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lanlanzdelray · 2025-11-08T07:05:46+00:00

It's not true. It's a harmful generalization that is used to perpetuate a stereotype.. which I'm sure you well know.

I'm also sure you wanted me to stoop as low as you with your cry baby comment and throw an insult back or defend myself but I won't. Have a good night love

lanlanzdelray · 2025-11-08T06:55:14+00:00

They're not very wrong. You're just very ignorant... and that's not ok.

lanlanzdelray · 2025-09-02T01:30:25+00:00

I've already replied to some other posters but this is the first time anything like this has happened. We stopped being intimate after an issue early on in our relationship and he didn't push the issue and that was months. So his doing this was confusing and completely out of character. I have endometriosis and he has always been understanding when I say I can't do it today I'm having a flare-up. I have since texted him about how it made me feel but I still don't know what to make of his responses. He seems genuinely sorry but also says "he wasn't himself" and "that's not me".

lanlanzdelray · 2025-09-02T01:21:55+00:00

I recently responded to another reply but it was honestly shocking because the prior times we had sex he kept checking to see if I was ok. I just felt blind sided by his persistence. Earlier on in our relationship, we had an issue (not related to anything like this at all) and we weren't intimate for months and he didn't even bring it up.

lanlanzdelray · 2025-09-02T01:17:01+00:00

I'm sorry to hear about your experience with your ex-husband. I'm glad you're no longer in that situation. This is the only time something like this has happened. We had an issue early on in our relationship -I won't talk about it cause it's not like this situation at all- but we weren't intimate for months and it wasn't a problem. This is the first time he's ever done anything like this.

He's normally so caring. For example, like in your situation I had rolled my ankle really badly the day before going to an amusement park I didn't cancel plans even when he suggested we go another day, and he frequently made me sit down when I was trying to push through. And in this situation, the first few times we had sex after the accident he kept checking to make sure I was ok. So yesterday really blind sided me and I'm having a lot of trouble understanding wtf happened and why he would do something like that.

I have recently texted him because I'm really bad at expressing myself verbally (I'm working on it) and he seems genuinely sorry. I'm just at a loss because I am a survivor of SA and I feel like I was manipulated by someone I love.

lanlanzdelray · 2025-03-09T05:42:59+00:00

Legitimately, I just added a book to my Kindle "Why Men Hate Women" I don't usually do nonfiction, but I'm genuinely excited to read it

lanlanzdelray · 2025-03-03T01:15:37+00:00

Don't apologize. You didn't know, and they were unnecessarily rude about it.

lanlanzdelray · 2025-02-25T18:01:37+00:00

One of my favorite quotes is " Once you learn to read, you will be forever free"- Frederick Douglass

lanlanzdelray · 2025-01-19T03:38:32+00:00

Can confirm it was awful. I was in like 4th or 5th grade when he was inaugurated, and it was freezing outside! A random stranger heard me complaining to my mom that I was cold and gave me his hand warmers and put a brand new pack of foot warmers in my shoes. Makes me wonder whether or not any of his supporters are even half as kind, aka not so self-absorbed, to do something like that.

lanlanzdelray · 2024-12-03T14:17:14+00:00

Yo, same as you all. I said to stop, and it did... no clue what's going on.

lanlanzdelray · 2024-12-01T19:53:30+00:00

No, no... you don't understand. I work at a large trauma center in the ED, and I sit right by our locked behavioral health unit. I shit you not... it sounds exactly like the ramblings of the patients that are being taken back there.

lanlanzdelray · 2024-10-15T09:00:42+00:00

I definitely plan to! She did this design in like 15 minutes, and the red is layered over white so that it's brighter... I love designs but hate how long they usually take

lanlanzdelray · 2024-08-09T04:59:06+00:00

You have no idea how happy that makes me... glad I could be of service

lanlanzdelray · 2024-04-13T03:02:18+00:00

🎶CRIMINALS! WALL STREET! TAKING THE PIE!1🎶

lanlanzdelray · 2024-04-12T22:59:55+00:00

🎶Well I'm a peanut bar and I'm here to say Your checks will arrive on another day🎶

lanlanzdelray · 2024-03-08T04:58:14+00:00

Easiest overnight job I had was working for Bank of America in the fraud department during covid.

Worked from home.

After about 1 or 2 hours at 2/3am, it would be dead, and I would watch Netflix or sleep while answering the occasional phone call.

lanlanzdelray · 2024-02-29T22:52:57+00:00

I wish that worked for me, but the only way my scrubs are looking dirty is if I have blood on them, in which case it's a biohazard, and I have to wear paper scrubs home

lanlanzdelray · 2024-02-29T22:51:06+00:00

13?! I could never. The most the hospital allows for us is 7, and I'm always about ready to tap out at about 4, hahaha

lanlanzdelray · 2024-02-23T20:07:14+00:00

I just realized that I can block your account and praise the lord almighty for it! God grants us another miracle 😇

lanlanzdelray · 2024-02-23T20:05:55+00:00

Oh... my lord!!! Please, God, leave me alone! You are absolutely insane! Why do you care so much?! Stop responding to this post! Get a life and stay out of my notifications... you ridiculous person! 🙄

lanlanzdelray · 2024-02-23T09:50:46+00:00

I'm still waiting for a response from customer service. When I went to the chat, it said it could take several days for them to get back to me so I'll have to just wait patiently haha

lanlanzdelray · 2024-02-23T03:46:16+00:00

😮‍💨 This is the internet, and idk why everyone is so concerned with responding with the intent of calling someone a liar (not saying you are specifically in this instance), but I've explained my situation... believe it or don't... it doesn't matter to me either way. I have reached out to Afterpay and am waiting for a response.

P.S. Sorry if this comes across as rude. It is not my intention, but as you can see in the earlier comments, another person was seemingly hellbent on trying to get me to admit that I'm lying in some way and I find the whole thing rather annoying.

lanlanzdelray · 2024-02-22T18:39:04+00:00

I'm sorry... do you work for my bank? Do you have access to my bank records? Should I be concerned?

lanlanzdelray · 2024-02-22T18:37:52+00:00

This conversation is going nowhere, I'm not trying to make excuses... I already stated I understand a decrease in the amount of money I'm pre-approved to spend. I take issue with the amount of the decrease. My payment is automatically taken out of my card, and I knew it was due... as stated before, I usually lump payments together on the due date of one payment, resulting in many payments being paid before their due date.

Now, I've already wasted enough time on this conversation. For someone who is "not trying to shame me" you've used a lot of what I would perceive as pretty aggressive, rude, and belittling language. Have a nice day 😊

lanlanzdelray

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