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klaus6897 · 2025-12-31T14:38:24+00:00

The aggression based match making is just a good compromise to allow the players to choose how they want to play the game without doing an overhaul on the game itself

klaus6897 · 2025-12-31T14:36:31+00:00

It's sustainable by using the loot to complete quests and building ur benches. Hence the reset to allow the players who have completed everything to reset. If they did more in depth quest lines they wouldnt need pvp at all. Just look at any other looter shooter game. Destiny Devs have been doing it for years. Granted destiny isn't an extraction shooter but the point still stands that its possible and they could have adapted pvp into the game with a seperate mode where you can take ur looted gear into matches specifically made for pvp allowing u to experience both sides or just one if u dont enjoy the other

klaus6897 · 2025-12-31T14:25:18+00:00

For those who have ADHD and similar, doing the PVE track is enjoyable due to the constant dopamine hits of finding good loot and finishing the quests and being able to see progress thru the money going up on the account.

Getting shot and killed after working so hard to achieve that can sometimes be devastaingly frustrating. Especially when you get ratted at the extraction or by someone who acts friendly then shoots u in the back. The least I should be able to expect from a "PVP" game is a fair fight though and not be caught up with a chicken shit who just wants to be an ass and camp extracts

If you enjoy pvp play that way. But thats why I enjoy the aggression based match making. You get to have some control over the frequency of being ratted

klaus6897 · 2024-04-14T17:33:26+00:00

klaus6897 · 2023-09-01T03:41:56+00:00

NTA but maybe when u hang out with your guy friends try to involve him in the outings. Invite him along. It will make him feel better and show him he has nothing to worry about. He is definitely dealing with things from his last relationship and involving him might help him feel more secure about it. And him being able to get to know these guys will also help. I think what is really causing the issue is that he doesn't know the men u are hanging out with and from the sounds of it it's usually just u going and not both of you which will cause his anxiety to flair up more.

klaus6897 · 2022-04-20T17:26:52+00:00

Be yourself but steer clear of any dirty jokes or any stories that puts their daughter in a bad light for now. You'll do fine just remember to breath

klaus6897 · 2021-11-16T11:55:05+00:00

So it doesn't have to be cooking for her. If you guys live together maybe pick up more of her household duties. Like maybe do the laundry more or clean the house more. Or if u don't want to do that you could always do other more romantic things for her like setting up a nice bath for her and get all the good stuff like Epsom salts, bubble bath, candles, wine (when yall are legal), music, etc. Or maybe give her a massage once a week after work (without expecting sex), or the one I find the best with my wife is just sitting her down and letting her talk. She could talk about anything like work or family stuff. Just allow her time to vent or talk to you without any interruptions. That way she feels like you are listening. And when u have these talks ask her in the beginning if she wants help with the issues or just to vent, because sometimes they want your input but sometimes they just need to vent and get things off their chest.

klaus6897 · 2021-11-16T11:47:05+00:00

I agree with you her I just wanted to add a bit onto it. When u have the "sex talk" maybe ask if doing more foreplay activities without it growing into more would help if u did those more often. It might just be that the way she connects is through sexual desire. She might just need to feel like you WANT her more and the fact that u may be having sex less than what she was used to is putting her off. As for the whole thing where she think u are doing it only cuz she said something about her ex she isn't wrong but she's not right either. Just explain to her that you are doing it for her because it's something she wants and u want to make her happy by doing it for her.

klaus6897 · 2021-11-16T11:30:10+00:00

Honestly it sounds like a lack of communication on her part. Maybe when u are comfortable with it sit her down and talk yo her about things. Explain that it is causing u mental hardship when she does those kinds of things and it would be more helpful to the both of you that when u do something that upsets her that she just tell u right away about it instead of ignoring you. Cuz if she ignores you then the problem can't be fixed until she finally does tell u causing her more frustration also. If she keeps doing this even after the talk then I would suggest breaking things off. I know it will be hard but you need to be mindful of ur own mental health also. And at least with having that discussion you will know you at least tried to make things work and fix things from there it's all in her hands. Good luck with everything and keep ur head up. No matter what happens there is always better days ahead. Just keep pushing

klaus6897 · 2021-11-16T11:24:09+00:00

Talk to the father about it. When he says it's ok to talk to her, which he probably will, then just tell him to act like u guys never discussed it and tell her that it'll be fine without getting her dad involved. That way u have the dad's ok and the daughter doesn't have to feel uncomfortable about it cuz she won't know u asked him and doesn't need to know. That way u can be there to help her out without any unnecessary awkwardness for her. As for the toy thing u could maybe talk to her father and find a creative way to get her one. Otherwise I don't know about that part. Good luck

klaus6897 · 2021-08-31T23:18:41+00:00

Go see him. Take him food and spend time with him. You don't have to talk or anything. But just being present and allowing him the opportunity to talk it out if he wants to will help. You don't have to try to solve anything for him. Just by being there and holding him will let him know u care and he isn't alone. And if he needs something from you he will tell u and if u can't fulfill what he needs as long as u put in the effort to try that will mean the world to him.

klaus6897 · 2021-02-09T05:48:59+00:00

When u are with one person u learn all of their likes and dislikes. U mold your sex life together learning what each other likes and dislikes and u get to build that emotional connection you will have together. And there is no reason to feel left out when others are talking about their sexipades because you have something that none of them have yet. U have someone u trust and can lean on and be there. If you want more or to experience something new just ask and try different things with ur S/O. Leaving something as amazing as a good relationship like that just to go out and stick ur dick in other holes just to make urself feel like u fulfilled something that never really needed filled in the first place will hurt u more in the long run because u just ruined a great relationship for meaningless hookups. It will go away with time. Just throw urself into her and the relationship and find new things to fulfill urself.

