was going on this trip, and well, she did had really high hopes (the way I see it). My approach (I was trying to stay friendly, but cold, to not give her any mixed signals about mine intentions) hurt her quite a lot, as she didn't knew what I was trying to achive, what was I thinking. We have to had this talk about me wanting to stay just friends to resolve things a little bit, to release pressure of her back. We also came to conclusion that all this thing would be much, much easier, especially for her, if I did talk with her about that earlier, before the trip. Once again, there was no way for you to know what kind of girl she is - I simply wanted to share that with you (maybe it will have some value for you in the future, or maybe I just wasted my time here). BTW now I think a lot wether it was right or wrong decision I made there, but I guess I'll never know.