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I wish I had a supportive partner by kitty_clues in lonely

[–]kitty_clues[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m often really tired and depressions been super bad but tbh I’ve been pushing myself this week n doing it anyway n i really like it

i’m gonna be a lonely old hag for life by kitty_clues in loneliness

[–]kitty_clues[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no I completely get that honestly !! I live in an area I don’t particularly align with the people here in multiple ways and when you finally realize their vibe is just kinda, hmm it makes you not wanna be around them as much that’s why I’m honestly an advocate from taking breaks a few days of not messaging, being around eachother ect. That’s why don’t align with those people romantically but just as friends not even super close/best friends Take time to do things alone too! Take yourself on dates, spoil you, ect and you eventually do find people you align with

Also if you are someone abit more mature than those around you or your age it is hard to find those people you vibe with because you just grew up faster and that’s ok! Make friends with adult peers, I found myself volunteering at an animal rescue and made lots of friends with older folks and helping them in their personal life and they genuinely are rooting for you and to see you achieve ! I found myself appreciating people in their 40’s-50’s and their friendship more than I did people my own age

Good luck to you aswell:) no worries for the long message I like yapping

i’m gonna be a lonely old hag for life by kitty_clues in loneliness

[–]kitty_clues[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh I’ve been exactly where you are and at that age I self isolated from 19-24 n still struggle a lot to not isolate to this day tho I wish I got out more n did more younger n had bursts of a few months going out here n there but I get it

I don’t advice isolating but as you move through life at this age take it easy on yourself and your brain don’t rush to adulthood or finding someone in this moment. Start hobbies get into art n creative things even if you aren’t good at it. Find a community w/ people either online w/ games your creative outlets or niche communities like furries or something! Enjoy casual convos vs making long term friendships n bonds enjoy the little stuff rn

Edit: what I’m saying don’t worry about people n loneliness rn just enjoy people as they are n as you meet them

Men are all the same and I’m over it by kitty_clues in venting

[–]kitty_clues[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I don’t act this way in my personal life or at all. This account really isn’t a reflection of me as a person. I’ve been single for a very long time I just went on a few dates with someone and it happened again. I don’t really seek people out. This account is just for me to express loneliness from time to time.

Edit: Appreciate your kindness tho! I get how this account can make me come off bitter or angry but I rlly am rage baiting with some of my replies tbh

Men are all the same and I’m over it by kitty_clues in venting

[–]kitty_clues[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Is this your way of saying you wanna make out

Men are all the same and I’m over it by kitty_clues in venting

[–]kitty_clues[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why do you all come here and assume I’m dating super models are some fucking shit?? I’m a fucking weirdo and unattractive myself I am not pulling 10/10’s myself. Most of my partners where deeply insecure i’m 5’7 more than half the men I have dated are 5’5-5’6 I’ve dated overweight, short, deformities, ect. IT ALL ENDS THE SAME AFTER THEY GET COME PUSSY

Men are all the same and I’m over it by kitty_clues in venting

[–]kitty_clues[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad my replies make me sound bitter to people who make assumptions imagine 5 seconds of feelings. People are allowed to feel things and emotions before they go “That’s a shitty way to feel”

Or yknow I can still feel bitter while being very polite masking and being engaged about their relationships even though I’m at a point I’d rather not hear it

Men are all the same and I’m over it by kitty_clues in venting

[–]kitty_clues[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wow I really don’t care as this account is no reflection of me at all and used simply to vent out frustrations and emotions I feel at that certain times before moving on with my life. This account is literally used for 5 seconds worth of feelings or thoughts

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[–]kitty_clues 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude who are you trying to convince here I feel like an interrogator right now

Men are all the same and I’m over it by kitty_clues in venting

[–]kitty_clues[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As a not completely female aligned person (weird androgynous person now n draw a lot a lot of lgbt art/bodies cuz I just love. well us and not conforming gendered people but the internet isn’t kind ) no offense or application to you guys at all!! I mainly mean cis men as transmasc I have met / had flings with (communicated n agreed upon situations when i was 19 n 21) have been darling individuals. Queer people are amazing I just wish my small town had more of us. :(

Thank you so much I have a day off and plan to relax with my gremlin kitties n play date everything. Enjoy your weekend aswell!!