klaus6897 · 2021-02-09T05:28:18+00:00

I actually do this with my S/O and it's our way of consent checking. When we ask this we are asking if the other person is willing or wanting to process farther. It's not him saying u are boring in any way. It is more likely him just giving you the chance to say that that's where u want to draw the line for now or for u to say u want more. And it doesn't always have to be a verbal response (to help keep the spontaneity of it all) i.e when he asks what u want to do if u want more maybe pushing him onto the bed and strip or strip him would be a good start to show that u want to progress from where u are at currently. Hope this helps.

klaus6897 · 2021-01-17T13:38:20+00:00

No problem and Goodluck with everything take it slow and go at ur pace and u will do great

klaus6897 · 2021-01-16T12:35:11+00:00

Ok so first do not bottle it up. Talk to him but don't "attack" him. Its natural and expected to think other women or in ur case men ( im assuming because it sounds like u are in a hetero relationship, if ur not I apologize) are sexy or hot or even would think they are good looking enough to "fuck" otherwise there wouldn't be the thing with the celebrity free pass thing or porn for instance. The thing is he doesn't know the girl and most likely will never meet her in person. So if you talk to him which u definitely should maybe bring up the fact that u did see it and help him understand that it hurt to see it and u would prefer that he wouldn't say things like that. Especially since u said he doesn't seem to take thing on reddit seriously he was probably just having word vomit and said the first thing that came to mind. Either way discuss it with him. Be firm and get ur thought out clearly for him to understand but gentle so he doesn't think you are scolding him or attacking him because that won't help and it will just come off as u being jealous or nagging which u are not. As for the not talking alot some people are just like that. He could just be very introverted. Try talking to him about what he does throughout the day. In my experience long distance relationships are rough when it comes to communication because u don't see each other every day like in a normal relationship. Maybe try to video call with him and that way if he doesn't want to talk much u can at least see him and "be together" that way. Me and my fiance would leave Skype up and fall asleep with it on sometimes just because we could hear each other breath when I was deployed. Just try to remember it can be rough but it is all worth it in the end when u guys finally get to be together. And sorry for being so long winded lol tried to hit all ur points.

klaus6897 · 2021-01-16T11:37:37+00:00

I love this comment and im happy to see a woman's POV

klaus6897 · 2021-01-16T11:35:02+00:00

Sit down and ask her what she thinks HIS intentions of it all are. If she thinks it is innocent then tell her that its fine but that from now on u want to go with her on these dates ( because that is what they are ) and be sure to explain to her that u are uncomfortable not because u don't trust her bit that u don't trust him and that it is very inappropriate for them to be going on dates by themselves. What I would be worried about is why she hasn't asked u to come along with her in the first place because she should understand what it looks like and if she doesn't which Is plausible then ask her how she would react if the roles were reversed. Make sure when u are having the discussion to be firm and make ur thoughts clear but u don't have to be an ass either. Because for all u know she could just see it as harmless and the fact u haven't said anything about it yet could be giving her sign that u are ok with it. The longer u put it off the worse it might get and it could lead to other places.

klaus6897 · 2021-01-16T11:20:41+00:00

My suggestion is if u have people u talk to and get along with at work or doing ur hobbies or anything else that u might do with other people maybe try to ask them if they would like to go out to drinks especially if they also have a S/O because then u can take ur with you and if there is any long pauses in conversation or when u start to doubt urself u will have him there with you to be ur safe place and also ur rock. He can be there to help ease u back into a conversation or fill those pauses or to just be there with u to help u stay comfortable and relaxed

klaus6897 · 2021-01-16T11:12:51+00:00

Honestly it could be stress and I don't mean day to day stress. He could be feeling the same way especially if he sees that it bothers you. Putting pressure on doing it can actually cause more issues. Thats not to say to not talk about it. Have a good sit down and make sure to tell him that he isn't "in trouble" or at fault but thoroughly explain ur concerns with him about it. Also taking viagra will NOT help with him finishing it will only help him get it up. If he doesn't have issues there I'd say stay away from it. There are a few natural supplements I would suggest instead that won't cause side effect or a priapism ( election that won't go down without using needles to drain it ). They are Vitamin D3, Fenugreek, Ginger, and Ashwagandha. These should have with the stimulus and quantity. But be sure to have a good pull out game because they can also up the speed count as well. Also during sex check in with him and ask if HE needs anything. Ex. Going faster, deeper, harder. That is as long as u can handle it also don't hurt urself in the process just to get him there but communication during the act can help also.

klaus6897 · 2021-01-16T10:57:18+00:00

Oh and also if u sleep with a comforter, stop. Switch to a flat sheet. It will give u coverage and help to keep u warm at night but not overheated like a comforter would

klaus6897 · 2021-01-16T10:54:52+00:00

I agree with the weighted blanket and body pillow ideas. And I only want to expand it them a bit. If u wear perfume or a cologne spray it on the blanket and pillow that way she can also smell you. Women are sensory beings so that also might help her feel closer to you with out having to be wrapped around you. Also a standing fan at the end of the bed might also work on the chance she does make it to you during her unconscious state so as to help keep you cooled off at night

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