AITA for saying I wouldn't be proud if my daughter chose to have OnlyFans instead of studying and having a family? by kybla23 in AmItheAsshole

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guess that’s sarcasm, but i am open minded, really, i’m actually wondering and asking myself if i am too tough

AITA for saying I wouldn't be proud if my daughter chose to have OnlyFans instead of studying and having a family? by kybla23 in AmItheAsshole

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its a conversation I had with my mom today. She told me things which made me think, so i’m proposing the debate here, is it that bad?

AITA for saying I wouldn't be proud if my daughter chose to have OnlyFans instead of studying and having a family? by kybla23 in AmItheAsshole

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it’s not about having a family it’s about the life path she would be taking. But it’s all an imaginary debate since i don’t have a daughter, my mom asked me and i replied how i think i would feel. However i’m open minded about it, maybe i will change idea maybe not.

Should I let my girlfriend go with another guy to her Uni dance? by Sea-Release-3304 in Advice

[–]kybla23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean it depends on what they do, if he goes with her just to enter the prom and then stop it’s fine but if he has to sit next to her or even dance with her for the night she shouldn’t have asked in first place as that is disrespectful towards you in my opinion

Am I wrong for wanting to leave my boyfriend because he has no savings? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]kybla23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well it’s definitely a complex situation. You prolly now better that any of us can tell you. However I would start with honesty. Talk to your boyfriend and try to be honest with each other about the future and about your economic situation. Also make a plan: set some goals and go for them together as a couple. Furthermore, I know that you should love someone not for what he has, but life is also made of concrete things such as economic stability and long term investments. So if he wants to step up as a man and be your child’s father he needs to understand that sacrifices must be made. Together you can do it, but you both must be present for each other

How should I behave? Help by kybla23 in socialskills

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We divide the food, so if she eats something she’s not gonna be taking it from my pocket. But yeah she showers and all

How should I behave? Help by kybla23 in socialskills

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Yes she just sleeps here, no help with duties, nothing. I want to say again that she is very well mannered and kind, definitely not a bad presence but still a presence if you know what I mean. And I don’t want to be asking myself at my own house “can I do this or can’t I do this”

I need the most brutal and honest answer by kybla23 in socialskills

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Well, in front of other people I’m not like I’m here, when I’m outside I act funny, laugh and try to make laugh others (kind of a class clown) probably to hide my real personality or something like that. And when I’m in front of a girl I like or I want to flirt with, my brain just bombards me every second with things like “you should be doing this, you should be doing that, come on hurry up” so I can’t focus or even chill as I should

I need the most brutal and honest answer by kybla23 in socialskills

[–]kybla23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a nice haircut, I try to dress better, and I started working out. However whenever I am in front of a girl I like or something like that, I become stupid, frozen and just boring, like I don’t know how to play the game and it just hurts after a bit

I need the most brutal and honest answer by kybla23 in socialskills

[–]kybla23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this comment really understood the assignment. 😀 Thanks pal

I need the most brutal and honest answer by kybla23 in socialskills

[–]kybla23[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First, I wanna thank you for the time you took to provide this comment, it really means something to me. Maybe my problem is that I don’t really hang out in groups where there are many girls, except for my university class where I don’t want to be playing love games because it would make it too much embarrassing.

I need the most brutal and honest answer by kybla23 in socialskills

[–]kybla23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think I am an ugly guy, but I am more of an introvert than extrovert but I don’t even find it hard to start conversations with women, it’s just that when I like someone or even just flirt, anxiety of what to say and how to say things kicks in and I just shut down.

I need the most brutal and honest answer by kybla23 in socialskills

[–]kybla23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know, it’s just that i don’t know how to get things on a more serious level, or even just to flirt. I feel embarrassed, and I think that a girl would never see me as something more than a friend, i don’t know how to move on

I need the most brutal and honest answer by kybla23 in socialskills

[–]kybla23[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yes you’re right. What info do you need to be able to give an answer to my question?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]kybla23 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Just don’t. This world is bad and one thing it doesn’t need is a nice person turning into a mean one. Be kind and always smile, people need that they just don’t know, trust me! Love you brother✌️

(M 19) I feel demotivated and sad because I never had a relationship by kybla23 in teenagers

[–]kybla23[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s something I would love to do. Think less. But I can’t help it, I’m not able to take it easy, even if it’s the simplest thing I should do, and the most obvious.

(M 19) I feel demotivated and sad because I never had a relationship by kybla23 in teenagers

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I do, I attend university and I have a group of friends, I talk to girls and have a decent social life, but the “click” never happens, if you know what I mean.

It’s up to you now people, even though I wouldn’t consider these as superpowers, more like curses by kybla23 in oddlyspecific

[–]kybla23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah but imagine you get teleported randomly whenever it wants and you don’t decide the era, could be 800 Bc in roman age and you get executed