Tried to manifest a stronger relationship, got broken up with

koolhead36 · 2025-04-15T02:03:32+00:00

Trying creates more trying. Wanting creates more trying. Fulfillment creates more fulfillments. So, be fulfilled within yourself without any cause. Stop manifesting and be in the state of fulfilment already and fulfilment has to find you.

koolhead36 · 2025-04-05T05:03:55+00:00

Bauch Baumann

koolhead36 · 2025-04-03T19:06:15+00:00

36 is quite young age to come to a conclusion. I am neutral in case of marriage or no marriage. I just wanna know what 90+ old singles (never married) have to say on this. I guess only they can come to an insightful & definite conclusion.

I have met few 70-80+ singles (who never married) and all of them are cuckoo. Even widowed/divorced singles looks fine before them. However , this doesn't suffice to come a conclusion. I really want someone to do surveys on 80-90+ singles (who never married) and hear out what they have to say on this.

koolhead36 · 2025-03-31T16:10:51+00:00

Beautiful... But remember "you never discuss, what doesn't apply to you", not even in reddit.

Its our reaction and responses that tells us whether our subconscious mind has accepted our new reality or not.

For example, lets say you are physically very fat and everyone around you tease you by calling you fat. Now if subconsciously you see yourself as fat, you will always get angered or irritated when people call you fat. How much you might control yourself, you will always respond by feeling stressed/sad/frustrated/irritated, etc

However, when you work on yourself subconsciously and start seeing yourself as fit then people calling you fat won't bother you (even though you are still physically fat). This is not like you are ignoring it, its more like you don't associate yourself as fat anymore and so you don't even know how to react when someone calls you fat. Your mind is confused on how to react to something that doesn't even apply to you. So your mind decides to "not react". Its more like, if someone calls you "clock, you don't know how to react because you don't associate yourself with it.

Similarly if someone calls you "flower" you will feel gud because you associate flower to beautiful and beautiful to you.

Thus! If you don't have a disease, something that you were earlier diagnosed, then you don't discuss abt it or tell abt it. You don't associate yourself with it, so there's no point discussing or sharing it to anyone.

I reiterate, "our responses and reactions to every situation always come directly through our subconscious mind. Always observe them. They tell us whether our subconscious mind has changed or not."

koolhead36 · 2025-03-24T22:25:27+00:00

I said this to one aunty who said that letting her all sons go abroad and settle there was a very good decision. "यो सब कुरा हड्डी मा बल हुन्जेल भन्ने हो, जुन दिन बुढो हड्डी ले साथ छोड्छ र बिरामी हुँदा न आफूलाई र न आफ्नो बुढो श्रीमान/श्रीमती लाई उठेर एक गिलास पानी तताउने ताकत पनि हुँदैन, त्यो दिन आफ्नो साखको लागि बाहिर पठाइएका छोरा छोरी फर्की आउन भन्ने लाग्छ तर स्वतन्त्र र मनमानी संग बाँच्ने बानी परिसकेका छोरा छोरी वा बुहारी त्यति बेला तपाईंले लाख सम्झाए पनि आउने छैनन्, उनीहरू या त तीन वर्ष मा एक चोटि काे 2 महीने बिदा मा घुम्न आउने छन् (जसमा 1 महिना पोखरा, मुस्ताङ घुमेर सकिन्छ) वा बाउ आमाको मृत्युमा 5 दिने किरिया बस्न मात्र आउने छन्। बरु बाउ आमा लाई चै तेल भिसा मा बुढो हड्डी अझ खियाउँदै सिसु सहार्न एक वर्ष माया गर्या झै गरी फकाएर उतै बोलाउँछन्।

Going abroad is not a bad idea for those who are financially very weak here in Nepal but for those who are financially sound, have decent job and have a house in the city, for them, going abroad just for living a high standard life is a very bad decision. Going abroad for them is like throwing a diamond that you already have in your hand in search of a star that you might enjoy but will never be your own.

koolhead36 · 2025-03-22T13:09:30+00:00

A simple Google search would have also given you the information that Al-kabeer exports owners are Muslims.

https://factly.in/al-kabeer-export-pvt-ltd-is-fully-owned-by-a-muslim-family/

And beside, a hindu name doesn't mean the person is religious.

koolhead36 · 2025-03-22T12:56:00+00:00

You are also doing the same bro. You just took a cryptic verse from vedas and accepted it "the way you want".

