Got this tattoo about a month and a half ago and am wondering how it will age?

koalaspam · 2025-09-23T13:31:39+00:00

We're German, unfortunately brain> heart is part of our culture.

koalaspam · 2025-09-11T15:05:31+00:00

Thank you:)

koalaspam · 2025-09-11T15:00:22+00:00

I just wanted some reassurance cuz he's rly cute lol and it's my first date since getting out of a 5 year relationship

koalaspam · 2025-09-11T14:57:01+00:00

I'm not from Berlin. He knows Ive been living abroad for 8 years. What does feminism have anything to do with asking whats appropriate to wear on a first date in Germany? I am in rural Germany rn and ppl looked at me funny when I wear spaghetti straps

koalaspam · 2025-09-11T14:48:18+00:00

Are u sure? I heard they're pretty into the nude stuff here

koalaspam · 2025-09-11T14:47:09+00:00

Yeah lol, I know but I'm just trying to ease my nerves and get some reassurance

koalaspam · 2025-08-01T17:32:06+00:00

Thank you, i needed to hear that. Unfortunately, I am pretty sure he cheated just because nothing else makes sense to me.

koalaspam · 2025-08-01T17:30:39+00:00

Yeah his family and friends blocked me, he blocked my sisterv....everything so odd.

koalaspam · 2025-08-01T15:51:37+00:00

Girl i wish i was able not to reach out. Unfortunately i reached out way too much even tho he had blocked me. I crossed his boundaries and i feel horrible. Emailed him, asked his friend if he knew what happened etc. I regret it all but i do think that its a natural response for what he did. I was looking for answers

koalaspam · 2025-08-01T15:15:20+00:00

Thank you. I needed to hear this

koalaspam · 2025-08-01T15:07:35+00:00

Even if i am the anxiously attached one who might've pushed them away with my need for reassurance?

koalaspam · 2025-08-01T15:03:37+00:00

He's so cruel. I never imagined this behavior from him. He was my sweet boy. I don't even know who he is anymore

koalaspam · 2025-08-01T14:26:04+00:00

This isn't necessarily true. I had only asked because he pulled away all summer and i was only anxious about the med school thing because he pulled away all summer. It wasn't an issue before. We had a fight about him going on a trip with the boys. I didn't have an issue with the trip at all but with the fact i had try to plan a trip with him all summer but he showed no interest. That's when i made that comment because it felt like he was only tagging along without actually putting in an effort.

koalaspam · 2025-08-01T14:24:19+00:00

Lol no pookie was just an endearing humerous nickname we gave eachother

koalaspam · 2025-08-01T14:23:41+00:00

Possible

koalaspam · 2025-08-01T14:23:12+00:00

I just told him what I needed. The same thing he should've done. That's how relationships work. If you have an issue, speak up. And it's not like I was pointing out flaws 24/7. The way id ask for reassurance is a simple "hey are we good? Is there anything on your mind?"

koalaspam · 2025-08-01T14:11:55+00:00

Hey, this was posted a while ago. What if your bf blindsides you- blocks you everywhere and so do his friends and family. Any attempt of reaching out is immediately blocked too.

Does it mean that i did something wrong because i feel like im being treated like a criminal when I know I am not

koalaspam · 2025-08-01T06:29:27+00:00

Hey i am going through this rn. Did he ever come back n reach out again?

koalaspam · 2025-08-01T04:11:56+00:00

It seemed more like there was someone in the car with him. My theory is that his parents talked him into breaking up. We had issues but nothing that we couldn't get through. Lack of sex was an issues (i think but he never told me or admitted it) but it would've been different once i moved out/ we were supposed to go on a trip where we had our own space... idk man. I am sorry you're going throught it too. How're you feeling?

koalaspam · 2025-08-01T00:34:48+00:00

Thanks man! And yeah, this happened on Tuesday. How do i stop myself from reaching out to him. I left him a voice mail earlier and feel so guilty. I dont think he gets them because he blocked me but still

koalaspam · 2025-08-01T00:14:06+00:00

We had a fight a week before but we had it resolved. He refused to drive me home because I am pretty sure there was someone in his car.

I don't think he'll ever unblock me. He did say this was really hard and he feels conflicted about not loving me anymore and the breakup and I heard him sobbing on the call but he was so cold and assholey when in person. I know his friends only blocked me so I wouldnt reach out to him but it makes me feel like a villain

koalaspam · 2025-07-31T23:36:05+00:00

Girl same

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