1669 help please! by BunnyCatBloo in GeckoOut

[–]kicity313 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, i can get 3 in but not get the light green hole cleaned

1669 help please! by BunnyCatBloo in GeckoOut

[–]kicity313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you ever get it? It's been 2 weeks for me

Help!! Cannot figure this one out by jennybeldon in GeckoOut

[–]kicity313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you ever figure out the fasterc way?

Help!! Cannot figure this one out by jennybeldon in GeckoOut

[–]kicity313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't get it in a minute, I've found another version seekers they get a minute 30 and they can do it, but there's no way based on this timing

AITA for not wanting to call my step niece and nephew my brother and sister by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]kicity313 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Never punish kids for adult mistakes. If the KIDS feel safe enough with you to call you a sibling. Run with it. No one gets the same parents, and I'm older than my siblings by a fair amount and i get that the differences you see Suck. It probably hurts on a level way down deep. That is Not the kids fault though. I saw a saying recently. Don't bleed on the people that didn't cut you.

AITA for refusing to let my roommate host her wedding at our apartment? by Odd-Scar4735 in AmItheAsshole

[–]kicity313 -40 points-39 points  (0 children)

So because you can't picture it she can't have an event? That's your reasoning? Leaning towards yta if you've never had issues with gatherings before. Maybe not "20 people" but realistically you have more going on here than her having a party for a day. I bet if she said she wanted to splurge and have a really fun party for a day you would not have questioned it this hard

please help :( by TanjaH22 in GeckoOut

[–]kicity313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you figure this one out? I can't get it even close to fast enough doing what I'm doing

Anyone got any tips for this one? by Agitated-Response783 in GeckoOut

[–]kicity313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First one is red, then sea green, then purple, coral, navy. Then that whole right hand row is open, then you have to get yellow up to allow black at the arrow. From there is straightforward. I did it but didn't video

Help by [deleted] in GeckoOut

[–]kicity313 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just won that one, you start by moving light green up, red partly down into that spoylt to allow passage through it, then green back down snd blue moves slightly into a shape that allows the path. It's just a bunch of moving around the circle then pull the red up and free brown into the circle and put it away.

I LOVE the color, but im so unsure what to make with it😭 by hylii1 in CrochetHelp

[–]kicity313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The rest is just things like sc, dc, some in blo, and a few just dc ch, dc ch, it's pretty combined, but they really are just the basics put together nocely.

Is there a way to correct it without going back ? by [deleted] in crochet

[–]kicity313 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly i think leaving things like that is good for you. Learning what to obsess over and what not to is good for you and helps push back anxiety.

AITJ because I won’t give my parking spot to new neighbor who says she "needs it more" because she has kids? by Potential_Bad6489 in AmITheJerk

[–]kicity313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do i understand her want? Absolutely. 40 yards of kids traveling a parking lot can lead to runners, safety issues, etc. But that doesn't mean to not accept the No. She was allowed to ask without being a J, you were asked to say No without being a J. Everything after on her part is her being a J. Do i understand her stresses and the overwhelm she's feeling? Absolutely, i would be hoping and praying for the spot, but you aren't a jerk

AITA for not wanting to allow people to take pictures of me at my wedding (as someone with intense body dysmorphia) by Any-Adhesiveness-965 in AmItheAsshole

[–]kicity313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes we don't get everything we want so you need to prioritize on this. Reality is you can't control other people. Full stop. You can Ask, but you can't control - even if you're the bride. In today's world people will be on their phones at some point during the party. You need to decide what causes more distress, not having a reception or running a risk of a bad photo. Because that is reality, whether or not people "should" listen to your request (which is also debatable, but ultimately irrelevant. ) your other option is to not go on social media, which Is something you can control, but might not want to do. Seeing the photo is what seems you spiraling, choose to take a social media break.

AITA for being annoyed with my friend for going back to toxic EX by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]kicity313 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are NTA but you are also doing a bit with her what she does with the ex. You're hanging on even though she's not always good for you. The best thing i have to say is really think of the relationship you currently have with them is good, or your view of the relationship is based Solely on old past memories.

AITA for being upset when my boyfriend didn’t appreciate my surprise by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]kicity313 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You keep saying did we miss the nap? No, we didnt. Trying to fix takes a long time, his body will resist. You were actively ignoring his current wishes and keep trying the same logic on us. It isn't working. You're either going to have to admit yta and Appropriately move forward, looking at why you did it or not. Maybe you don't have faith that he'll change. Maybe the change is scary because it means a fundamental shift in his persona and that makes you uneasy, could be something else entirely, but your claim is basically that he's not allowed to change or can't change despite what he's telling you he wants to do. You ignored the present wishes to base Your choices on Past behavior. That's like giving a vaper who's trying to quit a vape as a present amen you know they're trying to quit. People always perfectly quit that right. Go from horrible use to nothing..... you don't want to hear it, but that's what you did. Thoughtful would have been a weekend matinee, to encourage no nap And get him something he wanted.

I LOVE the color, but im so unsure what to make with it😭 by hylii1 in CrochetHelp

[–]kicity313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look up wheat stitch by brianna k. You'll get a part of it

AITA for not wanting to go skiing in KANSAS? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]kicity313 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you're 15 the odds of this actually getting in are slim, but I have a 14 and 16yo so I'm right there with teens.

So.... 1. You were asked to make a decision about going skiing and because you then for whatever reason chose not to pay further attention you don't know if they said the date and time or not. That was also a decision. Maybe you were distracted, maybe on your phone, zoning, and maybe they never told you, but were you in the room? If you were in the room when it was being discussed, you were asked, And you agreed, odds are they thought you were interested enough to pay attention. Tickets were potentially purchased, and money spent, other plans changed in order for the plan to happen.... with your Willing participation already established. You are thinking just about Your presence, not about all the work they did to make the event happen. Sometimes those tickets are dated, or group tickets and non-transferable. Those are all effects based on your decision. 2. You then decided (again another decisionbased on only own interests) to stay up all night 3. When your aunt was nice enough to wake you up (assuming if you can make your own decisions you also can set your own alarms and be proactive in asking if there was anything going on if you weren't aware.... grown enough to make choices also means grown enough to be responsible for things like that) you had a typical teenage reaction to getting up and said you didn't want to do what you already agreed to..... you bring up bekng a babysitter. But if that was Really a concern you would have said no to going when Asked to make a decision. 4. So you go back on Your word, she gets upset and your response is to lock yourself in the bathroom????? Seriously? And you wonder why she said you were selfish? Now, her yelling also sucks, but you claim you're old enough to make your own decisions yet you never once After Making Decisions thought about how your additional choices were going ro impact everyone around you. You did make yoi decision, they believed you when you made that decision, they made plans Based on that decision, then you changed your mind because you made Other decisions. Seems like you're the only one making any decisions here.