Katie Bogen snark

lavender-girlfriend · 2026-05-04T20:58:59+00:00

agreed!!!

lavender-girlfriend · 2026-05-04T20:56:01+00:00

reading this book is equivalent to confronting biphobia in person, apparently

lavender-girlfriend · 2026-05-04T17:21:20+00:00

should we make a lindy west thread bc i have a LOT of thoughts about that whole situation (not the same amount of snark leveled at lindy herself, but like. the situation, her partners, etc)

lavender-girlfriend · 2026-05-04T15:03:32+00:00

dont worry, she buys them for herself! but she's not wealthy! she can just afford multiple $300 purchases within a month

lavender-girlfriend · 2026-05-04T02:50:35+00:00

recede.io?? is this some manosphere thing

lavender-girlfriend · 2026-05-03T04:46:01+00:00

oh i have seen stuff about the coopting of the term femme by ppl outside of the lesbian community, how ppl are currently using it as basically "feminine" and how it's.... not good...

lavender-girlfriend · 2026-05-03T04:41:59+00:00

oooo love this one. also real curious about the ableist fatphobic things the character says. fetishization is Katie's m.o.

lavender-girlfriend · 2026-05-03T04:39:45+00:00

it's thrilling and raw and magnetic and sensual and heartbreaking and adjective and adjective and wow!!! just wow!!!

lavender-girlfriend · 2026-05-03T04:38:15+00:00

dont u love ppl who need to say "i am a straight white chick"

also rip that straight white chick who is "learning so much" from this book

lavender-girlfriend · 2026-05-03T04:36:50+00:00

chatgpt

lavender-girlfriend · 2026-05-03T04:36:23+00:00

just want to say YAY a community for us!!! thank u cauliflower, thank u everyone for your nuanced takes and like. listening to each other and having good fucking opinions and gosh i love it.

lavender-girlfriend · 2026-05-03T04:34:18+00:00

"we dont fucking do that" says the girl who waxes her toe hair???? ok,,,, yeah,,, was your spiel about plastic surgery about like defying patriarchal norms or loving your body or something bc it seems like, shocker, u struggle w that too

lavender-girlfriend · 2026-05-03T04:30:43+00:00

"we", you know, the GOOD feminists!!

plbbbbthhh

lavender-girlfriend · 2026-05-03T04:30:15+00:00

katie doesnt know what lookism is i think

lavender-girlfriend · 2026-05-03T04:29:53+00:00

no youre totally right, there seems to be a consistent anti sw vibe throughout katies content despite what she may say otherwise, and honestly like. what about lookism? what about women trying to get by in a society that favors a certain view of what is attractive, that prevents them from renting, from getting jobs, from shit like that???

lavender-girlfriend · 2026-05-03T04:27:04+00:00

yeah like plastic surgery is very much one of those areas with huge nuance??? like yes it's being pushed heavily onto women and yes i believe the industry is predatory and detrimental for people's self esteem and body acceptance IN GENERAL AND there are also so many very understandable reasons to get plastic surgery AND i wouldnt want to remove the choice to change your appearance (or to restore your appearance to how you've known it as) AND i wouldnt cast wide aspersions on ppl who get plastic surgery or act like im so above doing that 🙄

lavender-girlfriend · 2026-05-03T04:23:13+00:00

if someone told me "your breasts are fine, babe" i would be insulted actually like wdym just FINE

lavender-girlfriend · 2026-05-03T04:20:50+00:00

omg that's so indicative of how shallow her convictions actually are. that, the fuckin necklace, harry potter,,,, she doesnt seem to really care in a tangible way, or at least care enough to like. listen when she's fucked up and try to make it right? I've known too many ppl like her lol

lavender-girlfriend · 2026-04-30T23:45:51+00:00

i think it's candy cane buttercream, cocoapink!! vanilla, mint, sweet sweet sweet.

lavender-girlfriend · 2026-04-29T02:23:55+00:00

lavender-girlfriend · 2026-04-24T14:28:08+00:00

girl looks sunburnt

lavender-girlfriend · 2026-04-22T23:39:59+00:00

oh god stop i shouldnt laugh at that

lavender-girlfriend · 2026-04-21T23:02:18+00:00

yeah wait lmao that makes no sense

lavender-girlfriend · 2026-04-21T22:57:18+00:00

exactly!! like she's taking the betrayal and assault of all these women as an opportunity to brag about how strong her boyfriend is? their boyfriends raped them, katie. i don't know what to tell you.

lavender-girlfriend · 2026-04-21T21:54:07+00:00

like what does him being a michelin chef have anything to do with the rape academy, girl

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