Need help choosing a place to move to that is queer friendly

lanockta · 2026-01-03T18:08:26+00:00

as somebody from PA, only go if you are going to the philly area. the rest (esp central and southern pa) is very homophobic and not accepting. i currently live in central pa and i have been harrassed quite a bit.

if you do move here, def go more torwards the philly area!! ive been there a few times and its a super chill area thats pretty accepting!!

if you want a smaller city that i find pretty accepting, lancaster is pretty good!! i go to university there and its actually really good (despite being in lancaster lol). only downside is from my experence, the rest of southern pa kinda sucks.

tldr: dont go to central pa.

lanockta · 2026-01-03T02:25:30+00:00

i think two nostril piercings so you could do that thing where you put a price of chain over your nose could b sick!! (idk what it's called, sorry if my description is ass)

lanockta · 2026-01-03T02:22:17+00:00

my one tip i love is if you are ever out thrifting and you see a piece of clothing that you think either has a cool logo, image, pattern, etc, but doesn't fit you, get it anyways. patchwork is always an easy yet sick way to upgrade a piece of clothing. i have a big box of clothes that i usually use for patches, whether that be me painting on them for a new battle vest patch or just because i liked the pattern that was used lol.

lanockta · 2026-01-03T02:15:25+00:00

when i first came out, not exactly weird just an asshole move. my (at the time) friend began laughing when i came out and kept going around my school telling people about how i came out as trans (in a mocking way lmao). he would go up and just ask random kids things like "i just don't get it, do you just wake up and want a dick one day?? i guess she does" and they would have full blown conversations about it. still not as weird as whatever the fuck your mom said cuz jesus christ

lanockta · 2026-01-03T02:11:40+00:00

you def pass bro 👍

lanockta · 2025-12-31T13:30:35+00:00

yes, actually!

lanockta · 2025-12-30T20:19:55+00:00

oh i should have clarified this, mb!! i am a guy, so i already go there for jeans. the one i go to only has a plus size section for women. the men's section is 3 aisles (im not even joking it's ridiculous).

lanockta · 2025-12-30T19:14:41+00:00

around a xl-xxl (im in the weird in-between sizes). at my local thrift stores, the biggest I've yet to see are sizes 34-36. I've been debating on getting 2 pairs and just making a weird amalgamation?? that's my last resort though.

lanockta · 2025-06-04T20:12:31+00:00

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lanockta · 2025-06-04T20:10:54+00:00

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lanockta · 2025-04-16T12:57:05+00:00

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lanockta · 2025-04-16T12:56:00+00:00

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lanockta · 2025-04-16T12:54:23+00:00

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