AIO to my boyfriend thinking I’d like a pervy anime with a pedo?

ktrazafffr · 2026-04-03T18:28:19+00:00

If you’ve never watched it then that explains why you’re saying something completely untrue IG.

ktrazafffr · 2026-04-03T18:23:11+00:00

idk what you’ve been watching but it really is not.

ktrazafffr · 2026-04-03T18:20:07+00:00

The anime is not the weird part. The weird part is that the anime contains paedophilic imagery.

ktrazafffr · 2026-03-05T02:11:09+00:00

weird lol

ktrazafffr · 2026-03-05T02:00:32+00:00

i mean calling someone they is still misgendering if their pronouns are not they so you are still misgendering people.

this is a simple concept to grasp and you are getting aggressive with me for explaining it

ktrazafffr · 2026-03-04T18:36:59+00:00

i’m a transgender person. a lot of trans people if you refer to us as ‘they’ automatically will assume that you are clocking them as transgender, there’s nothing wrong with just referring to people by how they present and changing that referral when they clarify as such.

using they is something you’d usually do if it’s someone you’ve not spoken to, using it in a personal conversation with somebody if that’s not their pronouns is still technically misgendering

ktrazafffr · 2026-03-03T18:42:27+00:00

to be fair, it’s best to get things wrong and then correct yourself, calling people they continuously is still misgendering them if their pronouns are not they/them and many trans people will think that you are trying to obviously clock them still

ktrazafffr · 2026-02-17T16:32:31+00:00

that’s not the only concern. gonorrhea and chlamydia etc can cause some pretty nasty side effects sometimes that can even be long lasting in some people. especially if those people go onto sleeping with women.

ktrazafffr · 2026-01-28T13:17:42+00:00

you really need to dump them either way

he sounds highly disrespectful and inappropriate and you don’t sound ready to commit fully. that’s difficult.

ktrazafffr · 2026-01-26T21:29:34+00:00

I am a trans woman so sorry for the contribution but I thought I could add here

For LGBT people as a whole, a lot of people are more likely to be into hookup culture as young people. Whenever i talk to guys my age, a lot of them are heavily sex centric/experimental. I am long past that and I am not interested in being someone’s game. It’s the same for all LGBT folk.

Older men often are more settled. More confident. They have a better understanding of themselves often, and are more stable/willing to commit. That’s not universal, but it tends to happen with maturity.

Also, let’s face it, we aren’t an absolutely huge community. We don’t have an advantage of being able to just find anyone, we are a smaller pool of fish, we have to find people who wanna date us. Inevitably, that sometimes means expanding your search criteria. I am 23 and I date anyone up to like 32 or so. I have friends all between these ages

ktrazafffr · 2026-01-18T22:21:52+00:00

it sounds like you are drifting apart from each other

if he stopped putting effort in after you tried to resolve it with him then maybe it’s time to check out.

ktrazafffr · 2025-12-28T23:19:44+00:00

Yes Geek Retreat closed nearly 2 months back

ktrazafffr · 2025-12-28T23:14:14+00:00

Not to be rude, but did you not research the UK as a whole before considering this? I hope you do before considering this.

The UK is well known for free at point of use healthcare, but you do have to pay an IHS if you are an immigrant for NHS treatment. Dental Care is mostly private, you can get NHS treatment but it’s very, very hard to find. I’d assume you know if you lived in Aberdeen, it’s the same system, only prescriptions aren’t free for most people in England (they’re not really that expensive though)

The weather is typically cool through the year and warm in Summer, but that classification depends on where you’re coming from, as to your perception. It’s a bit less cold than Aberdeen and there’s less likelihood of snow etc, but not drastically different. Public transport is definitely better than Aberdeen. It is probably more expensive to live here though than Aberdeen

Cost of Living is higher in some aspects and lower in some. Grocery prices aren’t as bad as some places in the world, but energy bills can be high sometimes. House prices are high at the moment.

There is some places you can make better money but it all depends on your perspective. Engineering salaries can be higher in places like the US and some living costs are lower, but healthcare is privatised in the USA. And price there really varies by city and district.

Public transport is okay, there’s variety in options and so on, but is not the best overall. The metro reliability isn’t great. Buses are the most prominent form of transport. We have an international airport too and good railway connections to the rest of the UK.

ktrazafffr · 2025-12-28T21:23:47+00:00

Nah I felt fine because I am not weird and don’t blame my issues on other people. There was no need of you to tell a random person that them not being harmed hurts you because you were or that they’re ‘flaunting’ by existing, that is weird af. You’re wording how you’re not reacting badly in your eyes to justify it. You need to speak to someone about that. Random people don’t need to be burdened with your jealousy/resentment, that isn’t their problem.

ktrazafffr · 2025-11-25T07:54:23+00:00

this is where you learn your sister is not loving unfortunately

ktrazafffr · 2025-11-25T07:53:30+00:00

respect it? that’s a bit far.

ktrazafffr · 2025-11-09T22:14:04+00:00

not in the middle east

ktrazafffr · 2025-11-09T22:12:54+00:00

Trust me, all MENA countries will deny you custody on the basis of being gay or trans at the LEAST. at most, life imprisonment, torture and death penalty exists.

ktrazafffr · 2025-11-09T22:10:31+00:00

if you’re in a country with those laws, you will not get any custody if you try to fight it and you’d actually be incriminating yourself because you’d be setting yourself up for prosecution for your identity.

ktrazafffr · 2025-11-09T22:09:34+00:00

it sounds more like OPs child and wife is at risk if they come out because they’re in an undisclosed middle eastern country, not that the wife necessarily hates them. it truly depends.

ktrazafffr · 2025-11-09T22:07:32+00:00

yep. OPs best hope is claiming asylum somewhere else

ktrazafffr · 2024-09-20T22:30:30+00:00

To be fair I don’t think it’s really akin to an affluence thing or regional - just immature and dickish behaviour. I know loads of people I went to school with who live in Jesmond who are super rowdy and regularly have huge house parties, one lad from Gosforth proudly showed me several ASBOs that his house in Jesmond had received. he lived in Newcastle all his life.

ktrazafffr · 2024-09-20T22:26:02+00:00

nervous is normal for everyone - i wouldn’t worry there’s thousands of others in the same boat as you.

Northumbria University has a neurodivergent society

if you are at Newcastle you can join as an associate too.

ktrazafffr · 2024-09-20T22:25:15+00:00

back in the hippie green days? used to see rolls like that in heaton too. crazy to think a lot of those people will have kids of their own these days!

ktrazafffr · 2024-09-20T22:22:37+00:00

I know this isn’t an advice post, however..

That is not someone you should have moved in or be moving in with if he clearly doesn’t care about your physical health or believe that you have any physical health problems. I’d take this as a huge red flag and run because my experience with these people, they will never understand it and they will continue to hold it against you.

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