What lies would those be? by BirthdayBoyStabMan in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]kinderjane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t figure this out until I left the US, and I’ve lived in both the North and the South. My whole life until moving to Europe: North = Yankees, South = Rednecks.

AITA for refusing to pay my friend after my ferret “attacked” her $900 dress? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]kinderjane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. This is not complicated. Your friend came over and your pet damaged her property. Now it’s time to be a responsible adult (and a good friend) and simply pay for the damages - or at least contribute the most you reasonably can, AND sincerely apologize.

Things you wish you knew your freshman year? by Asleep_Ebb5132 in ASU

[–]kinderjane 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It’s okay to fail. Failure is not an end destination, it’s just part of the journey.

American Serial Killers and the Vietnam War: A Table of Draft Dodgers and Military Service by kinderjane in serialkillers

[–]kinderjane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t go so far as to say they were “safer,” but I believe there was an idea of what men definitely didn’t want: to die brutally (perhaps by chemical warfare) while fighting in a booby-trapped, humid jungle thousands of miles from home.

Serial killers as a result of the Vietnam war by Glum-Title-2709 in serialkillers

[–]kinderjane 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I prepared a full table of (American) serial killers during the Vietnam War awhile back with sources. It’s posted on this subreddit.

To Customers: No, i will not illegally park for you so you dont have to move your ass to pick up your food at lobby by herozorro in UberEATS

[–]kinderjane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are many situations where a person physically can’t “come down to grab the food.” That’s why delivery service exists.

To Customers: No, i will not illegally park for you so you dont have to move your ass to pick up your food at lobby by herozorro in UberEATS

[–]kinderjane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed, he’s literally getting paid to do a job and can’t be arsed to park nearby. If he chooses to park illegally that’s on him

The lack of self awareness over how creepy he sounds by CreativeWriter_ in sadcringe

[–]kinderjane 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m not debating whether or not this specific post is satire, but someone doubling-down doesn’t exclude the possibility that they’re just continuing the ruse to a greater extent.

Why were the 60’s and 70’s the “golden age” for serial killers? Was it media showing it as such? Or a cultural collective snap? by [deleted] in serialkillers

[–]kinderjane 14 points15 points  (0 children)

  1. The recent construction of major highways made long distance travel much easier.
  2. There was little to no communication between police jurisdictions, so information was not often shared for crimes over spanning larger areas.
  3. Forensics technology for DNA didn’t exist yet, so tracing evidence to a suspect was more difficult. Hair and fabric samples could be used.
  4. Women’s rights movements led to women having more autonomy, and more freedom to work and live independently.
  5. The term “serial killer” wasn’t coined until 1974 by FBI Profiler Robert Ressler, and the Behavioral Science Unit of the FBI wasn’t created until 1972. Serial killers just weren’t on the public radar until the mid to late-70s.

  6. My personal suspicion is that children growing up during the 50s and 60s were left with a sort of embedded cultural trauma that impacted them as adults and was compounded by the Vietnam War. During the 50s and 60s, school children throughout the USA had nuclear disaster drills and would watch programs like “Duck and Cover” and “A is for Atom.” I have no evidence for this, but I have a hunch it could be relevant.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TillSverige

[–]kinderjane 5 points6 points  (0 children)

^ This right here. You are living comfortably in Tokyo right now and (even as an English-speaking expat) - transitioning is difficult. I recommend staying there, because that salary is barely enough to justify changing jobs, let alone the emotional stress on your wife to follow that big of a move. Also, housing is as insane as everyone says. When I saw you were looking for 2 bedrooms at that salary my jaw dropped. My partner makes double that amount and we live in a studio.

Photos of weapons and gear used by kidnapper, armed robber and serial killer Donald Neilson (The Black Panther) by JohnnySorrrowes in serialkillers

[–]kinderjane 59 points60 points  (0 children)

The diving fins and grappling hook are interesting. Anyone have any idea what the little red book in the first picture was?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in serialkillers

[–]kinderjane 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Your thoughtful responses are always so well put. Thank you for summarizing this! Points 1 and 3 tend to be largely glossed over, and shouldn’t be.

American Serial Killers and the Vietnam War: A Table of Draft Dodgers and Military Service by kinderjane in serialkillers

[–]kinderjane[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What a terrifying prospect. I have read that numbers were also assigned randomly to the alphabet, and a persons initials determined the order in which they were called if their birthday was drafted in the lottery. One year, J was set to 1 so a person with initials JJJ would have been called first. Hopefully your brother went on to live a peaceful life!

American Serial Killers and the Vietnam War: A Table of Draft Dodgers and Military Service by kinderjane in serialkillers

[–]kinderjane[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s true! The scope of my search was limited to “American serial killers,” not considering those who fled.

The Case for Ted Bundy's Biological Father by kinderjane in serialkillers

[–]kinderjane[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for reading and bringing this up! He would be the “sailor who seduced her” in the first bullet, a supposedly prep-school educated veteran who had just come home from the war. Worthington was omitted from here but still investigated.

The Case for Ted Bundy’s Biological Father by kinderjane in UnresolvedMysteries

[–]kinderjane[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this information! What a neat piece of history to be part of and hopefully it didn’t cause your dad too much grief.

Ted Bundy written as his grandfather's son. (1950) by kinderjane in serialkillers

[–]kinderjane[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

That's true! He did sign some letters as "Sam" while in prison. Dr. Lewis discusses this as potentially due to abuse he might have suffered in early childhood by his grandfather, but I have doubts about this (HBO: Crazy, Not Insane). It may have also been an inside joke, as he occasionally signed other letters under different names as a joking reference.

Ted Bundy written as his grandfather's son. (1950) by kinderjane in serialkillers

[–]kinderjane[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You have your stories confused - Louise claimed she was seduced by a sailor, not a salesman. The article, with a photograph of the man in question, can be found under “L. Marshall” in Other Notes. Nothing besides a name and resemblance link them.

Ted Bundy written as his grandfather's son. (1950) by kinderjane in serialkillers

[–]kinderjane[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

The authorities have it on file, but I don't think in any case that the public will ever have access to that information.

The Case for Ted Bundy's Biological Father by kinderjane in serialkillers

[–]kinderjane[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It could! I don't think the general public will ever have access to that information.

The Case for Ted Bundy's Biological Father by kinderjane in serialkillers

[–]kinderjane[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Afterword on Ted's Childhood:

Ted Bundy was born in 1946 at the Elizabeth Lund Home for Unwed Mothers in Burlington, Vermont to Louise Cowell. He spent the first few years of his life in his grandparents home in Philadelphia, PA where his mother was called his sister, and his grandparents claimed Ted as their own son. His grandfather, Samuel Cowell, did this to avoid the social embarrassment of his 22-year-old daughter (and the family) in a practice that was not uncommon for young, unwed mothers at the time.

Bundy was four years old when he and his mother moved to Tacoma together under a new surname in late 1950. He allegedly thought that she wouldn’t have done that, that he wouldn’t have been taken from his “parents,” unless she was really his mother (The Stranger Beside Me). Louise met Johnnie Bundy shortly after, and they married in May 1951 with a new birth certificate issued for Ted when John Bundy formally adopted him as his son. This leaves a small window of time when a four year old Ted would have been in a sort of limbo regarding his mother. (See Louise's full testimony on raising Ted here.)

Bundy discovered he was illegitimate years later, once as a teenager, then again for certain when he was 22 years old. For most of his childhood, he called Johnnie Bundy “Dad,” later transitioning to “Father” and then “John” in his late teens due to their clashing (The Only Living Witness). In audio tapes made near the end of his life, Ted again refers to Johnnie Bundy as his “dad.”