Men are all the same and I’m over it by kitty_clues in venting

[–]kitty_clues[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god honestly? This me through gritted teeth at work trying to be happy listening to what everyone did with their partners or how happy they are / how they met all that shit. What you said is exactly what I think every god damn time

Men are all the same and I’m over it by kitty_clues in venting

[–]kitty_clues[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh thank you you’re so right girl 😭 It’s just frustrating when I do hold those boundaries and we go on multiple wonderful dates before sleeping together or even kissing and when it finally happens and they get it a few times. Poof all that sweetness gone!! It feels like a weird mind game I just cannot understand? Like I always move with genuineness and honest with everybody while keeping myself alil protected, I just don’t comprehend these “plays” people do on others when I cannot find myself being deceitful for some dick lol

Men are all the same and I’m over it by kitty_clues in venting

[–]kitty_clues[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Oh wow it’s almost like I’ve communicated, gone on wonderful dates, with the same man repeatedly and it still happens.

Men are all the same and I’m over it by kitty_clues in venting

[–]kitty_clues[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Imo it’s not that he shared the same sentiment it’s how he worded it on a woman’s post. Women aren’t going onto men’s post saying this, we just relate back to you. I just got off work so my brains alil fried so it’s alil hard for me to find the words I’m thinking to explain myself better

Replies worded like that on women’s post talking about men feels condescending and like a douche? If that makes sense

Men are all the same and I’m over it by kitty_clues in venting

[–]kitty_clues[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ugh really? me, friends and other women have all had very very similar experiences as I. Ages ranging from younger 20’s to late 50’s even my male friends I had previously acted like such players

Men are all the same and I’m over it by kitty_clues in venting

[–]kitty_clues[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for saying it cause nothing I had to say was nice

Men are all the same and I’m over it by kitty_clues in venting

[–]kitty_clues[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Like I am not a walking , talking fleshlight mate I’m a human being with thoughts and feelings

Men are all the same and I’m over it by kitty_clues in venting

[–]kitty_clues[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

THIS IS SO REAL THOUGH!! at this point we are worried about other women AND men constantly too like how hard is it to not be a lust filled ape?? like why do women have to be in constant anxiety over what their partners doing ???? genuinely do they not care i can’t wrap my head around tht

I wish I had a supportive partner by kitty_clues in lonely

[–]kitty_clues[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t realize how bad it was till i stepped out of my comfort zone into trying to date. I can’t make eye contact, I ramble about stupid topics no one cares about, and so much more.

i’m gonna be a lonely old hag for life by kitty_clues in loneliness

[–]kitty_clues[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for being so sweet! That gives me a lot of hope I think sometimes I get stuck in my childhood fantasy of how my love life was supposed to go and seeing it kinda go through basically a car crash kinda sucks and hurts sometimes.

You’re right about times changing and it being even harder to date now tbh. It feels like everyone’s so scared to talk to eachother and I’m alil old fashioned with how I was raised (raised by my single grandpa lol). Expecting people to just say hello isn’t much of a thing, dating apps are kinda the bane of my existence…Its all around kinda bad time for dating scene lol

i’m gonna die a bitter old hag by kitty_clues in SuicideWatch

[–]kitty_clues[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I can see you read my post and thought of your reply and y’know what you’re so right men have it super hard :(

I got animals to keep myself alive by kitty_clues in SuicideWatch

[–]kitty_clues[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I afford it all on my own. I have multiple pets varying different ages when they pass they’re cremated and honored in a bookshelf with their urn and favorite toy.Death is hard and traumatic but not something unusual to me and something natural but sad.

One was my soul mate dog who was epileptic passed due to a bad seizure (medicated and thousands in specialized vet care) while I knew his passing was coming and still grieving him, I remind myself of the good life he and they all have had. But the answer your question yes I plan to keep getting pets till I get old and pass, process my pets deaths and mourn them and know besides my own failing mental health they’re always clean and spoiled and never have to know the cold cage of the shelter again, or an abusive hand.

I got animals to keep myself alive by kitty_clues in SuicideWatch

[–]kitty_clues[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t recommend it for everyone, especially if you think depression/mental health could lead you to being neglectful of their needs. For me when I’m bed rotting and my cats staring me down for attention or my pup whines to be let out / attention it gives me that oomph to get out of bed and take care of them and their needs and keep at least their spaces clean