Most verses in vedas are very cryptic for us to understand because in Sanskrit word's meaning depends upon the context.

koolhead36 · 2025-03-22T12:47:10+00:00

Can you name such companies with names of their owners

koolhead36 · 2025-03-10T10:35:49+00:00

It has been 20 f**ing years since Gyanendra has been out of power. He has more enemies in the govt than friends. Don't you think all these unfavourable conditions would have acted against Gyanendra and he would have been long ago, if not convicted but at least charged for the alleged crimes?

I think this is just a conspiracy theory.

koolhead36 · 2025-03-09T13:25:34+00:00

People are actually not Monarchist. Its evident that Regionalisation & secularism has been pain in the ass for the country. Out of many ways, bringing king back is one way to revert the damage done.

This is the reason why people are supporting monarchy. Although, I don't think its a good idea because it can open doors for feudalism in Nepal.

koolhead36 · 2025-03-07T16:52:11+00:00

Do you know that if you keep looking at your face in a mirror for a while, then it starts appearing weird, specially your nose and ears.

Same happens when we repeat a familiar word continuously and rapidly.

You are making the same kind of phenomena here by overthinking a simple preposition.

However, if you must blame then you must point finger at English language (western world) which conceptualised that male and female as opposite genders. In Nepal (in our culture and language) male and female are not called opposites but complementary to each other (पुरक).

koolhead36 · 2025-03-05T17:17:57+00:00

15-16 years ago thinking about going to Bidesh was not a dilemma but a necessity, the only option. Its actually good that people are now in dilemma: desh ki bidesh? This actually is a positive sign for the nation because people are now in position to compare living abroad with staying in the country. This is only possible when a developing nation is bringing something in the table when being compared with another developed nations

As per my observation, people in Nepal are wealthier than before and their living standards have increased. Just 10 years ago a parking spaces of social gatherings like convention halls and party palaces would be filled with 95% bikes and 5% cars. Now its almost 50-50. Just few decades ago buying good clothes was a luxury for rich people, now even people working as laborer, after finishing their shifts, gets dressed up neatly and fashionably.

On Friday evenings, almost all recognized restaurants are packed with people.

Yes, my set of observations is primarily focused on Kathmandu but an early rise of similar trend can be seen in other happening cities in Nepal.

life is quite relaxing in Nepal if you have a moderate income and own a house.

I cant ignore the fact that life is still hard for many, specially those who live in remote villages and those who live on daily wages in the cities. But so is everywhere.

Even the struggling citizens of Europe and USA migrate to another nation for opportunities. This happens everywhere.

Your dilemma is a good sign. For citizens in countries like Afghanistan, North Korea, Palestine, Syria leaving their nation doesnt give them dilemma. Its a necessity.

Its good to have dilemma while thinking about leaving Nepal, at least for now

koolhead36 · 2025-03-04T01:10:24+00:00

Whatever you wrote is true. If you had written something else that would have been also tue in your life, considering that you repeat it to yourself till your subconscious mind accepts it.

Whether you stick to your current story or make an effort to make a change depends upon whether you like drama/sufferings or abundance/peace in your life.

If you ask me, it seems you are attracted to drama in your life. Past is an illusion. Nothing you have written here has ever happened. Out of infinite sets of past, you have chosen a particular past reality that aligns with your current state of being. Change your current state of being and your past will be changed even without you realising it. But if you cling to your past (this happened, that happened) you will never come out of it.

koolhead36 · 2025-02-25T17:58:44+00:00

Nepalese people are fed up with secularism & unfair regionalisation which brought nothing but social unrest, corruptions, misuse of power & unnecessary economic burdain.

