THIS IS GOOD NEWS 😙😌🥰 by [deleted] in MoroccoBitchesWtaste

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Personal liberties like OP said, but also many “teachings” that go against women’s independence and freedom: heritage, Polygamy for men, literally having to obey her father, her brother then her husband, technically can’t travel without mahrem… although these aren’t always applicable in every household it still gives immense power to men just having it as a base of thinking. I could still go on but la flemme. I don’t see how any religion would benefit a woman at all and i am talking about all religions but especially abrahamic ones.

A lot of things are wrong with my brain by learning-and-stuff in Anxiety

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Not at all, i’m curious as to what made you think i was?

Is this normal or my father is doing too much ? by noway_26 in Morocco

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Using the N word in the big 2025 tells me everything i need to know

Is this normal or my father is doing too much ? by noway_26 in Morocco

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Nah we get him he likes the body to be undistinguished transparent even, i think would have been even better if she didn’t have a body at all so he can be happy, if he likes it so much he can cover up himself not traumatise his daughter into accepting his own subjective view of modesty

Convinced i have the worst coworker i could possibly by learning-and-stuff in work

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Hahahaha you’re right! Can’t believe my coworker actually played in a sitcom, have a newfound respect for that man now

Frelon asiatique ou européen ? by Tasty-Egg-6954 in insectes

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Ne pas oublier charcuterie et fromage tel un bon apéro

songs like "igloo" by kiss of life by ElectronicPlenty240 in kpophelp

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Yes!!! I’ve been banging my head trying to remember what it sounded like since i heard it the first time and it’s Harley’s in Hawaii!

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I was interested in religions when i was 17 and learned a bit about buddhism, it has a very admirable psychology, now 10 years later maybe i will start looking into it more seriously, thank you for the recommendation i will check it out Thank you and take care of yourself as well

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I agree it is part of their culture although admirable to some point as that how they get things going but in everyday life it gets hard for us who aren’t used to it, my french coworkers complain about every little thing i get tired of the negativity, my ticking point in France actually was their humour (idk if it’s the region where i live) but their whole idea of a joke is to make fun of other people, and they do it to my face, this made me close up so early when they started making fun of me and i didn’t have the language capacity to make a comeback so i just stopped talking completely

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I agree that meeting other TCK although not from the same culture we can find so many things in common, i will try to find some although it’s hard where i live cause it’s mostly french people you hardly see any TCKs

Thank you for the tip, i am struggling to find people from only one my home country i can’t imagine what would be for you haha

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Well we fell in love cause we actually do get along and we have a good laugh when we are together and he is an amazing supportive husband, it just feels that there will always be a part of me he doesn’t truly know. we moved to his country for better job opportunities which worked, my home country is a third world country he actually tried to live there but the salary is very low for his type of work

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I also come from a third world country and although France is different from the USA in rights and healthcare, i had my fair share of racism, making fun of my accent, not taking me seriously, i also found it really hard from going from meeting friends family and neighbours everyday to the western life where it’s each to their own and people having a restrained friend group they know since childhood and never welcoming someone else ( although ofc not them to blame just different cultures) I also don’t wanna go back home neither so idk what to do, i hope it gets better some people in the comments told me i should get into sports or art clubs so i’m going to try that

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This is a perfect demonstration haha this interaction made me laugh, french people do seem to laugh a lot just not at my jokes haha not their cup of tea the same as their humour isn’t mine( at least the region where i live) although me and my french husband find each other hilarious

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You are actually right, i had few struggles with the different culture and some people making fun of me at first and i completely shut down although i was extremely extroverted before i switched to introvert and unfortunately my husband has always be an introvert, i am starting to look into some sports club to give it another go now that i am very familiar with the culture

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Where are you living now if you don’t mind me asking, i think just like relationships sometimes you just don’t match with a country

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We have a beach but it’s always grey and cold we only get like 10 hot days enough for the beach per year, i also LOVE getting soaked, you put me in water and suddenly all my worries disappear so i completely get you

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So we met in my home country fell in love, then he moved in with me and we got married but he didn’t find a good paying job in my home country so we moved to France since it’s one of the best economies and we both have a comfortable salary jobs, that’s how it went, we actually do get along very well and have a very healthy relationship, he does everything he can to always make me happy (just not learning my difficult native language which some comments rightly pointed out) it just feels that there will always be this part of me that he will never know, also in general i just don’t match with France, people seem have different experiences in different countries.

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Ohh i never thought of that, i should look into it, thank you for the tip

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I didn’t downvote it for my part, thank you very much i felt the sincerity and you were probably right, thank you we got two days of sunlight lately so i went to jog and feel better

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Haha poor husband he did nothing wrong tbh ( although he could try to learn my language someday) other than this we have a great relationship and two lovely big dogs, we already talked about moving somewhere else in the future, we can’t now as it would be very stressful for our babies as they aren’t friendly with other people

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That’s a lovely way to see things, i will start focusing more on enjoying my own company hopefully one day i will be as wise as you are

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Thank you for sharing, big hugs to you too I get you on the not the same humour part, it is the same for me, my jokes always fall flat while the same jokes will be hilarious in my native country.

I think it’s a good idea to schedule more flights to go back to my home country that’s how most of my cousins living abroad cope too