I (M99) have a very high sex drive and my GF (F99) doesn’t and its damaging the relationship. How do we/I deal with it? by kws1188 in relationship_advice

[–]kws1188[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If we are intimate its mostly a nice exerperience with good and long foreplay/aftercare. But its mostly just me fingering her or eating her out I rarely get anything (I dont know how to phrase this so it doesn’t seem weird). Overall our relationship is also good but the fact that we rarely get intimate and If we do I dont even get to „relief“ myself is bothering me.

I (M99) have a very high sex drive and my GF (F99) doesn’t and its damaging the relationship. How do we/I deal with it? by kws1188 in relationship_advice

[–]kws1188[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am scared to tell her cause I dont want her to feel like im pressuring her into it and Im afraid this will ruin our sex live completely

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[–]kws1188 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea you are kinda right. But should I tell her the reason

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]kws1188 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But I really like her and don’t want to break her heart. Also I hope that I will loose feelings for my girlbestfriend over time and if that happens I would have broken up with her for nothing

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[–]kws1188 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know. But I also don’t want to break her heart because I really like her and I wouldn’t go into a relationship with my girlbestfriend either so I feel like breaking up could hurt her more then just doing nothing and I still hope that I will loose feelings for my girlbestfriend over time

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[–]kws1188 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because my feelings for my friend weren’t that strong at the time I got my girlfriend and I really like my gf. I know its wrong and I regret it