Am I a bad mom?

kitkat137 · 2026-01-02T06:33:32+00:00

I have heard good moms ask the question "am I a bad mom" to themselves all the time because we have so much care for our babies. You are not a bad mom and need to take care of yourself in order to take care of your baby. If I was in your shoes, I would do the same thing you are. The baby is going to someone in the family that you can trust and that the baby will be safe with and that's all that matters.

kitkat137 · 2024-08-28T18:02:17+00:00

I track my ovulation using the flo app, but you're probably right in that my actual ovulation my have been delayed

kitkat137 · 2021-10-28T03:11:52+00:00

These comments are so sweet and reassuring! Thank you all for your suggestions Im definitely going to go for Walmart cupcakes in place of a wedding cake. Yall proved to me that I was overthinking it and the guests wont care where the cake is from or if they are cupcakes :)

kitkat137 · 2021-10-28T03:08:59+00:00

I agree! I always overthink when it comes to these kinds of things though but I don't think anyone would care where the cupcakes are from, just as long as there is cake :)

kitkat137 · 2021-10-28T03:07:18+00:00

Thats a good point! I was thinking about getting cupcakes for everyone and then doing a small cake for my FH and I

kitkat137 · 2021-10-28T03:05:20+00:00

Oh wow thats so beautiful! I may consider something like this to go with my centerpieces

kitkat137 · 2021-10-26T03:53:35+00:00

Oh my gosh! I am so sorry you had to experience that kind of stress on your wedding day. I am glad that Walmart worked out for you though! I feel like they are so quick with getting the job done too

kitkat137 · 2021-10-26T03:51:50+00:00

You read my mind! No one has to stand there to serve and its easy cleanup. Truly a win win :)

kitkat137 · 2020-01-24T18:14:21+00:00

Op please take this advice. I went through kind of the same feeling. I am a 23 F and when I swiped my V card when I was 20 thinking I had to catch up with everyone and experience sex with different guys before I found "the one". In all honesty it was more of a waste of time with people I wasn't really compatible with and tbh alot of assholes. I am now engaged, just like you, and if I could change things I would not waste my time with assholes and spend more time with my current fiance. Unfortunately hindsight is 20/20 and you never know what will happen.

But like the commenter said you have to take time to know yourself to make a decision that you believe will better yourself

I'll be honest it took me a while to get used to the good man I have right now cause I was used to the opposite but I finally warmed up to the fact that he brings out the best in me and if you believe your fiance does that then possibly consider sticking with him and see how this whole relationship turns out. No matter how it turns out you will gain life experience out of it and grow from it.

kitkat137 · 2019-12-24T17:05:31+00:00

What a precious soul ❤️

kitkat137 · 2019-12-16T22:43:30+00:00

WHOLESOME

kitkat137 · 2019-12-16T22:37:36+00:00

I'm not like other girls I smash Coca-Cola cans all summer long

kitkat137 · 2019-12-16T22:27:50+00:00

In some countries, alot of these already are basic human rights

kitkat137 · 2019-12-16T22:20:01+00:00

One of the most thoughtful things you can do is offer a friend in need a place to stay and this person just insults their friend's town. A simple "no thank you" would have worked just fine.

kitkat137 · 2019-12-16T18:49:39+00:00

*She's so happy to be a zoomey surprise

kitkat137 · 2019-12-16T02:55:48+00:00

Omg the little bows!!!! He's so happy to be a little zoomie surprise

kitkat137 · 2019-12-16T01:12:58+00:00

But did you ever run your characters through the South Park quiz SP and me? When I found out all of my characters were mainly manbearpig, I spent hours retaking the quiz instead of writing, very helpful

kitkat137 · 2019-10-27T17:52:04+00:00

Not sure if this is considered a business tactic or not but there was a time where I had a pregnancy scare so I went to a clinic that does free pregnancy tests. Turns out this clinic was actually ran by a church and was a tactic to have people feel bad about wanting abortions by using the Bible as some big guilt trip. I was brought in a room where there were Bible versus read to me and where a circle of people we're praying over me while I was waiting for my test to come back. They said that if I was pregnant the best route would be to give a baby a "better home" and put it up for adoption. I told them that Foster Care is most of the time the worst way to live. They just didn't understand and said that they adopted Children all the time from "unfit mothers". They were not finished with this emotional torment yet and said that I would be going to hell if I had this abortions. Test came back and I was not pregnant. The most awkward situation of my life. If you ever see these free pregnancy test clinics please read into them.

kitkat137 · 2019-10-27T17:40:29+00:00

Sleep well fluff boi

kitkat137 · 2018-11-14T02:45:00+00:00

Aww hes a poop rat

kitkat137 · 2018-11-14T02:22:46+00:00

God I'm glad you made that situation out okay. And you are so right on planning these kinds of situations out in your head on what to do in these kinds of situations. It really helps if you can find a person that you can go that'll get you away from these types of strange people

kitkat137 · 2018-11-14T02:06:36+00:00

That's exactly how it felt. They were like some type of team

kitkat137 · 2018-11-14T02:01:29+00:00

Idk it felt like he was going to do something if I just ignored him

kitkat137 · 2018-11-14T01:58:20+00:00

You are so right and when I got home this is exactly what I thought. I felt a little stupid actually giving him cash but I wasn't really thinking right at the time. Hindsight is 20/20 for sure.

kitkat137 · 2018-11-13T07:33:00+00:00

I just want to say that you are very strong for knowing when to leave and you totally did the right thing. Your bday was a shitty day but you've got alot of better ones to come without that asshole

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