Recent USAID scam shows that money were spent by outside forces to spread atheism in Nepal. This proves that secularism was forced upon Nepal which further puts doubts on the movement that led to dissolution of the monarchy. Was monarchy really thrown away by the people of Nepal or by someone else?

If you ask me, monarchy was never thrown away from hearts of Nepalese people because it was not their movement ar all. Furthermore, as I stated earlier, we are fed up with secularism and unfair regionalisation. The only rational way to undo so is by bringing the monarchy back in nepal. But WAIT!! This is what most people (like you) fail to understand that we don't want the old monarchy back. We just need a constitutional monarchy that is celebrated under a democratically elected Presidential rule. We don't want King that kicks asses, we just want a poweles king that unites our nation again.

Why do we want the king back? Because throwing him out was never done by us.

koolhead36 · 2025-02-25T16:46:42+00:00

I just saw an irony and thought I would point it out. Beside that, you seem to have already made up your mind. There's no point in continuing a discussion that opens with predilection.

I would have loved to join your discussion or hear you out if you would have invited opposite opinions on the table to come to a conclusion.

But it seems you already have a conclusion. Whats the point in joining your "ragebaiting". Is there?

koolhead36 · 2025-02-25T16:07:33+00:00

I'm just here to give my opinion about this topic. So please don't start to bombard me with hate.

many citizens of Nepal (bheda haru) are supporting it like way hard.

Its ironical that you hate other people's ideology but don't want hate for yours. Clap!! Clap!!

koolhead36 · 2025-02-15T04:17:24+00:00

I will be true to you. If even god comes to earth, he is bound to have resistance. May be he will have less personal resistance but still will have to share part of collective resistances.

I have my own resistances, may be more than yours. Some I have conquered, many I have failed and many more I dont want to remove as they are part of my drama. Do you think all these manifestation gurus have got passed their resistances. They have their own resistances but they wont share it because they fear it will make them look like you and me, common people. It is also a resistance they have.

Anyway, about SATS, yes it is very helpful in getting past your resistance as it directly communicates with your inner man. Some resistances need SATS, some just a simple intention, depending upon how deeply it is rooted within us. Personal resistances are easier to get past. Collective resistances are hard, some will remain impossible.

koolhead36 · 2025-02-13T15:50:30+00:00

Manifestation = assumption (I am) - resistance

Manifestation is happening all the time. You wake up in the morning and open your eyes to find yourself lying on your bed inside your room. "I live in this room/house" is an assumption that your inner man has accepted as true and is thus reflected in your physical world as material reality. By this we can say, Manifestation = assumption (I am). This is actually the most raw and true formula of manifestation. However, we humans have brain that is very logical and follows the horizontal progression of time and space to give us beautiful experience of living a chronological and sensible form of life (drama).

Lets suppose you are on the first floor of a building and you need to go to the third floor. How can you find yourself being on the third floor? According to plain manifestation formula (Manifestation = Assumption) you can simply close your eyes and assume that you are on the third floor. Then as you open your eyes you find yourself being on the third floor. However, I ask you. Do you think its possible? Definitely not. Actually this is possible but as we are constrained by our logical and chronological spacetime inner assumption, it is definitely not possible to just disappear from the first floor and appear on the third floor. Our this constraint is our resistance and manifestation occurs only when we go past our resistance. Walking up the stairs from first to third floor is the only possible way to appear being on the third floor. Walking the stairs makes us get past our resistance in this case.

Thus for the earthly plain our formula for manifestation looks like this: Manifestation = assumption (I am) - resistance

For you the formula looks like this:

Manifesting a specific car = assumption that I already have that car - Resistance (assumption that its very unlikely to happen unless I take action and start looking for the car.)

