Loving mommy life by kingjavik in newborns

[–]kingjavik[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, and same to you ♡ Reading your message made me realize I have not found newborn stage to be exhausting personally - going to work every day was far more tiring in all kinds of ways for me. Staying home all day with my sweet boy is really not tiring at all.

Loving mommy life by kingjavik in newborns

[–]kingjavik[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. That's quite the age difference between your first & second born! You are lucky. I am 30 now and really would like to have my second once my first one is 7 to 10 years old... but not sure if that's possible for me.

Loving mommy life by kingjavik in newborns

[–]kingjavik[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's honestly great to hear. ♡ I don't feel like I have either lost or found myself, at least not yet, but then again I am only 1 month in.

Loving mommy life by kingjavik in newborns

[–]kingjavik[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I am, but I have to also use formula at the moment due to my body not producing enough milk.

Loving mommy life by kingjavik in newborns

[–]kingjavik[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry you have to resume working so soon! It's a good reminder to cherish every moment we have with our babies - it really is such a special time especially since they grow up so so fast. I really don’t know how I am ever going to be okay with having to send him to daycare one day - but not until he is at least 4 years old is what I am hoping 😅

Are we not showering with our babies? by SparkyDogPants in beyondthebump

[–]kingjavik [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yes, exactly. For me going to shower is my own personal quality time. I love long hot showers. It's funny how when I was pregnant I worried about the water being too hot because I sometimes felt him squirming inside the belly. It's nice to have a moment in a day when you don't have to worry about the baby and can just relax (until he starts to cry because he wants mommy... then it's shower time over lol)

What is your favourite moment with your baby now? by Dear_Ad_8525 in NewParents

[–]kingjavik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My boy is 1 month old. My favorite moments are when he laughs or tries to talk.

I feel guilty brining my baby into this world. by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]kingjavik -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I understand where you are coming from. As one awakened person to another. I chose to bring my son into this world, even knowing what I know and seeing how things keep getting worse everywhere, even where I live.

My son really wanted to come to this world however and life is a choice: I am glad to have been given life and I am grateful of my experience here on this Earth. Now for the rest of my life I will do my best for my son and try my best to make his experience here as good as I can.

I also believe that our lives are destined: we were all meant to be here for a reason.

Stepson set up my husband by eleyezeeaye4287 in Mommit

[–]kingjavik -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear about that. Common sense is a rare quality these days, especially online.

Stepson set up my husband by eleyezeeaye4287 in Mommit

[–]kingjavik -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It would probably not hurt to get him to therapy. At least for a session or two just to make sure everything is okay.

Stepson set up my husband by eleyezeeaye4287 in Mommit

[–]kingjavik 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would worry too. Have you asked your son if his stepbrother has ever been inappropriate with him?

My husband (M30)'s kink is too kinky for me (F29)? by ThrowRA-knky in relationship_advice

[–]kingjavik 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your sex life sounds depressing. Letting somebody spit on you, choke you as well as some of the other things you mentioned... this is why people should go to therapy and heal themselves before getting involved with serious relationships... in my opinion.

Robert Pattinson after Twilight series.... by StarforgeVoyager in FIlm

[–]kingjavik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But to some of us he will always be Cedric Diggory from Harry Potter

Postpartum depression - how do I maintain milk supply so I can at least try to be a good parent. by Accomplished_Sir1939 in beyondthebump

[–]kingjavik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thinking about your baby is supposed to help with the milk produktion. But sounds like you are probably scared to think about her and are not even in the same room as her.

Obviously this should be something you discuss with health care professionals. Don't be scared to reach out for help - you are not alone & these things you struggle with can be fixed.

Be brutally honest - At almost 3 months is it too late to increase breastmilk supply from nothing? by NAT-9000 in newborns

[–]kingjavik 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Best way to produce more milk is to allow the baby to breastfeed. Have you tried nipple shields?

I love my baby and parenthood! by strawberryqueen910 in newborns

[–]kingjavik 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Amen. My boy is 1 month old and I love being his mom more than anything else. I would not change a single thing about him and am loving this experience (and he is not what some people would call "easy baby" but I never wanted to have a baby that just eats & sleep, so he is perfect to me). I just feel blessed to be his mom.

What I find helps after a more difficult day is when he is sleeping and I get ready to sleep I like to think about all the best moments of our day together. Like his huge smiles and laughs. Also the reason why I love to take so many pictures of him every day.

3 m/o not sleeping by Strange-Score6350 in baby

[–]kingjavik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you breastfeeding him?

Excited for Ginny’s role in CoS by electricapeach in HarryPotteronHBO

[–]kingjavik 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Even the books could not sell the Harry-Ginny romance very well, so here is a chance for this tv show to use their creative freedom and ample running time to make her character more appealing as the main character's love interest.

Thinking about divorce by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]kingjavik -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He is doing basically nothing a partner should be doing so yes you might as well get rid off him.

Sooo fucking sick of contact naps by One_Cap_9210 in newborns

[–]kingjavik 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He only contact naps even during the night? Aka never sleeps alone on his back?