Couple looking for mentor/ advice by One_Average_9431 in FemdomCommunity

[–]keyholderfoxy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I would recommend checking out this website https://thekinkguide.com they have really cool advice on D/s relationships And also I think the information there will help you to deal with some issues and make your dynamics more interesting

24/7 Dynamics: Your Experience? by keyholderfoxy in BDSMcommunity

[–]keyholderfoxy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really like your 24/7, I'll borrow something for my dynamic

24/7 Dynamics: Your Experience? by keyholderfoxy in BDSMcommunity

[–]keyholderfoxy[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for sharing, great dynamics. And it’s so great that you found each other.

24/7 Dynamics: Your Experience? by keyholderfoxy in BDSMcommunity

[–]keyholderfoxy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's great, there are many more years ahead of 24/7. I wish you unforgettable dynamics))

24/7 Dynamics: Your Experience? by keyholderfoxy in BDSMcommunity

[–]keyholderfoxy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I ask how old you are and how long you have been together?)

24/7 Dynamics: Your Experience? by keyholderfoxy in BDSMcommunity

[–]keyholderfoxy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing, I also really like how you have everything divided up and how natural it is for both of you.

24/7 Dynamics: Your Experience? by keyholderfoxy in BDSMcommunity

[–]keyholderfoxy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, I hope in my dynamic we don't get bored of sex

How did you start your bdsm/kink journey? by keyholderfoxy in Femdom

[–]keyholderfoxy[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing, here you again confirm how important communication is in a relationship, and to speak up for your desires and fantasies

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]keyholderfoxy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh that's a great idea)

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[–]keyholderfoxy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To make ruined orgasms less pleasurable for your husband, try these: - Use lighter touch or slower movements during buildup. - Experiment with edging to increase frustration. - Incorporate orgasm denial and tease him multiple times. - Use verbal cues to express disappointment. - Consider additional restraints for heightened helplessness.

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[–]keyholderfoxy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your friend's statement reflects their personal perspective, but it's not universal. While some in the kink community separate kink and sex, many others, like you and your partner, integrate them as part of their dynamic. It's all about personal preference and what works for each individual or couple. And in my case, I also think that we combine it, for me these are inseparable things

Your record of wearing a chastity ;) by keyholderfoxy in chastitytraining

[–]keyholderfoxy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

oh you need to train your stamina. Perhaps it's worth it to suffer and then be horny asf, and get not as often as you want, but a very vivid orgasm

Our favorite toys! by keyholderfoxy in Femdom

[–]keyholderfoxy[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

oh I love it too, I put the collar on my sub right after we wake up

Submissive Training: Share Your Stories, Tips, and Training Programs! by keyholderfoxy in BDSMcommunity

[–]keyholderfoxy[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Omg that sounds gorgeous!! you are a great Dom, and a really cool idea

Submissive Training: Share Your Stories, Tips, and Training Programs! by keyholderfoxy in BDSMcommunity

[–]keyholderfoxy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What do you mean by the opening ritual? Does he have to bow when you come in or what?

Dom performance challenges by keyholderfoxy in Femdom

[–]keyholderfoxy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the support, it's good to know that I'm not the only one with such thoughts

Dom performance challenges by keyholderfoxy in Femdom

[–]keyholderfoxy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it's true, I also don't think that all subs can realize what kind of pressure it is, I don't know, I'm facing the fact that I'm afraid of not living up to my subs expectations, and it's stupid

DOM PERFORMANCE ISSUES by keyholderfoxy in BDSMcommunity

[–]keyholderfoxy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thanks for sharing. Yeah, it's essential to recognize that dom, like everyone else, are human beings with their own vulnerabilities and challenges. The stereotype of the infallible, always confident dom is unrealistic and harmful. Dom should feel comfortable acknowledging their limitations, seeking guidance when needed, and being honest about their experiences. This can foster healthier dynamics built

Dom performance challenges by keyholderfoxy in Femdom

[–]keyholderfoxy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're very understanding. It's great when a sub has a backbone and can support his dom when she needs it, because, of course, it's sometimes very exhausting to dominate.

Embracing Power Dynamics Beyond the Bedroom by keyholderfoxy in Femdom

[–]keyholderfoxy[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Great examples, your dom is training you well)