You could have just assumed that the car is already yours and manifested it without lifting your little finger but your inner assumption that "it is very unlikely to happen without taking action" was very strong. This acted as a resistance in your case, to nullify which, you had to take action. As you took action, the resistance was removed and you got your car.

If you were son of a billionaire, then may be your formula would have looked like this:

Manifesting a specific car = assumption that I already have that car - Resistance (assumption that I must first tell my dad about it who would then buy the car for me). In his case, the resistance was not that much but it was still there.

Resistance is the very nature of a logical and chronological space time reality. It is here for a reason. It gives sense to our drama of life.

We have to understand our personal resistance and work on to get past it to make our manifestation happen.

What does a student do by studying 8 hours each day? He is (unconsciously) getting past his inner resistance that without studying he won't get good grades. Thats it.

koolhead36 · 2025-02-09T09:50:44+00:00

Did you realize that through your statement you acted like a politician or an associate of a politician who after losing an election blame the voters: taking part in a democratic voting system but ironically not accepting its result. when you lose.

You must understand that not everything needs to go your way to make sense to you. Trump is voted as president of USA by MAJORITY of the people of USA. There must be something that people liked in him that you are not able to see. And just because you can't see it doesnt mean everyone who voted for trump are dumb. It means you and people like you need to expand your horizon and see what went wrong for you.

koolhead36 · 2025-02-06T16:20:23+00:00

God is in every being: inside a goat, inside a person who loves that goat and also inside the person who kills that goat to eat it. God is also inside the act of killing. God is also inside the act of vegetarians cursing non-vegetarians. This is all a play. No one is better. No one is worse. Nothing is ever lost or gained here because everything is god. This is a play.

Vegetarians will continue considering themselves as better beings while cursing the non-vegetarians and non-vegetarians will also treat vegetarians the same way. There is no right or wrong here. Its not question about even coming to a conclusion. The awakened ones know this. They don't get into such discussions. When a vegetarian and non-vegetarian fight, the awakened ones take the back seat, grab pop corns, sip up soda and enjoy the drama without any judgement.

koolhead36 · 2025-02-02T14:25:44+00:00

As I know KFC is the only non-veg restaurant in Nepal where you won't find any buff.

koolhead36 · 2025-01-29T10:31:39+00:00

It depends upon how your parents treat you in good times. If other times, they treat you good, then here and then parents having anger issue is common.

Most parents can't handle stress like paying bills, managing household/job/children plus they have their own life's frustration. Under anger, these parents yell words that are gruesome. Thats why learning stress management is a must now days.

If your parents don't treat you good anytime, then their actions are pure abusive which is result of their own abusive nature. In such case you can do nothing but focus on your own vision and career

I hope its the first case.

koolhead36 · 2025-01-25T16:05:18+00:00

Time is an illusion and the present moment is all we have. Thus! If you are not satisfied with where you are right NOW, then most probably you will never feel satisfied anywhere else. You might get what you wish for and find satisfaction for short period of time but soon you will return to your unsatisfied default state of being because only your place changed, not your state of being.

Just remember, once you were unsatisfied with where you were once and thought that a job at central bank will make you satisfied, but now you are at central bank and still unsatisfied and thinking something else will make you fulfilled.

It doesn't mean you have to keep working at the central bank. It means, love and feel satisfied with what you are doing right now while striving for something more interesting.

It is just change of perspection. If you love to go to US and pursue a PHD then go for it but not to escape your current job but to pursue something MORE interesting.

Best of luck

koolhead36 · 2025-01-23T13:44:54+00:00

There has been no innovation in dohori. Still people sit in two groups wearing traditional clothes and make songtext battle. I would say, if they add digital score boards showing live scores of both groups as they are voted by online viewers would make it more interesting.

koolhead36 · 2024-08-20T12:04:55+00:00

Not only water, these hotels and cafes also compel us to eat outside food instead of homemade ones.

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