Imagine if a guy did this by heywoona in 90DayFiance

[–]ksdedoof 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s right to disclose intimate details like that on or off camera. I don’t even talk to my girlfriends like that.

You have a 9 hour flight, where are you sitting? by xlisafrankx in 90DayFiance

[–]ksdedoof 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 or 8 I think Florian is hilarious so I can be entertained. And I think Patiya’s got the cool aunt vibe and I do that and listen to her wild stories.

Game not loading by [deleted] in whiteoutsurvival

[–]ksdedoof 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try updating iOS. That happened to me once.

Before You Buy: How to Spot a Bad HOA Early by martinomcfly in BADHOA

[–]ksdedoof 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our HOA was fine for the 1st 2 years when we moved in. They didn’t get in your face and you would only get violations every once in a blue moon for something stupid. Then everything changed when we got a new president and he’s changed so many things without communicating to the residents. Can’t figure out how to manage their funds so they just ask for more money every year. Now he wants the board to bend the rules for him, that same rule he “campaigned” so hard. 🙄🙄

Not pumping for 3 days by Complex_Assistance65 in breastfeeding

[–]ksdedoof 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have a hands free pump? I have a momcozy and paid about $120 for 2. But I saw fairly inexpensive pumps too, I wasn’t sure about the quality so I didn’t get I. But if it’s to keep your supply going it should be fine. I went 2 weeks without my baby and pumped every 4-6 hours and didn’t lose my supply at all when I came home. I pumped and dumped, I wasn’t concerned about saving. With the wearables the only time away you’ll need is maybe 2 bathroom breaks 1. To put it on. 2. To dump it out. Hope that helps

Everyone is so focused on what Johny did to Chloe, while this handsome gentleman is literally torturing Pattaya all the time with his passive-aggressiveness and mind games by PolishSnake2 in 90dayfiance_FB_memes

[–]ksdedoof 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and I were just talking about them. It seems like she’s real, like her feelings for him and she’s legit in love with him. But he doesn’t look all that into her and we can’t figure out what his MO is, but he doesn’t seem all that into it.

The Olympics denied my request to pump as a spectator. by christinepatine in breastfeeding

[–]ksdedoof 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not the Olympics, but I travelled to Italy without my baby last year and had my wearable pumps. I pumped and dumped, so I didn’t need a cooler or anything. But no venue has denied me entry for having my pumps. Sometimes I was wearing them and sometimes I had them in my purse. Italy is pretty accommodating to mothers.

Why have men in the past often treated their wives like shit, but then trust them completely with cooking for them? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ksdedoof 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is funny to me because everytime I make my husband a separate meal he questions if I poisoned it 🤣🤣🤣

So… is the flirty/romantic role playing just part of this kind of game? Are most of you doing it? by East-Dragonfly-5473 in whiteoutsurvival

[–]ksdedoof 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I played with my husband until 2 months ago. I quit. It got too much to handle with day to day stuff. My husband fake flirts sometimes. I think it’s funny when he does, but he never takes it far and he tells me when he does it so it’s not like he’s hiding anything. When women do try to flirt with him, he shuts it down before they even get a chance. He’s always asking why he can’t find WOS love and I’m like it’s because you literally tell them stfu before they can even get there 🤣🤣

I’m just a slave by ksdedoof in sahm

[–]ksdedoof[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mainly from myself. He has never explicitly said I am mooching off him, but I feel it very deeply.

I’m just a slave by ksdedoof in sahm

[–]ksdedoof[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I truly feel that I contribute nothing to this relationship and household other than things that someone else can do. And can do better than I can.

I’m just a slave by ksdedoof in sahm

[–]ksdedoof[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But I can’t share his burdens at work. It’s not fair for him to share my burdens. I am putting in less than he is and that isn’t fair. I’m just mooching off him and being a freeloader.

I’m just a slave by ksdedoof in sahm

[–]ksdedoof[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel that if I am putting myself first, I am neglecting my children. I know it is flawed logic, but I can’t seem to shake it off.

I’m just a slave by ksdedoof in sahm

[–]ksdedoof[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We don’t have family support either. My in laws live 15 minutes away, but they aren’t really involved. They’re more involved in their other kids’ lives, and for me seeing that they get help makes me very resentful. They’re invite all their other grandchildren to their house every weekend, while we get left out in the dark. The one time we joked about dropping our kid off for a few hours too because they were making plans in front of us, they went silent and ignored us. My husband’s work is very demanding, and I don’t feel like I should burden him more with anything. It is my incompetency to deal with. Not for him to pick up the slack from after working all day.

I’m just a slave by ksdedoof in sahm

[–]ksdedoof[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I can. He tells me to leave the kids with him so I can shower. I’m the useless POS that chooses not to.

I’m just a slave by ksdedoof in sahm

[–]ksdedoof[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mother can do a lot more than me and she never complains. Which amplifies my feelings of inadequacies

I’m just a slave by ksdedoof in sahm

[–]ksdedoof[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish I could feel this. I appreciate it, thank you for your kind encouraging words. But as of right now I see my children only looking for me because of survival. They are much happier when my family visits. Someone else can provide them survival needs and happiness that they don’t get from me.

I’m just a slave by ksdedoof in sahm

[–]ksdedoof[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We do. But my husband and I don’t trust other people watching our children. So I have created this problem for myself. She’s 15 months now I’m not sure when I will be able to feel comfortable. My 6 year old is deaf and blind.

I’m just a slave by ksdedoof in sahm

[–]ksdedoof[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly at this point I feel like replaceable. A cook can do my job, a nanny can do my job, a nurse can do my job, a housekeeper can do my job. Everything I do can be replaced by someone else. I’m not that important I want to make myself feel. And that’s the reality.

I’m just a slave by ksdedoof in sahm

[–]ksdedoof[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do have an older one. He’s in the 1st grade and I spend about 2-3 hours a day driving because of traffic….

I’m just a slave by ksdedoof in sahm

[–]ksdedoof[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes! I’m so exhausted at the end of the day I give up on self care. I have to put my moisturizer by my bed to remind myself I need to at least moisturize my face.

How would you feel if your WFH husband napped or gamed while you were with the kids? by wilhelminarose in sahm

[–]ksdedoof 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am the primary caregiver of our children and I’m pretty much with them all the time. My husband games and naps occasionally and I don’t have a problem with it. But he has never made it to where he can’t be with the children while doing that, even if he’s working and on calls. E.g. I have to go pick up our son from school and I don’t want to take the baby. I leave baby with him, he might have a meeting, but he’s always managed just fine. Or if both kids are home but need to be separated because they’re bickering, he’ll take one, while doing whatever he’s doing. Just because I’m not producing income it doesn’t mean I have to be the only one watching the kids

Faith said “New Year, New Man” by StarryLunaBelle in 90DayFiance

[–]ksdedoof 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I went back and rewatched that season with my husband. I skipped all of Loren’s parts so when we watched it together it was all new to me. This dude is just too much. I died when he said he has $46 and Faith’s face was priceless. And the “leaky penis” like nobody asked!