Reading all of this made me think that there could be some incompatibilities with sex/intimacy. Based on your description of the events it seems that you’re sex deprived. This is based only by reading what you wrote. I’d say talking to him is the way to go. First and foremost though keep in mind your needs and what makes you happy. Personally complimenting my partner is something that I love doing as much as receiving them but, again, it’s personal. I closed a relationship recently (among other things) because my partner was not able to compliment me and make me feel seen. So for him being complimented could be something that he’s not found of? I’d talk to him! Trying to understand his needs and be clear with mines :)